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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!
chat it up yo.
ps. here's my bestestestest friend.
I love him. You will too :)
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Do you know any songs about waiting for someone? The only ones I know is Lucky by Jason Mraz and If It Means A Lot To You by A Day To Remember.
Thanks!
These aren't all about waiting, exactly, but they're similar and I think you'll like them:
Wait for Me: Theory of a Deadman.
I'll Be Waiting: Adele.
Waste Myself: This Providence.
If You Ever Come Back: The Script.
Next in Line: Meese.
Think of You Later: Every Avenue.
Kelsey: Metro Station.
-Laura (18-f)
I LOVE the song I just had sex... HOWEVER I wish it wasn't about sex. Is there a song like it??? (without all the sex ) lol thanks :)
The band that made that song has other songs. Just look up "Lonely Island" on Youtube. Their newest song "The Creep" is hilarious and has nothing to do with sex :)
-Laura (18-f)
So im finally moving forward from a girl who basically broke my heart. Im talking to anther girl . this weekend that just passed by, i went over too her house and she literally threw herself at me. i didnt do anything just for personal reasons. Shes not my girlfriend. i dont wanna use her for sex. and i promised her i would be friend b4 anything. So thing are basically going well with the new girl. but now everybody is comparing the old girl to her. now i basically comparing to ; basically setting myself up for failure again. im making myself think so wrong of the new girl and she has done nothing to me as of yet.Im tryna be a person for her also , but i have some many unresolved things with the ex -.- so many questions that i know she wot answer.my mind is soo confused and i want to move on but cant help.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=564711
Stay strong and good luck!
-Laura (18-f)
19/f
Okay so here is the deal. I live with my boyfriend and his mom two sisters and their boyfriends hahaha and well we each teamed up for a weight loss competition, cause we are all a little to a lot over weight. Anyways, i am about 5'3" 1/2 160 pounds and my boyfriend is 6'0 even but is 375. He is more than willing to try he is just afraid of getting a lot of loose skin if he were to lose the weight and I sometimes lack motivation. ANYWAYS what are some tips and tricks to that we can do together that is fun to help us lose weight and get us onto the road of getting more in shape? Oh and to win the competition of course :)
Sincerly, T
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=569112
Best of luck!
-Laura (18-f)
I am a 22 year old female. I am 5'5" and weigh about 245 lbs. Eekkk! Yeah, I know that is really bad and I am working on it. My goal weight is between 140-160lbs. Definitely would much rather have it be closer to the 140 end but I would honestly be happy to be at 160. I have a gym membership and I haven't really been going until recently. I am serious about losing this weight but I need some help. I don't know what sorts of workouts I should be doing, for how long, etc. And I don't want to be told to just get on a treadmill and run for 5 miles because that is something I can't do, at least not right now. I also want to tone up pretty much all areas of my body and I know you can use weights and what not but I don't know about sets and all that fun stuff. Any and all help would be greatly appreciated in reaching my goal.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=569112
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Now, on to every body's favorite: EXCERCISE! I know, you're probably groaning at the word and you're probably thinking "But I don't even like exercising! It SUCKS." And that's where my first tip (and all the others, eventually) comes in:
1. Keep a positive state of mind!
- If you tell yourself you can do it, you can. If you tell yourself you're going to do it, you will. Be positive! And know that in the end, it will all be worth it.
2. Find YOUR exercise.
- For me, it's running. I love to run and I do it whenever I have time. For some people, it's bike riding or swimming or Kick-Boxing. Find some sort of physical activity that you enjoy, and do it!
3. Just like with your diet, don't be afraid to try new things.
- I recently took up Yoga (something I never thought I'd like, because I have the coordination of a Slinky.) I actually really enjoy it. So, try something new. Take a Tae Bo class, go for a bike ride or even just keep it old school and try out some new equipment at the gym.
4. Also like with the healthy diet, make a plan.
- Pick which days every week that you will work out, and write it down. Mark it on your calendar: "work out day", then on the next day "rest day". Stick to your plan, and if you find yourself busy on the day you're supposed to work out, make sure to work out the next day.
5. Which brings me to my next point- don't over do it. Start out slow.
- Know your limits, and give yourself time off each week. Maybe start out with working out 3 times a week for 30 minutes. Then, gradually increase to 3 days a week for 35 minutes, then 4 days a week, etc. Push yourself, but know where enough is enough. Everybody has their limits, and nobody knows yours better than you.
6. Make a PUMP UP PLAYLIST!
- My running playlist, no joke, is what keeps me going. I made a big playlist of songs that pump me up and make me want to run harder, or run that extra mile. So, find songs that pump you and get you going, make a playlist, and listen to them every time you work out.
7. Find a work out buddy!
- I'm not going to lie- this is not my style at all, but it might be yours. Personally, I love running on the treadmill all by myself with nothing but a wall in front of me and Hollywood Undead blasting through my headphones. But if you don't like being alone when you work out, find a friend to go with you. Ask a friend to take a class with you, or go for a run with you. It's really rewarding to some people, and it might help you out more than you'd think.
Now that you have what you need to start eating healthy and to start a work out plan, I have a few tips other tips to keep you going over the course of your weight loss.:
1. Keep track of your progress.
- Write down how you feel after a work out. I have Post It notes on my mirror with words like "Energized" and "Confident", because that's how I feel after I work out. You can try this tip, too.
2. Don't obsess.
- Do NOT weigh yourself every day. Weigh yourself once a week TOPS. And if you don't see progress at first, don't freak out. You have to know that it's going to take time, and results aren't instant. Instead, think of what IS instant: do you have more energy? I bet you do! Are you feeling better about yourself? I bet you totally are!
3. Reward yourself.
- When you reach a milestone (like losing 10 pounds or something), celebrate! Buy yourself a new pair of jeans or do something that makes you happy to reward yourself.
4. Incorporate your healthy lifestyle into other areas of your life.
- Walk to work or school. Invite your friends over for a Yoga party, or a healthy dinner party!
Good luck, and if you ever need more help, send something to my inbox! :)
-Laura (18-f)
so i gained 10 pounds this winter -_- and i want to get rid of it asap. I'm 5'4" and 150 my goal is to get down to 120-130. I was thinking if I ran a mile everyday mon-fri and only ate fruits and veggies if it would be good. let me know thanks!
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=569112
From there:
First off, weight loss takes patience. Second of all, it takes commitment. You can't eat healthy and work out one week, then binge on junk food and work out one day the next week.
That being said, before you start on your weight loss journey, set a goal. Decide how many pounds you want to lose or what you want to accomplish. It can be as simple as losing 5 pounds or just having more energy during the day. But it can also be a long-term goal, like losing 50 pounds and keeping it off. Just make sure that you keep it realistic and that you don't expect too much out of yourself. Set a realistic goal, and keep it in mind.
As far as how to obtain that goal goes, start with changing your diet. This is the biggest thing, and it will have the biggest effect on you. Make a meal plan if you have to, and STICK TO IT. Find alternatives to junk food. Here are some tips to help you get started:
1. Replace ice cream with sorbet.
2. Replace potato chips with baked chips.
3. Replace pop with fruit juice and/or water.
4. Eat fruits for snacks.
5. Replace white bread with wheat bread.
6. Pack your own lunch for school/work; don't buy.
7. Don't be afraid to try new foods. Try new, healthy recipes.
8. Control your portions. Make sure you're eating just enough to fill you up. Stop when you're full; don't stuff yourself.
9. Don't use diet pills. They don't work. They're a waste of money and time. The best way to lose weight and get healthy, is to do it NATURALLY. There is not miracle weight-loss pill.
10. Change up what you eat. Keep it healthy, but don't eat the same thing at every meal. You'll get bored, and you're more likely to stop eating well if you eat the same thing.
And most importantly: DON'T CRASH DIET. When you starve yourself, you screw up your metabolism. When you screw up your metabolism, it's harder to lose weight. Crash Diet = Worst possible "diet" EVER.
Now, on to every body's favorite: EXCERCISE! I know, you're probably groaning at the word and you're probably thinking "But I don't even like exercising! It SUCKS." And that's where my first tip (and all the others, eventually) comes in:
1. Keep a positive state of mind!
- If you tell yourself you can do it, you can. If you tell yourself you're going to do it, you will. Be positive! And know that in the end, it will all be worth it.
2. Find YOUR exercise.
- For me, it's running. I love to run and I do it whenever I have time. For some people, it's bike riding or swimming or Kick-Boxing. Find some sort of physical activity that you enjoy, and do it!
3. Just like with your diet, don't be afraid to try new things.
- I recently took up Yoga (something I never thought I'd like, because I have the coordination of a Slinky.) I actually really enjoy it. So, try something new. Take a Tae Bo class, go for a bike ride or even just keep it old school and try out some new equipment at the gym.
4. Also like with the healthy diet, make a plan.
- Pick which days every week that you will work out, and write it down. Mark it on your calendar: "work out day", then on the next day "rest day". Stick to your plan, and if you find yourself busy on the day you're supposed to work out, make sure to work out the next day.
5. Which brings me to my next point- don't over do it. Start out slow.
- Know your limits, and give yourself time off each week. Maybe start out with working out 3 times a week for 30 minutes. Then, gradually increase to 3 days a week for 35 minutes, then 4 days a week, etc. Push yourself, but know where enough is enough. Everybody has their limits, and nobody knows yours better than you.
6. Make a PUMP UP PLAYLIST!
- My running playlist, no joke, is what keeps me going. I made a big playlist of songs that pump me up and make me want to run harder, or run that extra mile. So, find songs that pump you and get you going, make a playlist, and listen to them every time you work out.
7. Find a work out buddy!
- I'm not going to lie- this is not my style at all, but it might be yours. Personally, I love running on the treadmill all by myself with nothing but a wall in front of me and Hollywood Undead blasting through my headphones. But if you don't like being alone when you work out, find a friend to go with you. Ask a friend to take a class with you, or go for a run with you. It's really rewarding to some people, and it might help you out more than you'd think.
-Laura (18-f)
I'm a junior in high school. And I'm worried. I don't know what college I wanna go to, and I'm unsure about my major. I currently have a 3.8-3.9 GPA.
I was thinking about architecture or interior design, but I'm afraid that I'm going to walk into a class at a college and feel completely lost or dumb. I don't know much about architecture, but it's honestly one of the few careers that seem to be of any real interest to me. I've taken Drawing 1 and 2 at my high school, and photography as well. I plan on taking a Physics and Design class my senior year, and another photography class. But I'm still scared and unsure. If I choose to major in Architecture, what do I have to go into college knowing about it? What skills will I need to have? What classes should I have taken to help me?
If anyone majors in this or knows about it, anything you tell me about it will be helpful.
My boyfriend is an arch major and he walked into school without knowing much. He didn't know he would major in it in high school, so he didn't take anything to prepare for it.
However, now he' stuck having to take physics over the summer in order to keep up. Therefore, I'd recommend taking some basic physics classes before starting college. He also does a lot of computer based work, so I'd recommend a computer class. Maybe a CAD (computer aided design) class if your school offers it? That's really all he's done so far, because we're only freshmen, but he loves his arch classes and I think it you're interested in it, you should go for it!
Hope this helps, and if you have any other questions, just let me know!
-Laura (18-f)
What would you say are some classic books that no-one should go without reading? I recently bought The Count of Monte Cristo, any other suggestions?
thanks :)
The Great Gatsby.
A Farewell to Arms.
Pride and Prejudice.
Crime and Punishment.
The Catcher in the Rye.
^ Those are classic novels I've read for AP English classes that I've actually enjoyed and would recommend! If you'd like more, just send me an inbox :)
-Laura (18-f)
I have to pick a book off of a list for an LA cirtical analysis essay. The only problem is, I can't decide which book! I've narrowed it down to a few, but I just can't seem to pick.
The books I've narrowed it down to are: A Clockwork Orange by Anthony Burgess, The Stranger by Albert Camus, The Plague by Albert Camus, The Inferno by Dante, or The Turn of the Screw by Henry James.
I really enjoy reading books that are rather deep and almost somewhat disturbing/dark/etc. I was just wondering if I could get some opinions on these books and which one do you think would be most interesting/contains darker elements. So if anyone has read any of these and can give me some opinions, I would greatly appreciate it (: Thanks!
I've read "The Stranger" in both English and French, and I really enjoyed it both times. I'd really recommend it if you're looking for a darker, deeper novel. It's a great book and I think you'd enjoy it!
I haven't read any of the others, so I really can't give too much insight there. I've heard positive feedback on A Clockwork Orange, but again, I haven't read any of the others myself.
-Laura (18-f)
Ok so I'm finally in 11th grade so I get to go to the junior/senior prom :) I'm super excited, I already have a date (my boyfriend of over a year) and a dress (it's short so I won't trip on it because I am accident prone lol and it's dark blue so I don't have to worry so much about spilling stuff on it) and all of my friends and I are going to go out to eat before prom and then after it we're going to go hang out somewhere. I've never been to prom, so I don't really know how it goes. I know it's different for every school, but does anyone have any advice so I can make it the perfect prom night? Any thing I need to have that might be easy to overlook? Also, if anyone has any experiences they'd like to share, I'd be happy to hear it :) Thank you!
Prom was one of the best nights of my life. I think it's a milestone for every teenager, and I think that everybody remembers their prom.
My best advice? Make sure you have everything properly planned. My group and I planned everything a few weeks ahead of time to make sure that if something went wrong, we had time to fix it. We also had a back up plan for everything. Another tip is to make sure everybody in your group is in the know. Let everybody know where you're taking pictures, where you're going afterwards, what you're doing the next day if anything, and how much everything will cost.
Another tip, like I said above, is to plan everything in advance! Nails, hair, the corsages, the limo, restaurant reservations, etc.
Other than that, just live it up! Dance, take a TON of pictures, and just have a good time.
I hope you have a blast!
-Laura (18-f)
So my boyfriend came over a week ago and we talked for about 3 hours...at first I was upset with him because I felt like we were growing apart and fighting a lot more about stupid things and he didn't want to talk to me and fix things. After a lot of tears, he finally broke through and told me how he felt. After that everything just flooded out from both of us and we made a huge 'break through' in our relationship. We both decided that even though we're in love, in the long run we probably weren't going to last. But I asked him if we were still going to try and he said yes of course...sooo we're still going out and things have been going better then ever since then but I was just wondering if this will be good for me. I love him and I love hanging out with him, but should I keep being with him if our personalities clash? We haven't gotten into any fights lately, but I'm sure we will eventually start again...I mean, yeah we fight a lot but the good times ALWAYS make up for the bad times...So what do you all think? Should I run this thing into the ground? Or might we actually have a chance? Any advice is good, thank you all so much.
Your relationships sounds a lot like mine. I've been in love with my boyfriend since I was 14 and we dated freshman year then got back together our senior year, broke up over summer, and now are back together. Overall, we've been together for over a year. Now, I might be biased because of this, but I'm going to try to help you out anyways. I've been in your position many times and have debated ending things with my boyfriend many times. I even did once, but I was miserable and we got back together.
My advice? If you love him and enjoy being with him, why give it up? Don't count him out. Don't expect that just because you hit a rough patch now means that you aren't meant to be together. People fight, it's completely normal. Especially when you love someone and are so close with someone. My boyfriend and I clash all the time, even over the dumbest and most minuscule things, but it doesn't mean we aren't happy and just because your personality clashes with your boyfriend's means you can't work out.
Maybe you won't end up together in the long run, but if there's one thing my boyfriend himself has taught me, it's to live in the now. Enjoy your time with him now and don't worry about the future. Like my boyfriend always says, "what's meant to be will always find it's way." Every experience in life teaches you something, and this relationship has been and will continue to be a great experience for the both of you, regardless of the long run outcome.
I hope this helps and I wish the two of you the best!
-Laura (18-f)
My boyfriend broke up with me 4 months and I can't get over him. Last month he was saying he still loves me n misses me loads and wants nothing more than to have me back but he never mentioned getting back together so I stopped speaking to him n we haven't spoken for over a month now
I feel like I will never do better than him and he was perfect for me :( I dunno what to do I thought I'd be over it by now. I have to see him at least twice a week which make it worse :(
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=564711
From there:
I have found, firsthand, that the best way to get over a guy is to do the following:
Step 1: Have a really good cry.
- When my boyfriend and I broke up, I was super upset (like words cannot describe how bad I felt). But I told myself that I wasn't going to let it flip my entire world upside down. So I let myself have one really good cry, and then I told myself I'm going to start moving on. Which brings me to...
Step 2: Friends = lifesavers.
- Go to the mall and buy yourself something nice (don't over spend, though. Just something small, but nice. Like a new outfit or purse!) Or go see a movie, or out to dinner or something! Don't mope around your house all day doing nothing.
Step 3: Talk about it.
- It feels SO good to let it all out. Sit down with somebody you trust (for me, it was my mom) and just spill your heart out. Again, don't let it ruin your life or impact you too much.
Step 4: Move ON!
- Stop talking to him for a while (you need to give yourself time to get OVER him). Don't stalk his Facebook, spend time with other people, and don't even waste time TALKING about him.
-Laura (18-f)
hey everyone im trying to find some great bands lots of screaming and heavy bands like sea of treachery would be great thanks
Emarosa, Four Year Strong, Oceano, Of Mice and Men, We Came as Romans, and Underoath.
Enjoy!
-Laura (18-f)
So my friends and I are Curious, but to scared/embarrassed to ask our moms. How much do you bleed after your "cherry" has been popped? Is it like your period?
Honestly, I barely bled at all. It was way less than my period, but it's different for every girl.
-Laura (18-f)
ok i need to find an 8th grade graduation dress QUICK!!!! i have a normal figure an normal butt and normal boobs plz help me!!!
Try Forever 21 and Charlotte Russe. Those are places I've seen cute dresses as of late :)
-Laura (18-f)
///////What do you mean when you say I gave you "rude feedback"? Are you another pissed-off liberal who can't or don't want to listen to WHAT I SAID? I did not tell you to ask a doctor before you use Duct Tape to remove Warts, as you said I said. I said ask your doctor why it possibly works better on woman's feet? That's what I said to do. If you are a far-left liberal, whom are people I do not hate, is this more proof of the retarded mind of the far liberal left trying to make sense of a statement made so simple? Now THAT'S RUDE FEEDBACK! Have a nice day, if possible for you! Oh, by the way, did you know that the male and female bodies and minds are different to some degree? Possibly, you don't want to or are not able to even begin trying to understand that. Okay, I will stop trying to evaluate you and your mindset because it will do nothing but bring up insulting points about you which I do not want to even begin to do. But, please try to still have a nice day !
1. I'm 18. I don't give a crap about politics. Stop harassing me.
2. I am disgraced by your use of the word "retarded." It's very offensive, and I am quite disgusted with your choice of words.
3. I'm a psych major so if you want to get into an argument about minds, don't even bother trying.
4. You also did not insult me. You made me laugh with your immaturity.
Happy New Years!
-Laura (18-f)
Is there a way to easily, less painfully remove a Plantar wart from my skin and not have to pay a small fortune to accomplish that?
Please help me if you can or if you know somebody who could help me fix this problem I have asked them to advise me.
Thank you!
Duct Tape. I had 4 plantar warts on my feet a few summers ago and used every over the counter treatment offered. Then, I tried Duct Tape and voila! They went away.
If you need more info, send me an inbox!
-Laura (18-f)
EDIT: Don't give me rude feedback for no reason. It worked for me and as a matter of fact, my DOCTOR who is HIGHER and more EDUCATED than a "dermatologist" recommended it to me. I DID talk to a doctor before trying it, jerk. And men don't have more skin on their feet. If you don't believe me, get some common sense.
My friend always brags about all the things she gets, how can I ask her nicely to stop? I don't mid hearing about it sometimes, but all the time gets annoying.
Try changing the subject when she starts bragging. I don't like listening to people brag either, and that's usually what I will do. I'll say something like, "Oh, that's great!" (seriously, not sarcastically) and then I will change the subject.
Either that, or just straight up ask her to tone it down. Just tell her what you told us, that you don't mind hearing about her life sometimes, but find it to be too much when it's a constant thing. Just be nice about it.
-Laura (18-f)
Hey everyone. First off happy holidays! Secondly.. My question. :) well I need some easy recipies that only take a veryyyyy short amount of time to make. Desserts mostly.... Like cookies, cakes, smoothies, sweet breads, maybe pies... What are some REALLY AMAZING recipes that taste DELICIOUS and are really quick and or easy to make. Thanks soooo much!!! I'll rate you're answer now thanks!!
Oh and if you have recipies for frozen hot chocolate that don't use a blender or evaporated milk.
Also recipies to make hot chocolate from scratch ! Thanks soooooooo much!!! ;)
http://www.hersheys.com/recipes/5191/Peanut%20Butter%20Blossoms.aspx
^ My mom makes those every year and they're always a hit with our entire family. I highly recommend them!
http://www.marthastewart.com/recipe/favorite-chocolate-crackle-cookies
^Those are the other cookies my mom makes every year, and they're my favorite. They are delicious and like the above recipe, go over well with the entire family.
-Laura (18-f)
I know this sounds odd but i'm curious. (this is mostly for girls but guys can answer to if they want).
Would you feel comforable watching porn (or a sex scene in a movie) with your bf/husband?
I don't mind watching sex scenes in movies with my boyfriend at all.
As far as porn goes, I don't watch it by myself, so I really wouldn't want to watch it with him. I guess if a girl is into that, I could see a couple watching porn together, but I don't watch porn so I really wouldn't know my level of comfort watching it with him or even without him.
-Laura (18-f)