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i know this is long but i need help?
ok so I have these 2 friends....We r really close but just like anyone sometimes i just get tired of being with them.....well first off they had planned to go bowlin....i hadnt heard that we were going for sure all day so another friend of mine called and since i had not heard from them i made other plans....next.....we had planned to go see some free concert and the day of the concert i had softball practice and didnt' really like the guy that was singing...so i didn't go and the whole time they were gone they called me tryin to rub it in that i didnt' go and tryed to make me wish i was there....when all i thought was nothin cause i didn't wanna go.....Then the next day they said something about going to see fireworks...but when they called me I was at my sister's fixin to get in the tannin bed and i wasn't ready.....So that night i went with my sis and her family somewhere else ot see fireworks... Was I wrong for not doing that stuff with them? Should I feel bad about it? cause as fo rite now i really dont' feel bad about it cause i did what i wanted ot do and went where i wanted to go .....
please help!!!!!!!!!!
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as long as you were happy you're fine! :) because it doesnt matter if they want to do something not like you shouldnt take sacrifices for your friends but they dont seem like the type of friends that would sacrifice for you. so you did what you should've done!
=) samantha
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no you were completely with it ..Hey they didnt call you all day to let you kno they were going out so why should you have to wait all day for a phone call when you can make other plans ..and yes you were still with it when you didnt want to go to the concert because i kno if i were you and i didnt like the singer i wouldnt wanan waste my time watching something i dont like ...but hey even if it was FREE it still wasnt worth it if you didnt like the singer ..
Hopefully i help you .
- Nicole
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Well if you were probably right to get away from your friends a litttle bit becasue you don't want to lose them because you wanted to do other stuff and were a little sick of them.
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if you dont wanna hang out with then then dont thats fine you shouldnt feel bad at all. ♥
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It's fine if you don't feel bad. People get sick of each other ALL THE TIME. So really if you think about it, you're helping to keep the friendship together by giving yourself a break from them so you won't get sick of them completely. If you didn't give yourself a break from them, I think something would happen or be said that would later be regretted. As long as you're happy and no major conflicts are occuring with the frienships than you're fine.
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friends get tired of each other all the time...i do it a lot... i dont ditch my friends but also when i go places w/ 1 friend i dont try 2 rub it into the other 1's face.... its not wrong 2 do your own thing jus dont ditch your friends completely.....
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No, you weren't wrong. I know what you mean about getting tired of em too. I mean I have friends that I love to death' I'd take a bullet for em, but sometimes I just need to spend some time away from em. It's like that with anything. In no way were you wrong, and your friends have probably done the same thing. So, don't worry about it; it's perfectly fine and normal to do. I hope I helped. Friendly advice from Caleb.
Burnie Mac
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i don't think you should feel bad. if you did what you wanted to, and had a good time, it's all in the past now. plus, it's always good to spend time with your family
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