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my boyfriend and i
hey me and my boyfriend have only seen eachother once. We talk a lot but we never see eachother that much, and i really like him. All my friends say to break up with him but i really like him, i dont know what to do? I always ask him when can you hangout he says i dont know. But when my friend asks him he gives a day. We were supposed to hangout this weekend but he never called me back. He always says he loves me one day we stayed on the phone till one in the morning! Hes so sweet but i never see him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Julia xox
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aww ok well maybe you should talk to him and say that you wanna hang out more .. if he says "i dont know" then he isn`t a good boyfriend and isn`t putting effort into your relationship! when and if you hang out .. do fun things that you both enjoy so that he knows to hang out with you more. also, you dont always have to listen to what your friends say! .. do whatever YOU want to do and what YOU feel comfortable doing! good luck =]
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if you NEVER see him, sorry to say but he could be doing so many other things / girls.. thats why when you have a boyfriend you make sure you know what hes doing and when hes not doing anything.. you are with him..or when he goes to parties you go with him.. and if you have a boyfriend that you never see when do you kiss him and hugg him and cuddle with him? just break it off if you're not gonna see him a lot.. on the other hand you could take control and make sure you guys hang out ALOT if that doesnt work than yeah.. just break it off i guess
=) samantha
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Ok... quit being naive. 1) its sounds like you jumped into this relationship too fast if you've only seen him once. 2) if you've only seen him once you don't love him. 3) Get rid of him. You sound too young to have a boyfriend and there are plenty of guys out there that i am sure you could find one just as good that you can see more often and will call you back.
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it really doesnt sound like hes interested... : (
oh come on find a guy that is.
!LIZ!
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mmm well ii know sometimesz itsz hard to talk to guysz like seriouslyy about serious stuff buht casuallyy ask him whyy yawl never get to see eachother. tryy to get it out of him the best wayy you can like if he saysz idk then be like well ii reallyy wannah see you;; buht everyy time ii tryy go placesz w// you;; you onlyy sayy "idk".
hope it helpsz =) <3 ...Am
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I had a boyfriend like yours... (that ignorant douchebag ...) I just talked to him about it for a while, and after spring break... we broke up =]
I'd say just ask him if he's ready to break up. Him not calling you is a definite sign he's not interested in you anymore.
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this has happened to me...i stayed with him a while longer but then i couldnt take it because my friends would always go out wiht their boyfriends and i was soo jealous..soo i had to break up with him...even tho i had strong feelings for him...soo now we are just really good friends! soo...
hope i helped!
<3
Amber Nicole
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Well he sounds very sweet, but if he doesnt wanna see you there may be soemthing wrong. Becease a guy should want to hang out with their gf not ignore you. I hate to come up with the worst response too, but he might have another gf out there hes not telling you about. Seriously if i know guys, hes probably out there like yah i got a girl here, and this other girl who im going out with blah blah...for bragging rights. I think you need to confront him. Be like * *his name* i really like you, but we never hang out is there a reason u dont wanna be around me?* if he really cares about u he would say the right thing after that line. I hope i helped. Sammerz
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sweety as hard as this may sound let him go
if hes not into hanging out with you but yet he hangs out with your friends hes not worth your time forget about him and go find another guy
i know this is hard and believe me it is even harder letting go of the person ive been there
i hope i helped if you need anything feel free to ask me
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You need to let him know that his not seeing you is putting your BF/GF relationship in jeopardy.
Ask him why he can give your friend a day and time to meet but can't give you one. Tell him it isn't making you feel really great that he does that. If you don't get the answer you're looking for...keep him as just a friend to talk to on the phone and get another guy for a boyfriend. :)
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well hun... if you really like him stay with him maybe hes just a little shy and it might take him a while but he'll come around... sooner or later yall will have to start hangin out... hopefully sooner than later... if he starts acting really immature never wanting to see you then you should probably break up with him cause theres just no point in going out wit someone youve only seen one time... but follow your heart dont listen to what your friends say! ♥
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HMMMMM......That's a little strange. I think you need to confront him and ask him why you two never get to see each other. I mean I know relationships shouldn't be completely physical, but I mean you at least need to see the dude once in a while. Don't be afraid to ask him. Let him know that you want to see him, and put some pressure on him to spend some time with you in person. Who knows, maybe he's just shy, but you still need to see him ya know? Well, I hope I helped you. Friendly advice from Caleb.
Burnie Mac
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i had a boyfriend like that...i loved him so much but he wouldnt make time for me so i broke up with him. but thats just me, follow your heart. <3
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well talk to him bout it... ask him why.... and think about the fact that he will give your friend a day and you nothing........
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