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ok my bf (lets call him ed) was talking about running away. then i was talking about running away. we both have some family problems that we want to get away from. and his friend(lets call him bob)is just a huge risk taker. and one night i was talking to ed and he said that me and him should run away together:-\ and then he said bob would go with us. well, its been about a month now and we sarted talking about how ed didnt want to do it anymore because he is even more sad. and now i dont know if were going or not. i dont know what he means by he is too sad...do you think that means he wants to kill himself or something?
please help me
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Well i think That both of you should talk to a guidance conselor because running away from this is only going to stall your problems. Ed Especially should talk to someone about this and i think that he needs help to sort out his family situation.
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Well for starters running away to begin with isnt too smart or safe. Im not critizing but its very irresponsible and will just mkae things worse. Now about *ed* I think you need to talk to him about how you feel and how scared you are. He needs to know that he has someone to care about them and will always be there for him.I hope i helped. IM me anytime at Sammerz619
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good story...no
hun everyone has problems deal with them...
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ummmm......yea it sounds like yall need more help than i can give you but here it goes.....
running away from the problems you have now is just gonna create more problems 4 yall... and i dont kno if he wants to kill himself... y dont you ask him...
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I think you both need to stay put and deal with your family problems. If you run away you are only avoiding them, they will not go away unless you talk about them with someone and get them taken care of. Running away will only make them worse.
Sounds like you both are depressed and upset. The thing is if you only talk to each other you aren't getting anything done. You are just keeping each other depressed and down in the dumps. I don't know what ed has in mind, but if he is sad enough that you think he may do himself harm then you need to tell someone who cares enough to help him.
I want you to find an adult that you trust and tell them what is going on with you. Maybe they can help you fix some of your problems so that your home life is better. Ed needs to do the same. You take care of your problems and let him take care of his. I hope you get everything back to normal soon. By the way, kids often feel like things can't get worse and get all depressed about it. Most things can be fixed though so work on it instead of running from it. :)
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Well i know i have some family problems muhself.. one time me and muh friend {lets call her sarah} were talking about running away.. we decided not to do it and i think that was for the best... but yea sometimes i do feel like killing muhself so that could be what he means.. you should talk to him about it and ask him what he means when he says hes "sad".
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this guy sounds sad, yes, but i dont know about the whole suicidal thing. you might wanna ask before you find out the hard way. um, you will probably have more problems if you do run away so just get together a ton so the family cant ruin your life when you have a guest over or just go for walks often so you are running away but only temporarily. just talk to him about it and i hope it all works out for you! <3
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OK, so you both are having some family problems and want to run away. That's understandable, but I think that it would be a very bad thing to do. Families go through things that are tough sometimes, but you have to stick together to make it work. Now, I'm not saying that I know what you or your boyfriend is going through, but trust me, if you run away, and then you're out there on your own without mom and dad, things will only be worse. Not to mention all the bad things that could happen. Please don't do that. As for your boyfriend, by him having family problems and saying that he's sad, I hate to say this, but maybe he is thinking about doing the worst(suicide). You need to have a good talk with him. Don't ask him if that's what he's thinking, just encourage him to look on the brighter side of life, like all the good things that could be coming your way. All in all, this is something that a lot of people go through, and you just have to work through it. I hope I helped. Friendly advice from Caleb.
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