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My Sister
My sister is such a bitch. Everytime I do the slightest thing wrong she swears at me (eg. f*cking retard, f*cking moron). She searches for stuff I do wrong so she can yell at me. She thinks she's a perfect little angel, when she's not and fucks up just as much as I do, but when she does, she just shrugs it off and says "whatever". I've tried ignoring but it doesn't work. How can I make her stop calling me names ? I really appreciate any help because I can't take this.
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That's how me and my sister were
except the age difference.
You'll get along in a couple years.
I garuntee it.
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what happend to sisters are the best of friends in this story? well i have to say your sister is like any other older siblings/ realatives i mean i'm an only child so i wouldn't know about hte whoe sister relationship but i do have close older cousins they don't curse a me but they do get mad! and how do i deal...i tell my mom! and maybe your mom could talk to her...if it dosn't work...which i doubt it won't work ignoreing is the key. try to focus your anger into something else, like writing in a journal or like talk to a firend dosn't have to be about your sister just to cal yourself...and maybe one more possible reason why she has a cow when you do something...maybe because your younger and face it...all older siblings love to take advantage of the younger ones! but sursing is not her anser, and one day when your big sis is calm tr to explain your feelings to her i mean there has to be a day when yo two are friends right?? well ok then i hope this helped i g2g supposidly doing homework at the moment
-lee
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Everytime questions like these come up, I always have to ask where their parents are in this whole mess.
You are very young and your sister shouldn't even be allowed to call you these names for any reason. I'm going to assume that your parents don't exist in this.
I know it can't be easy to have to deal with being called those names and wanting to just hurt her because you feel so angry. When she calls you names for something you did, just walk away, go to your room or a room where she can't get in to yell at you. Don't fight back even though it's really hard. Get out a journal or something you can write in and write what you want to say to her, even if it means cussing on paper. Act like she's yor pillow and beat it up or something. Whatever helps without having to show her that you're angry with her. You have to make her think that you aren't listening anymore and you don't care.
This will eventually make her understand that if she's going to call you names or try to lecture you, she'll just be talking to herself because you are leaving everytime. But, what I think really needs to be done is that you need to let another family member know what's going on. And if yoyr parents let this happen, talk to a counselor at your school or someone that can help. I can't really see how someone can keep getting called horrible names and having to deal with it. It honestly sounds unbearable. Try letting someone know how you've been feeling lately.
-TheTeenGirl
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Just try to ignore it my sister hates the world so I do the slightest thing wrong she goes off on me.. or if she ain't bigger than you try to fight her.. if she is.. try to ignore it and go on with life.. hope I help
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klc23
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I have an older sister and she use to do that to me all the time. It was kinda just a phase and now were really nice to each other. Just talk to your mom like when your sister isnt around (even though it seems childish) You mom might talk to her.
-xoxJess
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id beat the sh*t out of her... but your talking to kayla. i dont know how it feels because im the only child. but i seriously would give her what she deserves. how old is she? tell your parents if you dont want to fight her. but seriously she needs a good as* woopin, that will teach her. or just start yelling back at her.
hope i helped.
&♥;kayla
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It sounds stupid. But try talking to her about it calmly. Tell her how it makes you feel when she yells at you and calls you names and inform her that everyone makes mistakes, even her. But you learn from them and they make you a better person.
Try not to get into a screqaming contest with her though.
I really hope that things work out for you.
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