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typical question..
i'm a freshman in high school.. 14 years old, and i'm dating a sophomore. all these girls my b/f hangs out with don't like me. today, these two girls - anna and liz were talking to my ex boyfriend, corbin about me and ryne. anna asked corbin if me and my b/f had sex.. (its not true).. liz said no, corbin said no, and anna didn't believe them. anna hates me w/ a passion by the way.. but yeah.. she's going to go around telling evryone a stupid rumor, and my b/f already bitched her out and went to the dean and told him. but what can i do to make this rumor go away or stop? or how can i stop them from ruining my reputation? i have a good rep right now and i don't want it ruined.. plz help! i'll rate all 5's for an effort.
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well you can't really run away from rumors. i found out that hard way. some girl at my old school was spreading a rumor about me. well wasn't really school. lets say camp. Lol. but i got taught alot of things there. well anyways you have to deal with. and if your bf won't tell them to stop nagging on you. maybe he's not worth going out with. because you need to rely on people in life. and if hes not ganna be there to catch you then you need to stop right now. and save your rep. why does rep's matter anyhow. i don't have a rep. i do what ever i want. and i'm wild and free and single .. hehe.... but i recently witnessed a break up - Me and my then bf. were just tired of doing it i guess.. soo we didn't want to see eachother that way anymore. and thats good too. because you can really never be sure.
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If you love your boyfriend, that's all that matters. Anna and liz just like him and are jelous and would do anything to get your rep down and you guys broken up. Real people with brains and any balls whatsoever will know that you're way more responsible than that rumor and they won't believe it. for everybody else, just use your acting skills and say things like "Where the hell did you get that from?" or laugh and say "You retards actually believe that?!" I hope I helped. ~Kylie~
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This girl sounds like a big shit started. She has no right to go around telling people you and your boyfriend had sex, when you didn't. Even if it was true it's none of her business. Just act like you don't care. Because if the girl that started it find out it's getting to you, they'll keep doing it, that's what bully's do. Just ignore them, then they'll shut up.
♥ Krissy
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First, you have to try to make it clear to her that spreading rumors about people, just because you don't like them, is really immature, and she needs to grow up. If she doesn't listen and does spread a rumor, just tell everyone you know that it's not true and tell them to spread the word. And if people start making fun of you about it, just ignore them and hold your head up high, cuz they're the ones with issues, not you. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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sorry to say it, but there really isn't a foolproof way to stop the rumors or make them go away. the most you can do is deny it and hold your head up high. if you keep denying it, and you don't make any remarks that would make people think it's true, then most should think it's not true after a while. but it shouldn't even take long.
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Something like this happened to me. First you have to show those girls that what you say doesn't effect you because if they know it pisses you off and gets to you then there just going to keep doing it more. You have to igonore them I know it's hard but it works. As for the rumors yea it happened to me I just tell people it's not true and ignore the stupid things people say! Don't let it get to you soon enough people will find someone else to spread a rumor about and totally forget about before . . . hope I helped!
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Rumors are gonna go around like that becuz either the person is really pissed (like that girl) or their just complety jealous becuz of what you and that guy have together.
Anywho, if those people come to you in school and ask you about that rumor than you kno what to do. There isnt really anything that you can do to prevent a rumor that has already been spread.
This is the same thing that is happening to my ex-boyfriend, he's a really good friend of mine tho. Its starting to go away tho. No one has really said anything about it....well, not that i've heard of so far.
Its gonna be ok tho...
sam
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I think that you should complain to her again or start a rumor about her! Seriously, she has no right to go around telling people you guys had sex when you didnt! and if anyone askes you about it just tell them all the truth so they can all see what a bitch see really is! I hope I helped a little..sry! I hope things will get better for you! RUMORS suck! trust I have had plenty amount of them go around for me ♥Andie
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Well...ur acents well kwl. lol. (I'm from England) and i'm so glad u put ages on cus i hav no idea what freshman and all them are.
There isnt really much you can do to stop bitches like that spreading rumours (its wot they base their lifes on). people will soon get sick of them bcus no1 likes a shit stirrer! if people know you properly they will know you arent that type of girl. dont let them girls take over your life. your happy wit ur bf and your happiness is all dat matters!
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