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Hey guyz! I REALLY NEED HELP BAD
i really NEED to shave my legs but i dont know how to ask my mom! I really NEED HELP
plz help me

-Needin Help B A D

Babe~ Shaving really isnt that big of a deal! Just tell your mother that your ready to start shaving. Every girl has to start some time or another! Its really not that big of a deal* Just Ask (or throw them hairy beasts up on the kitchen table and she'll beg you to shave em!) lol! Really~ just ASK!
♥Emily

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I don’t think people have anything to live for at all. Most people live for other people even thought everyone will eventually die. I think life is pointless and there is no such thing as “making a difference” because in the end none of it matters. My teacher says everyone wants to be remembered after they die, I don’t want to be remembered. Some people live for God, which I think is stupid because I don’t believe in God. If I did, I would hate him, why? Because he has control over us. Killing yourself is wrong because you’re interfering with “God’s little plan”, right? That doesn’t sound right now, does it? Everything happens for a reason doesn’t it? If something happened to make you want to kill yourself then is killing yourself still wrong? If God doesn’t want it to happen then it shouldn’t happen because he makes everything happen, doesn’t he? Can someone help me understand this whole “God” concept?

That has to be a horrible way to live your life. You should really try to get over "hating" the God that put you here. I think you should live every day as if it were your last. You should live every second of every day~ the ups, the downs, the laughs, and the tears.. they are all just part of life. I know what you tell yourself "theres too much bad shit in this world.." And YES there is. But without suffering there would be no compassion. Even if you dont believe in God, every day is a gift. You shouldnt be so negative, because that just drains away any happiness you could have every day. I can understand how you would be confused, and I have had my doubts, but in the end.. you should just let yourself live and be happy, and not worry about anything else. It will all just fall into place. Just be happy with the time you have here on earth. I hope you find your path.
♥Emily

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My prom is June 27th and Im not really a good dancer I dont really know how to dance but I would like to know how or atleast be somewhat decent for my prom so besides taking classes and asking my friends to teach me what can i do to learn how to dance?

Dancing really isnt that hard. When you start, it just kinda comes naturally. You just need to have rhythm and it really isnt that hard. Try watching some music videos (that may sound really corny, but I think it may help) Dont fret about it too much; nothing is ever as bad as you think!
♥Emily

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I have seen a few girls on the show wear a shirt that says "Future M.I.L.F" Does anyone know what M.I.L.F stands for?

OMG. That is sooo my show! Anywho, yea.. Veronica, Rachael, and Tina wear those shirts a LOT (like every episode) That stands for "Mom I'd like to F***!" Cmon now.. Havent you ever seen American Pie?!!
♥Emily

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Well , i have been going out with this guy. we never see each other and sometimes people tell me he is makin moves and flirting with other girls!! i dont know what to do. should i break up with him? thanks in advance .. :o]
signed,
mixed emotions

Well I dont know if I would just break up with him. You should try to talk to him and tell him what you have heard and how you feel about it. Tell him that you dont think it's right~ and if he wants to be with you he should act like it. It the problem just persists, then maybe you should break it off, because his intentions are very obvious.
♥Emily

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I'm going to the beach in a week and I understand that when you shave your legs, it stings really bad once you get in the ocean. Does Nair sting? If so, are there any other alternatives?

Yes! It will sting if you shave your legs before you get in the salt water. That really sucks. I dont think it will sting as bad if you use a really sharp razor blade, and not a dull one. Make sure you put on mousturizer or some type of lotion. That will fill your pores and let less salt water into the nicks in your skin. Hope I helped
♥Emily

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There's this one girl in my group of friends who moved into town after we all became friends and we sort of accepted her into the group. The thing is, she's always the subject of our joking and teasing, because sometimes she is really bossy and gives empty threats randomly every three seconds (like I borrow her pencil and she says, "Give me back my pencil or I'll punch you soo hard!" even though we all know she never will) sometimes I feel sorry for her, but she gets on my nerves a lot. What do I do?

She is more than likely just joking about the whole punching thing. Thats just sort of a joke I guess. Me and my friends do that all the time. I dont think that she should be the head of yall's jokes, though. You should really consider her feelings. I know how easy it is to pick on someone for being an airhead, but sometimes it really does hurt them, even when you think your just playing. Just consider her feelings, and dont say anything that may set her off. Put yourself in her position.
♥Emily

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I forgot to get something for my mom because i didnt know it was mothers day - what should i do!? I cant make her anything special or buy anything.

Well, you could make her a card or something. You might also try to put a bunch of old pictures together and find a little album to put them in. That would mean a lot to her. Moms dont necessarily want really expensive things for mothers day, its just the thought that counts; Just let her know you were thinking about her!
♥Emily

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Hey im 14 and i have this friend. We have been best friends for about 4 years but this year she is being different. She is always actin realy immature and i dont realy get it. She is always saying she is soo immature and like brags about it(witch i dont get??). I want to tell her how i feel but i cant...And that is really surprisiing cause im really stright forward with people and say what i think. But if i tell her she will be the type of peoson were she is just like "ok whatever" but i kno there is still somthing wrong. SOOoo plezzz help me!!

I have a best friend who can be really immature at times, but its not a permanent thing. Maybe she is just trying to have a good time with you, but if you arent feelin it, you should definately tell her. Dont embarass her or anything like that, just ask her why she acts that way all the time. See if she really is that immature or if shes just trying to act that way to impress someone or for some other strange reason ??? Just talk to her about it; Im sure she will unerstand~
♥Emily

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i lost a parent a year ago. my other parent is getting married in the summer. how do i show this fiance that i still love my parent, but i'll try to have a relationship with the fiance.

thanks

You shouldnt have to prove that you still love your deceased parent, because he/she will automatically know that. You shouldnt worry about trying to impress this soon-to-be step parent. You can talk to them and tell them how you really feel. Just tell them that nobody will ever be able to take the place of your parent, but you look foward to having a good relationship with them. Most of the those things they will probably already know. It may not be easy at first to make those adjustments, but it will get easier. Good Luck! I hope I helped you out!
♥Emily

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What are some cheat codes for the sims game? thanks in advance!

I used to play that game all the time (its really addicting) The only one I know it before you buy a house, push alt and tab and type ROSEBUD;;;;;;; and hold down on the enter button and it will give you unlimited money!! Have fun!
♥Emily

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okay so my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, but i still love him and i wana talk to him again cuz its hard to jus forget bout him. and this new boy that im feelin, i feel like hes just using me. he says he loves me though. what should i do?

I think you should talk to your ex; maybe like friends or something, but that should be about it. I think if a guy cheats on you once, he will definately do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Thats just the way it is. Oh, and if you think the other guy is just using you, he probably is. Theres no reason why you should feel like someone is using you. You will know when you find the right guy, and you wont feel like hes using you OR cheating on you!
♥Emily

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there's this guy at school and he always like bumps into me, and says sorry. before i didn't think anything of it, but now it's happening like almost all the time! does he like me? or is this just some weird coincidence?!

Nothings a coincidence, especially not this. Thats really unusual. I think he might be wanting it to happen. He's probably flirting with you~ so flirt back!
♥Emily

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okay so i like this guy but hes really really shy... how can i make him open up??

Just talk to him. Open up to him and he will do the same. Find out what he likes and talk to him about the things he likes; he will eventually come around!
♥Emily

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Okay:
Put yourself in my position, say you like a girl. But, you have heard they like someone else. You can do one of two things, either keep quiet and stay quiet. Or you can play the risk card and ask her out(You dont give a F if it makes you lok like a total loser) What would you do? In my opinion this girl is absolutly BEAUTIFUL. She is smart, funny,great friend,awsome all-around person. And like I sais absolutely gorgous(sp?)

What Would *You* do?

Well, if shes as great as you describe her, then why wouldnt you take the chance and ask her out. I mean, you really dont have anything to lose. The worst than could happen would be you getting rejected, but that wont kill you or anything. I dont think you should just sit around and watch some other guy get with her~ what are you waitin for?
♥Emily

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OK heres the dealio
i HATE showers...they just seem like a waste of time for me. Does anyone know any ways that will make showering fun?? no sarcastic answers please. Thanks

Um ok heres the dealio! I dont know anyone who can say that they LOVE taking showers like all the time, but its just something that your going to have to do~ well I guess you dont have to do it, but you SHOULD. Anyway, just sing, or buy a little shower radio (FREDS) they are all over the place. They really help when your bored in there! Good luck!
♥Emily

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Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this?

Well, I dont think its anything we should be worried about. The pope died, oooo my gosh its the end of the world. No, thats just a fact of life. I think that when the world ends, nobody will suspect it~ and it sure as hell wont be because the pope died! I thik that all of the bad things that are happeneing now are just a result of the media and technology. It isnt a sign of the end of the world.. and last time I checked this wasnt opinionators.com!
♥Emily

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My cousin is staying over my house for like 2 months and in the begining i thought i wasn't giving my sis any time with her but now i feal like they are leving me out of the picture. I was just in the room they are in and they sorta kicked me out, now i can hear them just laughing away. i don't know what to do and i know i sound really selfish but i want some atention from her to. should i say anything or just leave it alone?
what should i do?

ha! This reminds me of the way my cousin and I used to treat my little sister. We would always hide from her and do mean things. We grew out of it. She would get soo mad bc we left her out, when actually, sometimes we really didnt mean to. Maybe you should tell your cousin and your sister how you feel. Ask them if they wanna go do something with you. Dont worry, its just a temporary thing~ they will grow out of it. They will get tired of doing things by themselves and want you to join~ just dont worry ab it and dont try too hard! lol! funny question.
♥Emily

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ok, i have a really big mouth, i can't keep a scercret & all of my firends get mad at me when somethihg slips. they never tell me a scerect any more, even though i am working on it. does anyone have any advise. plese help, if u can!!!!!
signed blabber

Its pretty normal to want to tell someone something that you have heard. If it wasnt juicy, then it wouldnt be a secret. Most secrets do get told, especially when girls are involved. Just try to put yourself in the other persons position, because they might really not want you to tell. Just consider your friends~ and try to understand where they are coming from. They dont have to tell you their secret in the first place. I know its hard, but try!
♥Emily

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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!

This is a little rough. Its really bad that you would say all those bad things about your friend. Some guys truly do look for personality over looks. You sound like you may be too secure with yourself, which can be a major turnoff to some guys. I wouldnt downplay others and why she has a boyfriend and you dont. Just be happy that she has a boyfriend. I wouldnt worry tho, the right guy will come along sometime unexpected~ Just dont spend your time wondering why you cant get a boyfriend, and have fun!
♥Emily

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