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Ok, me -n- my b/f hooked up less than a week ago and he gives me a hug all the time...well at least a few times a day when I see him. And I really want a kiss soon tho. What do you guys think I can do to get him to kiss me without showing that I really want him to? Answer soon please cuz tomorrow is friday!!

i have no idea. sorRry! i wish i did.

-_X*MWah

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See, my friend has been going out with this girl since october, I'm very good friends with her, and liked her a couple months before my friend and her started going out. Me and the girl have known eachother for atleast 4 years, I'm friends with her brother, whos younger than me, Lately my friend has become annoyed with The girl (whos also my friend) avoiding her phone calls, stuff like that. Lately the girl has been flirting with me on IM, sending me kissy faces, saying I'm her best bud, always trying to be beside me in public places when (my friend, her BF is not around) hugging on me in a playful non shalont way, etc. But then she'll say something like i wish My boyfriend was here, or something like that. Which is kool, because i would never go behind my friends back, shes just a friend. But she asks if i could do stuff with her would I? If my friend wouldn't find out. I tell her no, not unless she broke up with my friend, and still probably wouldn't cuz he might be hurt. Whats goin on with this chick? Is she liken me? or my friend...or both of us? HaHa, shes acten weird, never has been like this before.

well` i would have to say i think shes a great friend to hang around with but don't get to attached because most likely she`ll play you.

xD_MWah

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This bitch lets call her Allie stole my crush from me. Then my friend Carley told her I liked him and Allie called me a slut to my face and now all my friends are turning on me. You don't know how bad I want this boy, and want my friends back. I mean I liked him first and this girl is younger then him. I'm so confused, what should I do?

well. if she called you a slut. call her a ass munching man whore! god i don't get it either. guys always seem to get girls that are younger than them! but if you really want him. take a chance and risk it all.. cuz you don't know he might be there to catch you if you fall. you should arrange a meeting. and say hey you might not like me. but i like you. and allie somehow i guess likes you too. but shes turning all my friends against me because of me liking you!! and if you tell him about whats going on. he might understand. and he'll try to help you get your friends back.

-- i hope i helped! hehe

* xo A Ma Nda *

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i'm a freshman in high school.. 14 years old, and i'm dating a sophomore. all these girls my b/f hangs out with don't like me. today, these two girls - anna and liz were talking to my ex boyfriend, corbin about me and ryne. anna asked corbin if me and my b/f had sex.. (its not true).. liz said no, corbin said no, and anna didn't believe them. anna hates me w/ a passion by the way.. but yeah.. she's going to go around telling evryone a stupid rumor, and my b/f already bitched her out and went to the dean and told him. but what can i do to make this rumor go away or stop? or how can i stop them from ruining my reputation? i have a good rep right now and i don't want it ruined.. plz help! i'll rate all 5's for an effort.

well you can't really run away from rumors. i found out that hard way. some girl at my old school was spreading a rumor about me. well wasn't really school. lets say camp. Lol. but i got taught alot of things there. well anyways you have to deal with. and if your bf won't tell them to stop nagging on you. maybe he's not worth going out with. because you need to rely on people in life. and if hes not ganna be there to catch you then you need to stop right now. and save your rep. why does rep's matter anyhow. i don't have a rep. i do what ever i want. and i'm wild and free and single .. hehe.... but i recently witnessed a break up - Me and my then bf. were just tired of doing it i guess.. soo we didn't want to see eachother that way anymore. and thats good too. because you can really never be sure.

-- x Hope I helPed.. hehe

xx * A M a Nda

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I was best friends with Kelly since 7th grade. We're in 9th now and we're still pretty good friends, not best friends but close. Well, she tells me all of her secrets and I never tell them. She says all the time to me and everybody else that I'm her most trustworthy friend, and she tells me that Brittany is very dishonest and lies to her alot. Anyways, Kelly did something really bad and she told me and Brittany and acouple of other people about it and made us promise not to tell. Her secret got out (one that everybody gossips about) and one girl, Julie, (who doesnt like me) tells Kelly that I told everybody the secret. I honestly didn't tell anybody. Now Kelly won't even talk to me, she won't even let me explain to her that I didn't tell anybody. She won't talk to me about it at all. Do you think that she's just not a good enough friend to even try to hold onto, or should I keep trying to tell her the truth? Ill rate if you ask :o) thanks

hmm. if your friend kelly hasn't gotten over the fact that she'll believe people that she isn't really friends with. then i would say you lost your friend ship along time ago if she'll believe them instead of you. if you honestly didn't tell her secrets then dont wory about it. because its whats inside that counts and if she gives up and says hey listen bitch im sorry for everything. then say aright.. but if she doesn't caugh up. id try to let it slide and see how she makes out wiht out u.. and if she cant make out with out you.. she'll run to you.
and if u run to her if shes ur friend shell let you in!

-- x A Ma nda *

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me and this guy had a really really fun time one night (not sex) we just cuddled and kissed the whole night. I really like him alot, but im not sure if he likes me too. yeah we cuddled but he's kind of a user so i couldn't tell. ANYWAYS! that was 4 days ago, and he hasnt called me yet. would it be extrally gay if i text him while i was at school just to have a regualar convorsation an be like "whats up? im bored at school an decided to text u." would that be gay, weird, or just normal? i've never texted him an im to nervouse to call him. would it be cheesy if i did? tell me your honest opinion, please!

wow should i or shouldn`t i. you can and your couldnt. but i think its a good idea just be liike hey watsup u wanna go out with me or what!?! and that will get him goin! hehe. trust me i know! haha

xox A M a Nda * xo

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okay here the thing. im making my xanga page and i have this site i go on and put cool effects on my websites. well the one design is where you can make a box pop up when the person who visits your site enters and leaves. I was just wondering when you copy the link for it, where do you put it in the xanga site? I rate 5's

iim sorry i know what your talking about but i have no idea how you do it. sorry!!

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ok so my ex boyfriend and i have been on and off for a little over 4 years. i did see other people in between but its not the same. he has been my best friend for what seems to be my whole life. i have been able to go to him for everything. well a year ago November we got back together and things were great. he means everything to me. i love him more then anything and i know that he truly loves me.. however things got rough this past September and we broke up again. i dumped him. but we promised to be best friends still. for a while things were still great. like we still hooked up and kissed and everything but i don't want to be friends with benefits. but i cant help it when im with him. so last week the week of November 15th was great. we hung out Monday, Wednesday(what would have been 1 year) and then Saturday. Wednesday was the best. i mean he told me he loved me and everything but then Saturday he was a jerk. we hooked up and i told him i loved him and hes like i know u do. but was gay about it. he ended up leaving shortly after. then we didn't talk all week. till i called him Friday upset needing someone to talk to and he couldn't be there for me. then on Saturday i told him again that i really needed him and hes like well im busy. BLAH! i cant take this anymore. its like he cares about me but he doesn't show it. he never calls me anymore like he promised he would and like how tings were b4 we got back together. what should i do? im not happy anymore. i want to express myself to him and tell him how im hurting but i don't know how to. i don't want to stop talking to him cause he has always been my best friend but its like i have too. i don't know what to do. please help me!

well my sn is iizyur21hunnay and i know alot about this stuff i had a bf for about what was it 3 years but we wernt showing it like he would say he liked me and wanted to go out so i would secretly say ok. and then like 2 years he forgot we were going out.. soo he was still my best friend and we talked about everything... but we just couldn't talk to eachother anymore .. soo i told him i didn't wanna see him again.. and he was like good cuz i cant put up with a skanky whore like you.. soo i got over my life met sumone over the summer and that didn't work out either. soo i have't been with anyone since.. and if around public he doesn't wanna be with you i would say screw him anyways if he really loved yyou like he keeps saying..he would love being around you. and if he does he should show it..

xox manda hope i helped

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im 14/female. i used to have this really good friend. we could talk about anything. he was like my big brother. well lately (in the past few months) we've grown apart so much. we can't talk to each other about anything and i get mad at him over little things. i don't know why our relationship is changing so much. i miss how things used to be. any ideas why things are happening like this? any advice on what i should do?

i think that he may have been starting to like you, and you like him. cuz you get mad about little things that is what always happens to meh and guys i like.. i get soo pissed off..but then they just say sorry and hug meh. try talking to him. and see if big brother can come back . lol

xox manda hope i helped

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I'm very overshadowed by my best friend. She's a very flirtatious, outgoing, redheaded vixen and everyone wants to be friends with her. Now, I don't mind it so much, I'm happy that she is well liked by people, but it's the fact that I seem to be getting less and less attention from her every time she meets somebody new. Especially guys. Every guy she meets has had a crush on her. (Except, thankfully, my CURRENT boyfriend...note that I said CURRENT..ex-boyfriends are another story) And often times she has crushes on them, but she still has to complain about them liking her. She seems to treat me like a child and she's the "All-knowing-one", especially when it comes to relationships, and it's really starting to piss me off! She steals my jokes and claims them as her own OFTEN and she says that I'm a bad friend because I once decided to stay with my boyfriend instead of going to hang out with her, while she has ditched me many a time to hang out with guys. (I can think of two instances from just last week.) I'm really bothered by her, yet I remain her friend and most of the time I really don't know why. And I want to talk to her about this, but I've tried before and she always apologizes and then forgets about it two days later.

And when it's just her and I things are fine! We have a great time and everyone's happy and once again I've become the comedian between the two of us, (material she later steals from me to use in front of her flirting victims), but when it comes to boys I'm completly ignored and she's off in the corner creating some sort of drama. It's weird for me, because before I befriended her I was always the center of attention among the group. I was the loud, funny, loving one who everyone wanted to give hugs because I would gladly dish them out. And now it seems like nobody has any time for me because they all want to be with her. Like she's taken all of my friends, but still claims that I'm her best one.

What should I do? I know the most logical thing would be to stop being friends with her, but we've been together for so long and we have most of our friends in common with each other, so there really would be no way to avoid hanging out with her.

well i would say that you have a choice to make..
from richer to poorer guys you meet,
who will drop you off your feet..
still one thing girlies come first.
unless they are a bitch.

there i hope you got it

xox manda hope i helped!

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hello, ok I just got my Belly button pierced. and the guy told me to clean it once a day with sea salt, is that right? should i use anything else?

welll if the guy told you this maybe you should listen you know get it right haha..
hope i helped xox manda

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I have some friends that I used to know really well that I would talk to all the time, and we could talk about almost anything with each other; well not so anymore. And it seemed like all of a sudden we didnt talk. What happened and why? Is there anything I can do to reverse this?

well one thing that could of happend is they could have gotten in to drugs.. that happens sometimes when you get in to drugs and trouble. i had a friend once who did that and i only talk to him once a month now. by phone i dont even see him. so wow try and get them in to rehab if its the case.and if it's not the case then maybe you should try and talk to them even if they don't wanna talk to you. well i hope you know what to do.
hope i helped xox manda

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Well here's the thing, my best friend(23) has just recently gotten engaged. She has asked me(19) to be her maid of honor and I have said yes. But come to find out she has been lying to this guy(20) the whole time they've been together. I didn't realize what she's been doing until all of us started to hang out with each other. He's really nice and really loves her. But I don't believe she feels the same about him. She is what you would call a user. If you have something that she could benefit from she attaches to you and try's to get you for all you have. She has cancer and is getting a divorce from her present husband now, there goes her medical, this new guy is in the airforce and is form a family with money, (lots of benefits and can take care of her). My question is, should I tell him about all of her lies, cheating and sneaky ways or just leave the whole thing alone and let him find out for himself.

woah.. maybe you should tell him about it all.
he deserves to know she has cancer.. i have been there with family and close relitives if he doesn't find out now he will be more broken when she has an attack.... you should make the right decision. you don't need my help.

xox manda hope i helped

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My aunt used to seel herbel life diet pills and they used to work soo good and they had shakes n drinks to go with it and now she doesnt sell it anymore do anyone know of anyone thats does!

you shouldn't take diet pills ... or shakes or drinks.. because that stuff is bad for you.. you don't know how much it can hurt you.. it could give you cancer and my uncle died from that.. don't take them.

hope i helped
xox manda

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I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do?

well ask him if he wants to go alittle farther and if he doesn't appreciate it and hope that you guys last along time. and tell him about your past. maybe he will understand and want to help you get out of your curse.

i hope i helped xox manda

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Ok I got dumped by my boyfriend and he started being nasty to me then we made friends and we're both over eachother now he's going out with his other ex and It didn't bother me at first but on friday we were swimming at school and they were really flirting with eachother and holding hands I felt a jelious but I thought I was over him so now I'm really confused because I don't know if I still like him but whenever I see him I just keep looking at him and thinking why did he dump me because he never told me why and I still wonder why if you can help me then please tell me what to do?

well i dont really have a brilliant answer but what i would say is maybe to talk to him maybe he dumped u cuz he was cheating on you with out you knowing.. and then he wanted to make sure you didnt get hurt more so he dumped you i have no idea.. but talk to him ok..

xox manda hope i helped

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sorry! ook..here it is.. i sweat alot under the arms.. ( im a girl . 13 years.) if i try to wear a color shirt besides black or white..you always see sweat spots around the arm pits..even when its winter.. what should i do so i can wear any color shirts? .. (by the way. i wear non-presperant deodorent)

Change deotorent.
xx Manda hope i helped

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I am 13/f
I have a friend. We'll call her "N". Well N is very moody sometimes. And, yes, I do know about PMS but its everyday. It seems like shes nice to me on and off or when she wants to be. I don't know if she is using me or anything but she just sometimes have this attitude when I talk to her. She doesn't listen or look like she is. And thats one of my BIGGEST pet peeves. But then she talks to me about her day and everything. And I listen and set the example. I think my friend is personally full of herself in ways cuz she thinks she can have any guy she wants and can be conceeded at times. And then calls herself the ugliest thing or not that pretty. (and she is absolutly soooo pretty) It bothers me cause she brings me down. I can never talk to her about my problems. But I have to listen to her?
Please help me
What should I say or do? Because she is very nice but the thing I just typed above..I want to stay her friend.
xo0x :)

well u have to take chances.. and you have to risk ur friend ship with her to be her friend.. then its not worth it. cuz you should be able to talk to her but ,,, if shes nice. then she will let u be and understnad. . okay

xxmanda hope i helped

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I have always had feelings for this guy, and we went out and it didn't work out last year. SO when we came back to school, I liked him even more. Just I don't think he likes me. my friends all say I have a chance, but I don't know what to do. I really want him to see in me, what he saw last year. Please do help me, so I can maybe rekindle our relationship.
Signed,
Looking for Answers

miss looking for asnweres life can be hard.
and u have to try and work it out.so i guess i am saying try it and if u dont feel its workin out.. pretend ur a guy and get his point of view... soo you can see how he feels for u.. and if it works.. it works.. and if it doesnt.. just be friends.. so u guys can be best friends lol..

xxManda hope i helped

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I fall for men to quickly and then end up getting hurt. It is usually when you like a guy they don't feel the same way or vice versa. Now, I don't technically like someone right now, but I'd like to find someone I can spend time with and get to know so that I know something will happen. Any adive? I am nice, attractive, open minded, opinionated, spiritual, funny, love sports, love to talk, and just have a good time. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but there has to be something. People are always telling me how beautiful I am, and then they end up asking me why I don't have a BF, and I ask myself the same questions. Thanks!

well mirs techno..idk. maybe u should ask ur friends about it... lol

xxmanda hope i helped

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