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ok well... i have liked this boy for almost 3 years. and now me and him go out and it didnt take us long to kiss b.c we have kissed b4 and stuff.. but now we are to the point.. that he touches my boob and i like grope his penis. and like we talked about it he doesnt think we are going to fast and nor do i. we have been going out for almost 2 months... and i know! we wont go any farther.
so.. i dont know.. do you think we are going to fast.
and we touch ONLY outside of clothes.
well have like rules we made up..
btw im 14 and hes 14
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Normally, I would say yes quite readily because I think that at 14 you should be retaining as much of your innocence as possible and anything sexual pretty much takes away that innocence.
However, as you have been together for 3 years, I have to admit, I think it's acceptable, as long as you make sure it doesn't get to full sex until you are at least 16. It's good that you feel comfortable enough with each other to talk about it and to create rules about it without fear of embarrassment or same.
So under the circumstances, I would say that your relationship is something unique and no, I don't think you're going too fast. Just be careful with knowing when to stop because it's all too easy to get carried away!
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i think it is totally fine at the pace you are going.. it dosent hurt to do anything OUTSIDE of the clothes..just make sure that you feel uncomfortable at ANY time you let him know... if you dont feel like doing anything then just say no thank you.. if he really cares about you (which i am sure he does) then he wont do anything that you dont want to do<3
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I don't think I need to warn you that having sex would be a bad idea at 14. That being said, as long as you don't have sex, go ahead and grope the hell out of eachother! Let go of some of your hormonal urges! I like the rules system. Smart girl.
-Odd
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I dont think there is anything wrong with touching each other but at age 14 you shouldnt be having sex if you know what i mean...but i do the same thing with my bf and im 14 to its pretty much hormones...
hope i helped ♥
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Hi
First I have to commend you for waiting, and knowing that 14 is far too young to be having sex.
The fact that you both are in agreement with this is awesome..and the rules are great too.
I think if you can keep it to kissing and light touching, just like you are doing, then that is just fine. I don't think you are moving too fast at all.
Good for you, and your boyfriend!!! Take care,
Brenda
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