how can i make myself seem shorter?
hmmmm this may or may not help but don't wear big shoes,wear anythig close to the ground,and if your a girl,don't wear heels or platforms,
Jasmine,
[view]
i had this dream the other night about my ex-boyfriend that i dumped. we were SO inlove and we were together for 6 months, but we literally don't talk anymore. i don't know if im over him, but he seems to be over me.
anyway, i had a dream that we were sitting, a group of friends (him included), and then we're alone all of a sudden, and im in his arms and he gives me a tight and emotional hug that i feel my heart leap and hurt when i wake up. usually, i forget dreams but this one is always on my mind. what does it mean? do i still love him? im freaked and i really nedd help and i would appreciate it more than anything if you helped me out.
thanx if you read till here, and please help me through this..
yours truly.
Trust me on this even though you may not like what i'm going to say....your still in love with him,when you dream about a guy like that,and have such an emotional connection to the dream and that person,your definitly still in love,either that,or if that dream actually ever happened in real life before,your brian is just playing back past memories through your dreams,try as hard as you can to get back in contact with this guy,it just might pay off,hope this helps you a bit, ^_^
Jasmine,
[view]
Thanks A lot Jasmine for posting back, I really appericate it.
No i dont Have any friends thta are friends with her. See i went to a different school last year and i just met her this year so i know none of her friends. I jus wanna know how close she is to this guy, your right they could be jus friends but i dunno. How do you think i could find out this without asking her directly .. like id like a way i could kind of ease towards that question you know?
Well this won't be easy,but you have to get a good realationship with her first,try to see if it is possible that you can sit near her and that guy to see if they are flirting,but don't think everything they say is flirting,when u get a closer realationship to her,without even asking she will hint if she has a boyfriend or not,trust me i'm a girl too I know,if a girl knows that another guy likes her and she likes someone else,she won't lead you on,she'll come out and tell you,but if shes not dating she'll also hint towards that,hope I could help a bit,Good Luck!!
Jasmine,
[view]
so... i finally got my first makeout. me and the guy had it planned. well, i went in and i'm sure either i messed it up ors omething but he said i wasn't bad at all, but i don't know.... i didn't really like it, kinda? i think it was just the guy. but now i'm scared that i'll think kissing/making out isn't fun at all. is it really fun? or do you think that i just didn't think so 'cause my first time i was nervous and it was all planned...? haha sorry, i'm just really confused, any help will be great. :D
(good question my first kiss was'nt so fun either)here's a few options,he was a bad kisser,you were a bad kisser,you did'nt really love him when you kissed him(that's what makes it speacial)or it's just not so fun,idk if there's really an answer to that,some people like kissing some people don't,I guess it just depends on what you perfer, ^_^, mabi it will be better the next time u never know
Jasmine,
[view]
14/f
well for me it kind of gets really depressing when i see all these couples and people finding 'the one' and i feel left out, i have had my chances but they just want me for something else.im not exactly the prettiest person alive, actually im far from it. and i cant seem to find him, its really making me mad/sad/depressed. i know when the right time comes it will happen but do you think you can give me some tips to hold up till then because it seems like it will never happen, or wont it
Everyone has someone for them,no matter who they are,all I can tell you is just wait for the right one to come along,there's not really any tips I can give you,but when the right one comes you'll know who they are,for all you know,you could meet him tomorrow,always look forward to the day ahead of you,each days brings more chances to meet someone,Hope this helps
Jasmine,
[view]
how does someone get raped/kidnapped over myspacve? i dont reallt get it? is it even true?
well some people on myspace give whoever they are talking to their address then who's ever address they have they go and kidnapp them,or if you give someone your real name and school they can find you that way too,as long as you do not give and personal information you should be ok,It's sad that this is actually true :/
Jasmine,
[view]
My uncle and aunt had a fight the other day and my uncle has this stupid bitchy attitude and my aunt was supposed to come. Oh yeah...whoop de doo she's not again because of my stupid mother n uncle. My grandma is sick in the hospital and they don't care. IT's so sad because they not guna tlk again...EVER!!! What dO I do....?
Well actually my family is going through the same thing right now,and i'm not sure what to do about it either,all I can say is just wait it out and God will help you through everyhing,God bless,
Jasmine,
[view]
I really really like one of my best friends ex's. If he asks me out idk what to say! Cause I love my best friend but I really like him too!
And if this helps, my best friend decided to like the same guy I used liked right after I told her I liked him. ( I like her EX now ) And I was really hurt cause she started flirting with him constantly and won him over and now they're going out so she took a guy away from me, would it be wrong to go out with her old ex?!
Good question,if this guy asks you out,you have every right to say yes,is she does get mad at you,which it most certianly should'nt,that would make her a hypocrite,there's no way she could hold it against you if she did the same thing to you,hope this helps,
Jasmine,
[view]
Ok.. Im kinda new to this so ima try my best.
Keep in mind I'm 15 years old and im a guy.
theres this girl in one of my classes that im starting to like a lot. we flirt and stuff like thta but she has a guy friend she always chills with at lunch. I dont know what their relationship is. I know she doesnt have a boyfriend. But she always talks about chillen with him, and him comin over etc.
How do I find out how close these to are? I dont wanna come out and ask cause we arent that close yet. Also i dont wanna keep movin in on this girl if she already has something going with this other guy. Help me out please.
ok,good question,is it possible that you have a good relationship with one of her friends that know her really well to where you could ask one of them?? her friends would definitly know.it is possible that they are just really good friends,make sure that she knows that she likes you though,hope this could help ^_^
Jasmine,
[view]
If a white person called a black person a "nigga" on the computer, is this some sort of discrimination, could that person get in any kind of trouble or anything like that?
Thank you.
Yea,they can't get in any teouble but I do think that it is a racist comment,I find it rude and insulting but they can't get in any trouble for it,(not that it matters but i'm white by the way)
[view]
I have a friend who is a very nice person. I almost feel bad for writing this, but it's been an ongoing issue.
The problem is that she calls me WAY too much. She phones me on average about 6 or 7 times a day. She also is one of those people that phones and wants to talk for an hour even though she has absolutely nothing to talk about. If I wasnt the one to always end the conversation she would probably talk all day. I do have other friends and interests and I really feel she is monopolizing my time.
She doesnt have a job or go to school and I know is always bored. But I DO have a job. Other times I'll be expecting an important call, and she will phone me twice within the hour. A lot of times I'll tell her that I'll phone her later because my favorite soap is on, and she will phone me 20 minutes later even though she knows the show is still on. She phones me early in the morning, and late at night. She'll phone as late as 11 pm. Sometimes I don't answer the phone at all. Then when I finally answer it she says she had been trying me all day.
How can I tell her nicely that she needs to stop phoning me so ofter without hurting her feelings? I would prefer if she just called my once a day.
Well,this may sound stupid but it sounds like she really looks up to you,there's no other wya to get around it but you just have to camly explain to her that she should only call once a day,don't tell her that she gets on your nerves or anything but just tell her thatyou have alot of things to do and when you come home you just want to realx after working and stuff,and that you don't exactly feel like talking,I hope I could help
Jasmine,
[view]
I dont know wahts wrong with me. I have been getting very depressed latley. Like it just bounces around, one second im happy then further through the school say i get really really depressed. After school I just come home and go right to sleep. I feel like people just dont care about me and I dont wanna wake up. I really get depressed during school when I think how I have hardly any guy friends and like mostly girl friends. It pisses me off and I dont know why.I pretty much do more things with girls than boys and it makes me depresseed. I want guy friends but the guys in my school are ass holes most of the time. But I dont know, i just get so depressed taht i wanna sleep and never wake up. I start to feel like no one in the world really understands how I for nor do they care.
What should i do??
P.S. by the way im a boy
Thanks
ok,this kinda sounds like deprsssion,it's called manic depression and it can be treated by a doctor,I would consider consulting a doctor and make sure that's what it is,and even though you feel like no one cares,plenty of people do,you may even have friends that care but you just don't know it,and your parents care and so does God,I hope everything works out for you,
Jasmine,
[view]
I don't want to offend anyone with my questions but theres just so much that doesnt make sense about god and religion. i really do want to believe but i dont understand somethings and it makes me think god cant exist becaus of these things that dont add up.
firstly evolution. humans evolved from apes, there's been loads of scienctific evidence and documentries about it and you learn about it in science. But the bible says adam and eve were the first man and woman, so according to religion evolution cant have existed, well not in humans anyway.
If god is so great and loves us all, why does he make people suffer? i mean even highly religion people. the pope sufferd loads before he died and he's about as religios as people get, so why would god make him suffer?
Also, if god is so great and loves us all, why does he send people to hell? i know some deserve it but surely he wouldnt want anyone to be sent to hell for eternity?
This last point is not something i thought of, it's something that was talked about on the radio but it makes you think. There are lots of religions, but if any, only 1 must be true and the rest of them are lies. people must have made some religions up because some say theres only 1 god, some religions have many gods and all different types of beliefs, so they cant all be true. i hope someone can help me, because its so confusing and i honestly do want to believe.
sorry, if i offended anyone, i really dont want to. its just so confusing.
thank you x
I'm so glad that you asked this question,let me help you out here,i'm a christian myself and the lord has truly helped me with alot,some questions we will never know,we will just have to wait and ask god if and when we get to heaven,ok with the evolution thing,it is not humanly possible we could have came from monkey's I understand that you say there is so much scientific proof,but even the scientists can not explain some things in this world,example,how the earth was created,they belive in the big bang theory,this is not possible they belive that th earth is made of up space matter that exploaded in space millions of years ago,-2 ways to prove this wrong-1. if matter exploaded to create the earth where did the atmosphere come from,there is no wya that an explosion could have produced all we have out of othing,oxygen,there's no oxygen in space to begin with,the atmosephere,an explosion ould not have creadted gravity and atmospheric conditions,water,space did not have water to begin with,and also they say the earth is millions of years old,but in scripture there is only 6500 years accounted for,this makes our earth realitivly new,and if people came from apes,how did we get different skin colors?? different race3s and languages?? and with the suffering thing,-god gives everyone in the whole entire world,a chance to repent their sins and save themselves,some people decided they don not want to repent,and that they want to do what they want,but you can only do what you want in one life,you can do what you want on earth go to hell and get nothing,or live your life for god on earth and have everlasting happiness in heaven,which would you rather have?? and lastly,the one religion topic,I can guarentee you that I can prove that cristianity is the only one true relgion,no matter what it is,there are faults in every one,(i'm not trying to offend anyone)but christiaity is the one and only relgion that can prove itself true 100% by the bible and facts,I honestly hope I can help you,I'd like to talk to you about this further,please let me know if you become saved,or let me know if you have any other questions,god bless you
Jasmine,
[view]
Hey guys. I'm 15 years old (female) and I'm going to my first party where there's alcohol tonight. I've never done it before, but I've made sure I know exactly how to get home, every other drink is gonna be a glass of water and so on, I've tried to make sure I'm as safe as possible tonight. My question is, what do you wear? From your experiences, what should I NOT wear, and why? Any good tips or advice?
Thank you if you answer this with honest advice and try not to preach.
Ok,here's the thing,to be on the safe side,don't go to the party dressed up like lil miss suductive girl,something bad usually happens if you dress like that purposly around guys at partys cuz chances are most of them will b drunk,honestly if I did'nt care I would'nt be saying this,but it would be so much safer if you had no alcohol at all,it is addictive and if you have 1 you'll just want more until your drunk and there's nothing worse than a drunk girl at a party with guys there,please consider what I said,
Jasmine,
[view]
14/f Sry it's so long. So there's this boy and he asked me out like 2 weeks ago I said yes. We've gone bowling a few times with friends and we hang out whenever we can. He comes to my play pratices and whatever he can whenever he can and vice versa. We put our arms around each other and cuddle and stuff but when ever any one asks either of us wheather it's offical or not we say no. The problem is my friends are giving me grief about this. They're like if your not offical then you shouldn't let him hold you and if your not offical and he decides to like some one else he could drop you and you'd get hurt and have no argument. The truth is idc about this and I know he won't just drop me. Does any body know how I can explain this to my friends nicely and does he have to like ask me to be his gf for it to be offical or does time make offical? I rate. Thanx
Most certainly tell your friends the truth tell him that you love him and you don't care what they say,and that actually it is offical,if they are your real friends they will support your decision and be ok with it,and it is offical the minute you say yes,hope your friends support you,hope I could help!
Jasmine,
[view]
ok i am about to have a mental breakdown with scott..i don't know how much more i can take of all this crap...everyday its problem after problem...so he told me that he was going out to eat with his ex and her family...ok fine..then the next day its him vita (his ex), his friend sam and his girlfriend...i was like so your going on a double date and he goes in a way and i was PISSED!! he was like its not a date for me and vita its for sam and his girlfrined...and this is the girl who was buying his presents..i was crying and he goes why are u crying? why the hell do you think! he was like nothing is going to happen and then i said if you cheat on me with her dont even call me...so then yesterday we got into another fight b/c i was supposed to go and see him but my ride bailed and he was pissed and then he told me that he was haning out with vita friday and saturday and i got so mad i was like well i hope you have fun and i hung up then he called me back and left a message saying if you thought i was pissed befor you can't imagine how pissed i am now i dont even want to talk to you today so dont call me.. so thats how things are right now...i dont know what to do anymore..i'm going to have a mental breakdown...help me please
OK,big proablem here!! if he does not put you first it is not worth it!,if you put so much into the realationship and he does'nt it's not worth your time,i would first try talking to him about it,tell him how you feel,he should understand since it's your boyfriend,but if not I would actually consider breaking up with him,he should be dating you and only you,not his ex and you,tell him he needs to get his priorities in order,and pick who he wants,you or his ex,I really hope everything works out for you!1 hope i could help!!
Jasmine,
[view]
okay..is it normal to fall asleep @ 6PM. wake up for 5 minutes around 10PM. then go back to sleep. wake up @ 1 then fall back to sleep. then again at 5AM. then 7:30. Then getting up @ 9AM. still really tired. is that normal at all??
actually,this sounds like a sleeping disorder,it's called sleep abneia,you wake up every few hourse becuase your brian does not usually get enough oxygen,you should try consulting a doctor about it,hope this answers your question,
Jasmine,
[view]
So okay i really want to but some like new bras and more thongs and underwear from victorias secret. But the thing is my mother is always like "nice thong"(sarcastically)when she hand me my luandry. My mom is kind of old fashioned and like really werid about that kind of thing and i am not sure why. How do i buy the things(online) i want without her being all werid.
Thanks XoX T
This may or may not help,just calmly have a talk with your mother about it,and if you can go out to the mall yourself, and buy what you like when your mom is not there,than she can't say anything about it,i'm not saying go behind her back,make sure she know,sbut tell her you would feel more comfterable if you could dhop by yourself,hope this helps
Jasmine,
[view]
Are there any laws about teachers and schools getting into your personal life? Or things you do outside of school?
Not like drugs or anything.. just getting into your personal life.
If there are can you please tell me what they are and what states they apply to?
Thank you sooo much if you can help me with this.
I'm sorry but that I know of there is no laws about this,(people at my school have teachers getting into our busneiss too,we hate it!) I wish I could help,sry,but if they keep harassing you,there is laws about harassment
Jasmine,
[view]
Ok to put it straightfoward.. my boyfriend won't make out with me. We've talked about. And I mean we've been going out for a few months so I think we should.
How can I just like getting it stated with him. I'm used to the guys starting it with me.
Help!!
Ok,of course try not to prassure him,but when you 2 are alone,why not try making the first move,you never know,he may want to kiss you,but is too shy to make the first move,and once you start it,he'll realize that it's not so bad and than you can kiss him more,my friend's have tried this with their boyfriends,and it works,they'll get used to it than everything will be fine from there,^_^, hope this helps!
Jasmine,
[view]
|
