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*HEY YALL...JESSICA HERE!WELL IM REALLY AN UPFRONT PERSON SO WHEN U ASK 4 ADVICE bEwArE!!
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What are some jewlery stores that sell rings? I cant find any that i like!!!!!! Please Website would be helpfull! !

Signed,
Ringless

adiamondisforever.com

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i was walking down the street, and my glass eye fell out. im not sure what to think of this.

ummmm...........r u like serious?

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me and my friend are in a fight, what do i do?

talk it out....

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i wanna qet a hair cut tomorrow....i want bang,but i wanna pull them to the side, and i want it kinda short like a little above my shoulders...am i taking serious chances?? cuz my hair is pretty long, but i want something a little more fun and a little preppy/trendy...any other ideas??

xox*jessica

well if you have found a style that you like then i say go 4 it....


jessica

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wat is a std and wat is oral sex

an std is a sexually transmitted desease.... oral sex is like giving head or eating a girl out..

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To give a bit of background information, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are madly in love with eachother. I gave him my heart.. as well as my virginity and he did the same. But the past few weeks, I've been doubting our relationship. I'll be having dreams of being with ex boyfriends or just other guys, particularly this one guy named Luis. He's a very good friend of mine and a total flirt around me. For a second I thought I had feelings for him and I actually concidered breaking off my over one year relationship with the love of my life for this guy, Luis.I realized it was stupid to end something that is SO good for something that is only going to last a few months IF that much. I called my boyfriend and I was barely crying and, I should've known he would be able to tell I was because as soon as I said hi he said "What's wrong why were you crying?" (He knows the sound of my voice when I'm happy or sad and everything in between like the back of his hand). I told him what happened and I kept saying "Baby, I'm so sorry I don't want to lose you." He told me everything would be okay, but now when I talk to him he seems so distant? If that would be a word to describe it. He's in Maine right now, and I'm back home in New Jersey so I can just like go over and see him right now. I don't know what to do, he just isn't acting the same now, I didn't do ANYTHING with Luis, I'd never do that to my boyfriend. What do I do? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend anymore, I feel so guilty for even having those thoughts. Can anyone please help?

I'm 17 he's 18.

even though you didnt do anything you still obviously hurt him very badly...it will probly take him some time to just see how much you really do love and care for him.... so just give it some time... put yourself in his position...

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im 13/f
what should i do if my crush would ask me out or something, but my friends realllyy like him too?
(i have this one friend, she likes the same guy that i do. she says she loves him and everything. but she doesnt know that i've like him since like 5th grade.) i have an idea that he kinda likes me too. i hear that he talks about me to his friends, and whenever im around him he asks me for hugs. im not sure if its just playful, or actually something. im not sure how to react if something happened, and he asked me out?? nfsap idk. im really confused. any tips????
-stuckkkkk

well friends always come befor guys no matter what..... tell your friend that you have liked this guy since 5th grade and see what she says.... if he asks u put befor you talk to her then its probly not a good idea to go out w/ him... the faster you tell your friend you like him the faster you can see what will happen w/ him

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last night i had sex for the third time. he didnt use a condom and im not sure if he came in me. i was due for my period anyways and now i have it. my friend said that i could be pregnant. and im really scared. i cant talk to my mom about that kinda of stuff either. how can i tell or what should i do? please help me.

well first off if you had of used a condum you wouldnt be having this problem.....but luckily you have nothing to worry about because you did get your period....your friend is wrong.... your not pregnant..

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What do you do when you loose respect for the ones you love most ?

well i dont think that having sex should be this difficult...... your friends are supose to be w/ you till the end... i guess you just get new friends.

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What do you do when everybody around you is turning their backs n you when your going through the consequences of the actions that came with the peer pressure they were putting on you to loose your virginity?

r you saying that you had sex because you were pressured into it and now you r pregnant??? if so then this is the best time to find out who your truest friends are and who is gonna be there till the end..

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I've had my period for two years now. It's verrrrry irregular. It will skip months and come anytime during the month. I've gone 3 months with out my period. I never know when it's going to show up. I've heard that sometimes if you're skinny that might have something to do with it. I'm like 5'6 and i weigh 105 pounds. Do you think it has anything to do with it? What do you think i should do? Thanks.

yea if your like really skinny it will be like that but getting put on the pill is supose to regulate your period.....you can go to your gyn doctor or your local health department should be able to do it for free and w/ out your parents finding out .... diffrent states may have diffrent rules though...i live in tenn. and it is free here in my home town...

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AHHHHHHHHHH help pleease i put on that fake tanner crap yesterday and today it looks so gross it's all blotchy and stuff so is there anything taht i can use to take it off or not make it as noticeable! i dont want to ask my mom cause i wasn't suposed to use it without asking

thanks,
meagan

get in the shower and scrub

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wuts the best way 2 get faster

practice makes perfect..........

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i dont no what to do anymore im obssesed with my diet and when i eat something bad i get depresessd i work out everyday and i keep thinking that im fat im 5'0, 120 pounds is that big? all my friends tell me im crazy and cant be artound me anymore help!

obsessed isnt even the word......... i think your weight is fine.....
when ur friends dont wanna be around you n e more u need to stop n think............

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Alright. I've been dating my boyfriend for over ten months and we've started to have a lot of problems. Around the six month marking period we starting getting into a lot of arguments and got upset with eachother easily. This has been going on for the past three or four months. He's in a different state for a couple of weeks and I usually get to talk to him, but for some reason this trip is different. I've talked to him maybe 30 minutes in total in a week or so. So I went to a party today and I met a guy that I had seen during drumline camps and stuff. He invited me along with a bunch of other drumline people to come over to his house. We got to talking and stuff and he texted me while we were watching fireworks with everyone if I wanted to hang out with him sometime, that'd be fun. So, I texted him when I got home and told him that'd be fun. The thing is IDK what to do. I don't know if i can go on much longer with my current boyfriend the way things are going. This other guy is dropping hints like crazy that he wants to know me better. "I haven't had a girlfriend in over a year, so yeah" and so on. please help.

well i would dump the current guy and try things w/ this new guy....

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I just dont know anymore. I'm falling apart in life. I feel like a mother. I'm 15 Female and i clean my house every day! feed all the animals on the farm. And with all of that i still have to have a teen life. Last year wasnt my best year i went through like 10 boyfriends and all they wanted was sex. My family has been falling apart. My love of my life and the boy i lost my virginity to moved far!!! away this year. All i wanna do right now is die. I just dont know what to do with myself. I only had him and he talked to me listened to everything and had a answer. He told me he wanted to keep in touch so i wrote him and he never wrote back and it should have been here already i called him once and im gonna call agqain but no one picked up.... =/ how can i make myself happy again. Be the girl i once was. Make my mother proud of who i am and for her to stop saying i dont do shit for her in her life!! And to try to get through loosing the bestest person ever cause i dont wanna get over him but....i dont know



---->Lonely

first off i think you need 2 4 get the guys for a while or until you get where you wanna b in your life.... it sounds like you have a lil 2 much stress as well.... i guess just keep callin the guy for a lil bit and if he doesnt answer after a while then you'll KNO it is time to move on in your life..

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ok my bf (lets call him ed) was talking about running away. then i was talking about running away. we both have some family problems that we want to get away from. and his friend(lets call him bob)is just a huge risk taker. and one night i was talking to ed and he said that me and him should run away together:-\ and then he said bob would go with us. well, its been about a month now and we sarted talking about how ed didnt want to do it anymore because he is even more sad. and now i dont know if were going or not. i dont know what he means by he is too sad...do you think that means he wants to kill himself or something?
please help me

ummmm......yea it sounds like yall need more help than i can give you but here it goes.....
running away from the problems you have now is just gonna create more problems 4 yall... and i dont kno if he wants to kill himself... y dont you ask him...

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ok so I have these 2 friends....We r really close but just like anyone sometimes i just get tired of being with them.....well first off they had planned to go bowlin....i hadnt heard that we were going for sure all day so another friend of mine called and since i had not heard from them i made other plans....next.....we had planned to go see some free concert and the day of the concert i had softball practice and didnt' really like the guy that was singing...so i didn't go and the whole time they were gone they called me tryin to rub it in that i didnt' go and tryed to make me wish i was there....when all i thought was nothin cause i didn't wanna go.....Then the next day they said something about going to see fireworks...but when they called me I was at my sister's fixin to get in the tannin bed and i wasn't ready.....So that night i went with my sis and her family somewhere else ot see fireworks... Was I wrong for not doing that stuff with them? Should I feel bad about it? cause as fo rite now i really dont' feel bad about it cause i did what i wanted ot do and went where i wanted to go .....
please help!!!!!!!!!!

friends get tired of each other all the time...i do it a lot... i dont ditch my friends but also when i go places w/ 1 friend i dont try 2 rub it into the other 1's face.... its not wrong 2 do your own thing jus dont ditch your friends completely.....

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hey me and my boyfriend have only seen eachother once. We talk a lot but we never see eachother that much, and i really like him. All my friends say to break up with him but i really like him, i dont know what to do? I always ask him when can you hangout he says i dont know. But when my friend asks him he gives a day. We were supposed to hangout this weekend but he never called me back. He always says he loves me one day we stayed on the phone till one in the morning! Hes so sweet but i never see him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Julia xox

i just answered this ?

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hey me and my boyfriend have only seen eachother once. We talk a lot but we never see eachother that much, and i really like him. All my friends say to break up with him but i really like him, i dont know what to do? I always ask him when can you hangout he says i dont know. But when my friend asks him he gives a day. We were supposed to hangout this weekend but he never called me back. He always says he loves me one day we stayed on the phone till one in the morning! Hes so sweet but i never see him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Julia xox

well talk to him bout it... ask him why.... and think about the fact that he will give your friend a day and you nothing........

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