I really like this guy but there is one problem, he has a girlfriend. I want to go out with him, but I don't want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend. That's just not what I do. He is really easy to talk to and he is really cute. The other guys who I have had crushes on were really cute but shallow. But this guy is different. What should I do?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MORGON answered Sunday May 7 2006, 7:27 pm: WELL YOu SHOULD BECOME REALLY GOOD FRIENDS WITH HIM AND MAKE SURE THAT YOU TALK TO HIM ALOT. IF YOU EVER SLIP A WORD THAT YOU LIKE HIM TO A FRIEND AND IT GETS TO HIM IT'S OK B/C NOW YOU AND HIM ARE FRIENDS HE WILL KNOW WHAT HE HAS IN STORE IF ANYTHING HAPPENS TO HIS RELATION SHIP!
I BET EVERYTHING WILL TURN OUT HOW YOU WANT IT TOBE AND IF YOU LIKE THIS GUY YOU SHOULD LISTEN TO ME B/C THE SAME THING WAS GOING ON WITH ME AND NOW ME AND THAT GUY ARE TOGETHER AND ARE KING AND QUEEN AWW
THAT COULD BE YOU!!
Chika answered Saturday May 6 2006, 11:54 am: THere is really not too much you cann do just wait pretty much. but if you do end up telling him you like him make sure he knows you dont want to interfere.
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ReginaNGretchen answered Saturday May 6 2006, 11:48 am: If you really truly like him, then it will find a way to work out. You should get to know him better and just become friends first. If he gets to know you, and gets to see how awesome you are, then maybe he will decide that he wants to be with you!
I used to like this guy who had a really mean girlfriend, but then I got to know the guy and I found out that he had feelings for me too, and then we went out! Sometimes things just seem to work out like that.
Vikki27 answered Saturday May 6 2006, 8:55 am: I hate to be the bearer of bad news but I'm afraid there really isn't anything you can do. Keep being a good friend to him and if he breaks up with his girlfriend some point in the future then make sure you are there for him.
I know how hard it is to like a guy you just can't have but believe me, you will be a much better person to wait it out as a friend and be there for him if and when this relationship ends. Then, when he's ready to move on, tell him how you feel and see if he's interested. You seem like a really nice person and judging from what he has said about you, I don't think you have anything to worry about. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
xo1234 answered Saturday May 6 2006, 4:01 am: I have the same problem. The only thing you can do is wait and see what happens, it'll all work out in the end. [ xo1234's advice column | Ask xo1234 A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Saturday May 6 2006, 2:15 am: The only thing you can do is let him be happy with the girlfriend he already has and wait for something to possibly happen.
I know you may think that this guy is different, but there are many other guys who are different too. So maybe you should keep looking or wait for love to come to you.
oddlockset answered Saturday May 6 2006, 2:13 am: If he's happy with his girlfriend, you're just going to have to let him be. That's all there really is to it. There are many other fish in the sea that aren't already taken. If you like his personality, there's nothing wrong with being friends with him, but don't wreck his relationship.
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