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14/f
well for me it kind of gets really depressing when i see all these couples and people finding 'the one' and i feel left out, i have had my chances but they just want me for something else.im not exactly the prettiest person alive, actually im far from it. and i cant seem to find him, its really making me mad/sad/depressed. i know when the right time comes it will happen but do you think you can give me some tips to hold up till then because it seems like it will never happen, or wont it
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i'm 14 too, and i know exactly how you feel. i've never had a boyfriend, although i've had chances. anyway, it doesn't matter if you're the prettiest person alive or not, when you find 'the one' that won't matter to them because they will love you for who you are. plus, at 14, you're still young to be finding 'the one'. lol, don't worry. seriously. one day you'll find that guy. and some tips to hold you up until then: be outgoing, go places with your friends [the mall, movies, anywhere where guys are :) you're bound to see someone you think is cute. try talking to him. you never know what can happen from there. he could be 'the one'
hope i helped ♥
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I know it seems like the biggest deal in the world, because I've been there, but it's really not. You're only fourteen. Not having a boyfriend is obviously the source of your depression, so stop concerning yourself with it. If you look on the bright side of being single, you'll be happy enough that you won't feel so much pressure to get a boyfriend. Concentrate on other things, like just being with your friends or doing your school work (trust me, I was preoccupied with not having a boyfriend, let my grades slip, and I really regret it now). There will be time for a boyfriend later, right now you need to look after yourself.
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you're fourteen, i'm fifteen and i have never had a boyfriend. yes, i get sad whenever i spot couples too close to each other and all that jazz. but for now, enjoy being single, because i heard having a boyfriend causes a lot of drama (besides all the rumors that you hear about how great love is). and they're not lying when they say there are "ups and DOWNS" in relationships. don't worry, the guy will come around.. and probably a few other guys will come across you too. stay up (;
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You are 14, don't worry about finding the "one" right now...because I am betting that most people who meet at 14 are not going to be together forever. Just have fun, do stuff you like to do, hang out with friends, enjoy life instead of worrying about the "one".
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Hey, you're only 14. I can't talk for myself seeing as i'm almost in the same position as you and i know it's hard seeing all these other couples all loved up but you've still got so much more life ahead of you so whats the rush? xD You'll find the Mr Right some day even if it isn't tommorow, or next week...etc.
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Everyone has someone for them,no matter who they are,all I can tell you is just wait for the right one to come along,there's not really any tips I can give you,but when the right one comes you'll know who they are,for all you know,you could meet him tomorrow,always look forward to the day ahead of you,each days brings more chances to meet someone,Hope this helps
Jasmine,
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