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love life


Question Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 4:49 pm

my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and iam dating this boy named Jesse and he's 16 years old,but his parents want him to break up with me becouse they think he's to young to date,but they let his twin brother have a gf and he's really immature like he cusses teachers and stuff like that.why would they let Jeffrey have a gf and not Jesse?what should I do?

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poetqueen answered Sunday April 23 2006, 8:11 pm:
chances are its not that they think hes too young to date they think your too old which is pretty messed up b/c alot of girls date younger guys and its only a year apart not bad at all or maybe they dont like the idea of you dating him b/c they dont want to see him get hurt and they think his brother is so immature that he wouldnt care. try not to worry about it too much they cant control what he does and who he likes just get through this as best as you can and good luck!

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sizzlinmandolin answered Sunday April 23 2006, 3:19 pm:
Do nothing. If you get involved with talking to his parents it could turn into a huge mess. You and Jesse need to understand that you can't talk them out of anything. They'll do what they want when they are good and ready. Jesse's parents need to accept that their "little boy" is now 16 years old. Lots of parents have a hard time with this. The thing is, they can't stop him from dating. They can't make you two break up. The quicker they realize that, the better things will be. My advice would be to have Jesse invite you to his house for dinner or something. It will give his parents a chance to meet you, begin to trust you, and see how mature you two act together. Pestering them about it by talking, whining, or trying to convince them of something, will make it much worse. In this situation, it's best to show them. Good luck.

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DefinedEyes answered Sunday April 23 2006, 2:31 pm:
Well your only a year older than him, & thats not that big of a deal I think.
And I hate to say it, but if they let his twin brother date someone and he is a trouble maker, then it could possibly be his parents dont like you? You should continue dating him, despite what his parents say because, love is love, and if its ment to be, his parents will get over it.

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x3livelaughlovex answered Saturday April 22 2006, 11:15 pm:
I would have a talk with his parents and him about it and see what the problem is and then go from there..i no its easier said then done but trust me it will make things alot better

hope i helped && good luck ♥

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ChEeRGuRly4LiFe answered Saturday April 22 2006, 6:53 pm:
Well If I were You I would Take The Time To Actually Talk To His Parents! Say How Good You are For Him! And Explain Why You Think Its Not Fair To Let His Brother Have a Girl But Not Him! I Mnea Man Im 13 And Im Aloud To Have a Boyfriend! Well I Hope WHat I sadi Helps You!
[♥] Staci

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