ok im a 13/f i have a horse but i keep it at this guys house b/c his mom takes care of it for me. Anyway i go to his house like every other day after school and he always invites this other guy to his house and i really hate the guy he invites. But the guy likes me and if i like even walk past him he slaps my butt and crap like that i hate him but i kinda like the attention. I dont no if i should tell him to stop or just leave it like it is. Plese help. O yeah im only 13 and i would not go any futher that a kiss with a guy so dont even tell me bout that.
QueenCece answered Sunday April 30 2006, 1:29 am: Ummm....hun.....if this guy os not even around your age doing that then you should have told him to stop and told your mom immediatly. But if he isn't than tell him to stop and if he does it again that slap the shit out of him!! It makes you look like a whore if you keep letting him do that to you and that your an easy peace of ass or a toy to him. Watch it no matter how cute they are let them know your a lady (i hope!) and you shouldn't be treated that way. i kno i helped!! [ QueenCece's advice column | Ask QueenCece A Question ]
Vikki27 answered Saturday April 29 2006, 4:41 am: The problem with getting unwanted attention from a guy is that even though you may hate the guy, there will almost always be a small part that feels like you want it. Much as I hate to admit it, even unwanted attention from an unwanted guy can boost self esteem because it makes you feel special and like someone likes you.
However, if you know that you really don't like this guy then you need to put a stop to it. You could either have a word with the guy whose Mum looks after your horse and see if he would have a word with him on your behalf or, if you're feeling brave, you could speak to him yourself. Tell him that you don't like it when he slaps you and so on and you would appreciate if he would stop. Try to put it nicely to begin with but if he doesn't get the message, be more forceful. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
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