I'm in love with my best friend, and he's in love with me. I know this because we went out with each other. We want to get back together, but he's going out with my other best friend. He wants to break up with her to go out with me, but I don't want people to think that he broke up with her to go out with me because he's not. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? klc23 answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 12:21 am: This will be a very hard choice to make because like the person below me said it will end up hurting somebody... I think that if he does break up with her to go out with you, you two should wait awhile before you two go out.. make sure your friend is over him or say it's ok to date him before you do..but then again it might hurt the girl very badly if you went otu with him period. hopefully I helped
Devina answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 9:17 pm: It's really hard when it comes to one guy to dote on... Well, neither or either one of you has to get the guy. The sad part is that whatever the decision made up will hurt one person. It can never go on without at least hurting one heart. I feel sorry for his girl friend. I think she should know how he really feels and who he really likes. And if she likes him, she has to let him go.
Don't wait on him... I think you should put this thought aside and focus on something else while he's thinking about it. And if he really comes to you, then he is meant for you...
I hope I've helped... I wish you the best luck... Just relax, everything will be alright... [ Devina's advice column | Ask Devina A Question ]
careless-fun answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 8:03 pm: Did he actaully come out and tell you that he was going to break up with her? If he did, did he tell you why he was going to break up with her?
If he is in love with you, but isn't going to break up with his girlfriend for you then how do you really know that he is in love with you?
I don't mean to bombard you with questions. Its just that some guys have a way of leading girls on while having a girlfriend. One of the most famous of them all ways to do this is to tell the girls you are going to break up your girlfriend or atleast make them think that.
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