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not quite shure =/
well heres the thing, i kinda like this boy and hes one of my bestfriends.. were really close and everything but i dont know what i should do.. because my bestfriend in the wholee entire world used to go out with him.. and im afraid she;ll get mad at me but im not very shure if i want to go out with this boy but i do its confusing ... helppp
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ive been in the same situation.... first things first... talk to your friend about it.... if she is the best of friend that you say, she will tell you exactly how she feels about you liking/dating the guy you like..... see how she feels, and then if she isn't comfortable w/ you guys dating.... then take that as your biggest clue... if she is alright w/ yall being together... then just tell him how you feel about him... or just play it cool, and if you 2 are randomly having a one to one convo, kiss him, or when you hug him, kiss his cheek.... but remember ONLY AFTER YOU TALK TO YOUR FRIEND... i have ruined a good friendship b/c of that.....
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Are you sure that your friend is over him? If she is make sure she is ok with the fact that you two might start dating..but if she isn't ok with the fact about you two don't date him til she finds someone new to fall for..If you aren't sure about dating this boy maybe you should wait awhile to see if you really want to.. hope I helped
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Well, i think that you should wait because you need some time to organise your thoughts etc. Because you want him and you don't want him at the same time.You should understand what is really going on to you.Something like that has happened to me too and i just continued like before without thinking about it..Do the same...Finally you will understand what is going on to you...Just relax and continue being friend with both of them..
Now, i think that you should talk about it with your friend.Before doing sth with the guy talk with your friend..Tell her how you feel..If she is a good friend she will understand you..He is her ex right?He is not now her bf.That's why you can do whatever you want with him...
If she will get mad etc i think that this will be a little bit reasonable but try to explain her.If she is a real friend she will understand you..
Don't do sth with him before being sure...There is the danger to lose a friend.In my opinion, a friend is more important than a bf because she will be there for you in your whole life...On the contray, a boyfriend will be there only some months...
Hope i helped...Good luck!
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