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ok..well what HandyAndy27 said made me think..so timothy graduated last year from highschool and dosen't attend college, he has a job, his own apartment and car seem's he's got his life pretty mucg together...well think i started thinking about what andy said...i mean timothy wants me to move in right when i am 18 i won't even have money or anything to support myself but Timothy said he'll take care of that, that he'll take care of everything and that i don't need to worry. i mean thats great but i dont want his whole life to be centerd on me...i mean we love each ohter and i don't want that to happen to us you know? Timothy wants to be toegther as soon as possible, i mean he once said he would be mad at me if i went to college becasue that would make it longer till we could be toegther..but what kind of life will i have? Timothy works at some store like delivering things..is that the kind of life i'm going to have to live? i'm worried about my life too i mean how much will things chance if i move in with him? what kind of life will i have?
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hey! ok we're living in a world where the divorce rate is 50% and everyone seems to think they are in love and will stay with their significant other forever. in a world like this, you CANNOT let yourself be dependant on someone... you need to have a plan in case things don't work out... because let's be realistic, half the time they don't work out.
where do you live? there are no colleges around you or anything? you don't have to live with someone to be with them, and you can deffinitely go to college while living with this guy if you really wanted to. if college is something you are considering, then that's great and you should deffinitely do it, no matter what this guy or any other guy says. it's the most important thing you can do for yourself in order to secure the rest of your life and never have to worry about money. there are plenty of jobs out there that don't require an education and pay very little... but let's face it, there are also many people out there who want those jobs because they don't have an education.
yeah, not going to college now might sound like the easy way out, but it's not. college is so much fun and such an experience that helps you grow, mature and find yourself in addition to getting an education. unless you want to be stuck with a minimum wage paying job for the rest of your life and struggling to make ends meet, then you will do what your heart tells you to do and go to school. it's a rewarding experience no matter how you look at it, so don't let a guy control you and try to tell you what to do. if he loves you, he will want you to be happy and do what you think is best. he is being a bit selfish, so do what you feel is right! don't ever depend on a guy for anything... being independent is the best thing that you can do for yourself in today's world! :) good luck!
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Tell him, if he really loved you he'd let you go to college, so you can get a really good job, and so you could help him support things.
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What kind of life will you have? A bad one, where you are being controlled and supported (I doubt you'll even get that) by a man who seems to see you as a possesion more then an actual person with desires of her own. He doesn't even want the best for you (College). You will have very little money and the rose colored life picture he is painted will not happen. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh honey, but please don't do it. Just continue to date if you want too, if it's real love then you can move in together at a more intelligent age.
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