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Teasing too Far?
There's this one girl in my group of friends who moved into town after we all became friends and we sort of accepted her into the group. The thing is, she's always the subject of our joking and teasing, because sometimes she is really bossy and gives empty threats randomly every three seconds (like I borrow her pencil and she says, "Give me back my pencil or I'll punch you soo hard!" even though we all know she never will) sometimes I feel sorry for her, but she gets on my nerves a lot. What do I do?
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confront her. it is the onl way for her to know you don't like the way she is treating all of you. but no matter what you do, never play the "we accepted you into our group" card. that makes people feel useless am uncomforable. also, stand up to her. edge her on saying "go ahead" and make her fall into her place, besides, if she ever followed through, she would get in a ton of trouble, so stand up 4 your self.
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Stop asking stupid fucking questions on an advice site or ill break your lower left rib.
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well first of all you shouldnt tease her because it will just make her be defensive and want to threaten you more i think you should confront her and tell her not to threaten you and to stop being bossy but DONT say it in a mean way
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Sammy
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Teasing,
I would go up to her and try talking to her about all the joking and teasing. I also have a friend who gets on my nerves, but she is my friend you know so I try and, zone her out, then she usually gets the hints and she stops, so you should try that. Good Luck.
Love Always,
xrebelx
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Like pink princess said. Even if other people tease her you shouldn't because that makes you worse than them. Besides maybe she feels that no one understands her. She might even start bullying peopl,e because of you guys so try not to do it as much. I used to have a friend like her annoying and all. But after a year I got to know her better and now she's my best friend. You never know she might become yours as well e-mail me at
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She is more than likely just joking about the whole punching thing. Thats just sort of a joke I guess. Me and my friends do that all the time. I dont think that she should be the head of yall's jokes, though. You should really consider her feelings. I know how easy it is to pick on someone for being an airhead, but sometimes it really does hurt them, even when you think your just playing. Just consider her feelings, and dont say anything that may set her off. Put yourself in her position.
♥Emily
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