Website: Odd Lockset's Band
Gender: Male
Location: Craterville
Occupation: Tongue Bender
Age: 255
Member Since: April 22, 2006
Answers: 31
Last Update: May 6, 2006
Visitors: 2465
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hey so when a guy puts his arm around your shoulders or your waist (either way) what should you as the girl do with you arms?? just leave them to your side or what?? plz answer i will rate good! (link)
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Well, I guess you could just leave them by your side.
That would be fairly boring, though. You could hold his hand he put around you, I suppose. But I think the easiest thing to do is just return the favor. Stick your arm around him.
-Odd
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Well, i'm gonna get right to the point...question..ok nevermind that but older guys think i am attractive but younger guys and the guys the same age as me dont? what's up with that? (link)
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Older guys think that younger girls are easier to con into sex. It's terrible, but it's true. I see it happen all the time. When guys reach teenage, sexual frustration can get unbearable. For some guys, it's all they can think about. If I were you, I would stay away from them unless you were sure about them.
-Odd
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I really like this guy but there is one problem, he has a girlfriend. I want to go out with him, but I don't want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend. That's just not what I do. He is really easy to talk to and he is really cute. The other guys who I have had crushes on were really cute but shallow. But this guy is different. What should I do?
signed,
confused (link)
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If he's happy with his girlfriend, you're just going to have to let him be. That's all there really is to it. There are many other fish in the sea that aren't already taken. If you like his personality, there's nothing wrong with being friends with him, but don't wreck his relationship.
-Odd
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Im a 16 year old boy who doesn't want sex....at all i have a girlfriend and i guess she expects me to be perverted maybe because her other boy friends were. Im a virgin shes not.She be offering me oral sex but i don't want it.then she calls me gay and all these other homo names.
I was raised on not being able to see people kiss at all if i said sex i was slapped,and i never seen a womans vagina ((Porn)) until i was 15 and I gagged when i seen it.Is this normal? am I gay? (link)
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You could be gay, but that's probably not the case in this instance.
Take it slow. Tell your girlfriend you really don't need sex right now. If that's all she's interested in, you may want to look into getting another girlfriend.
I think the problem here is that there's no real feeling for you. Sex for sex's sake is just kind of meat on meat. This may sound corny, but the true joy of it comes with being one with someone you love. Try developing more of an emotional bond with your girlfriend. If everything goes well, the physical aspect will come later.
-Odd
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to get a girl to be your girlfriend, you have to ask her out. i know, its stupid, and i agree. but its the only thing that works...ive asked 2 people out this year, but liked a few more. my hormones are really wacked up..at one point i liked this one beautiful girl, but shes a sophmore, and im only a freshman, so i kinda forced myself to stop dreaming...however, shes only a month older than me, so now im back into it again..and theres like 2 other beautiful people in my life, and i dont kno which way to go..i know i should just lay off, but my body and mind wont accept that. my one of them is argententian, so shes just beautiful to begin with...i love to listen to her laugh, to see her smile, and i marvel at how she thinks. shes like the one, but shes moving back to argentina, to my dismay..so i try and just be friends with her. the second person, shes just as wonderful. her eyes are just gorgeous, and the way she looks at you; i have to try to stay concious...shes ALWAYS kind to me, but i dont think she likes me like that...option number three plays harp, and is in my orchestra class. shes the one whos only a month older than me. shes pretty. she doesnt have that "hott" face, but she makes me laugh, and shes just really pretty and well rounded. im stuck with no where to go, and i see these three people every day. i need advice, please!
also, i dont like ti believe that im good looking, im just told that..and i dont like it (link)
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Well, seems like you're in a bit of a dilemma. The Argentinian girl doesn't seem to be the choice for you, seeing as she's moving away.
The second girl, I'm not sure. I mean, if she's that beautiful it'd be wonderful if she liked you. On the other hand, it could mean rejection and maybe a frayed relationship.
The third girl seems the obvious choice for me. She sounds like a nice person over-all that would be most compatible with you.
Overall, though, it's your choice. Don't fear rejection. Think of it this way: if one of the girls rejects you, at least it makes it easier for you by narrowing down the options.
-Odd
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This boy I'm fond of and I are going to be doing a singing duet for our school's talent show. We just haven't decided on a song yet. Anyone have any ideas? Preferably cute songs not rock or anything of that nature.
P.S. We both play guitar if that helps (link)
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Neat Little Domestic Life by Of Montreal
It's a very cute song. It might be a bit challenging, though. You could trade off lines, like
"You draw the curtains"
"And I'll feed the fishes"
It's on the album, "The Gay Parade," which you can find on iTunes.
-Odd
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Im running for student council. I need a slogan for the name Andrea Obah. What rhymes with Andrea or Obah that you can put into a slogan? (link)
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Give your vote to Andrea Obah, or you'll be demolished by venomous robots!
-Odd
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please dont give me websites of like quote places...but i want some quotes about how you like a guy and they never like you back. pleaseeeee (link)
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"When she looks at him she thinks of their future together. When he looks at her, he thinks about food."
"I could be impregnated by every man I see, but the baby would always look like you."
"I carved your name into my wrist, and you don't even know mine."
-Odd
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THIS IS NOT A QUESTION OF FAITH
I have considered myself asnostic for a few years now. I have faith more in the people I know and everyone, then some silly religion with it's own agenda. I also believe in a greater god, but mostly for comfort, to hate, and to thank. Anywho, this coming fall I am going to have to make a decision of getting confirmed by the Catholic Church. I am not so sure that I should do it. I know that it would make my mom happy, but I feel like I am just flat out disrespecting Catholicism to follow their ways even though I don't believe it. I don't really care if I am found out, I am not like an in-your-face religion hater, but still, it would kill my mom. So, my question is, should go through with it for my mom, or not?
THIS IS NOT A QUESTION OF FAITH, I DON'T BELIEVE IN CHRISTIANITY, PLEASE TO NOT TELL ME OF THE GLORIES OF HEAVAN, JESUS, AND WHAT NOT (link)
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WHAT? YOU MUST GET CONFIRMED, IT IS GOD'S PLAAAAN!!!
Just kidding. Seriously though, I don't think you should do something you don't want. I mean, I know from experience it's hard to not do something your mom wants to do, but getting confirmed would mean getting yourself involved in something you don't believe in.
If it's not something you really believe in, it's far too much trouble to go through.
If you DO decide to get confirmed, you should pick St. Alfwold to put onto your middle name.
-Odd
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ok - ive been told a lot that at 15, you dont need a girl friend...but i feel that it will make things soo much more easier! ive asked numerous girls, ive even written poems, but they just dont seem so like me in that way...ive been told just as numerous times that im actually pretty good looking, but that doesnt help when it comes to asking someone out...could you give me advice on how to ask a girl out? im not too nervous about it, i just seem to be attracted to the girls that dont like me! what difference can i make in their lives that will get them to like me in that way, therefore allowing me to get them to approve when i ask them out?
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I'll tell you the honest truth: You can't force someone to like you, no matter how good looking you may be. One of these days, you'll like someone who'll like you just as much back, and there will be the start of something.
-Odd
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ok im a 13/f i have a horse but i keep it at this guys house b/c his mom takes care of it for me. Anyway i go to his house like every other day after school and he always invites this other guy to his house and i really hate the guy he invites. But the guy likes me and if i like even walk past him he slaps my butt and crap like that i hate him but i kinda like the attention. I dont no if i should tell him to stop or just leave it like it is. Plese help. O yeah im only 13 and i would not go any futher that a kiss with a guy so dont even tell me bout that. (link)
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You should probably tell him to back off. Men that slap butts are never trustworthy.
-Odd
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i've never made out bbefore . go ahead laugh i dont care. but im like gonna be really bad at it and i really wanna make out. so can you tell me exaaaactly. not like oh well you put your lips together and smooch. no i wanna know exactly step by step what you do.
please and thank you
i'll rate high! xo
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Here's your handy step-by-step guide to tonsil hockey:
Step one- Start off like a ruggular kiss, for god's sake do not come at him like a tentacled alien.
Step two: Do couple short ol' kisses to get yer mouths warmed up for the upcoming makey-outy event
Step three: Start gettin' that tongue in there! Don't just force it in. Introduce it slowly, like a Alzheimer's-ridden grandma.
Step four: Continue makin' tongue contact!
Helpful Tips- Make sure not to drool too much. Saliva control is important. Nothing grows in a desert, but they probably already took a shower.
Hope that helps you get makey-outy all over this world.
-Odd
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ok well... i have liked this boy for almost 3 years. and now me and him go out and it didnt take us long to kiss b.c we have kissed b4 and stuff.. but now we are to the point.. that he touches my boob and i like grope his penis. and like we talked about it he doesnt think we are going to fast and nor do i. we have been going out for almost 2 months... and i know! we wont go any farther.
so.. i dont know.. do you think we are going to fast.
and we touch ONLY outside of clothes.
well have like rules we made up..
btw im 14 and hes 14
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I don't think I need to warn you that having sex would be a bad idea at 14. That being said, as long as you don't have sex, go ahead and grope the hell out of eachother! Let go of some of your hormonal urges! I like the rules system. Smart girl.
-Odd
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what do you look for in a girl, physically && personality wise? what turns you on about them or makes you want to take to them more? anything helps. Thanks. ill rate. (link)
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Well, guys are all different. Most guys, especially teenagers, are willing to overlook a dumb personality if the girl has large breasts or they find them especially physically attractive. I know, it's rediculous, but most guys are driven by hormones that are constantly telling them to BREED BREED BREED.
I like girls that aren't particularly petty or shallow. Girls that always fight with their friends and are full of drama don't interest me much. I like girls that have good senses of humor. I also care about the girl's taste in music. Music is my life, I like girls that share the same interests in music.
Anyway, I'm not sure if that helps a lot, but there you go.
-Odd
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I'm a 14 year old female tha tis in 8th grade. My so called "reading and writing" class is doing reports on the holicoast, each student in my class got to choice somthign to write at the minumum of 2-3 pages. I choice Concentration Camps- and im writing about Dr. Josef Mengele (The Angle of Death) and i was wondering if ther ie anything that you guys think i should put in there since little kids will be reading it (6th and 7th graders). It was a horrible thinga ndi would appraite if there is asopmthing you find i should shair. if you could just give me the informatino and a website that its ons o i can confermine its accurate. thanks so much
ps. dont tell me none of that never happened. It did. and well if you dont belive it did, then dont anwer me because its been proven and there people alive to prove it.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Josef_Mengele
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Here's the story. I'm 13/F and I am like the only girl in my school who isn't obsessed with guys. Like, I get crushes and things but I'm not obsessed with guy watching or finding a boyfriend, or getting my first kiss. I feel like it's better to let things just happen instead of pressuring yourself to have it happen because then you might go after just about anyone. I'm also not into make-up and clothes. I don't wear any make-up, except cover up under my eyes to cover dark circles. And don't get me wrong, I like shopping, but I don't love it, and I think talking about clothes and make-up is pretty frivolous and unimportant, and a bit annoying. My weight is the next problem. Alot of my friends are always concerened about their weight and they talk about weight issues alot also. I don't have any problems with my weight though. My friends and I are pretty skinny but they still like count carbs and watch how much they eat, not to be healthy, just skinny and I don't.
My main problem is it makes me feel so different and unattached to my friends. I feel like I have nothing to talk about when they bring up guys and make-up and clothes and weight. I feel like I have nothing to say and I just sit to the side listening to them and wondering how they can be so.. I don't know, they aren't exactly shallow, but sometimes that's how they seem.
Don't get me wrong, that's not all they talk about, and when they don't I love hanging out and talking to them. But when they do I just don't know what to do.
Any help would be appreciated and I'm SO sorry it's so long!! (link)
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I wouldn't change the way you are just to fit their needs. They seem like kind of shallow people. Maybe introduce some of the things you like when you hang out if you enjoy their company.
-Odd
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I need to make my parents understand that some kids will drink and some kids will smoke once in a while. [[those some kids arent me, but they are my friends]] My parents are trying to keep me away from my best friend because I got caught with alchohal when I was with him.
I cant live without him he is a big part of me and keeps me happy and alive. What can I say to my parents? help me please! (link)
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Well, if you like yer friend, tell him to stay away from the alcohol. If you are a good friend, you'd try to get them away from smoking and alcohol. I mean, if you like black lungs and drunken, idotic friends that will tell you the same story 20 times in a row while cleaning vomit stains off of their shirts, let them be that way.
-Odd
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Alright so i'm in 8th grader at a pretty small school .. we have like 180 kids in the whole middle school, so of course our school dances are kind of .. not fun. And like NONE of the guys dance what so ever.. so i dont really dance either. Some of the girls dance during like the fast songs and then like get called sluts & stuff when really .. they do nothing not normal. my school's just gay like that. And they open up the other gym too .. so the boys usually go in there & play basketball, i usually just float inbetween the too, and talk to the guys & sometimes hang out w/ the girls, but never really dance. And obviously, its not fun at all. The only time the guys dance are slow dances & like i always get asked, but half the girls dont. And lemme just tell you ITS REALLY LAME. But some of the girls think its like the best, they keep one main light on, off to the side b/c the teachers are annoying. I mean i know were in middle school, but you have to admit thats SUPER GAY. And i really hate it. Is there ANY way to make it fun? or like so the guys would maybe dance during the fast songs? I dont know that sounds gay, but i'm desperateee.:] thanks in advance. (link)
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Super Gay? What, does he have a pink cape and fly around fixing fashion mistakes? If you can get in contact with this Super Gay I'm sure he would love to come to your school dance and make it more interesting. It's worth a shot.
-Odd
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im sorry if this is in the wrong category but..
14/f
im going to get a physical soon ..and i shave down there so would it be awkward if he notices it, like would he say anything? (link)
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If he's anything like my doctor, he'll make a joke or two about the "bald eagle." Just kidding, I don't think he'll care.
-Odd
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okay, i need help now. like it's 2:30 a.m. were i live rigt now and i can NOT fall asleep, what are some good ways to try and fall asleep?
i rate 5's! (link)
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Well, it'll help a lot if you work on calming your body and brain before you go to sleep. Also, avoid doing anything in your bed like reading, etc. There are only two things you should be doing in a bed, and those are sleeping and sex. Melatonin tea works wonders in calming and helping to go to sleep, so you might want to investigate that.
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