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cant get over him
My boyfriend broke up with me 4 months and I can't get over him. Last month he was saying he still loves me n misses me loads and wants nothing more than to have me back but he never mentioned getting back together so I stopped speaking to him n we haven't spoken for over a month now
I feel like I will never do better than him and he was perfect for me :( I dunno what to do I thought I'd be over it by now. I have to see him at least twice a week which make it worse :(
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I have found, firsthand, that the best way to get over a guy is to do the following:
Step 1: Have a really good cry.
- When my boyfriend and I broke up, I was super upset (like words cannot describe how bad I felt). But I told myself that I wasn't going to let it flip my entire world upside down. So I let myself have one really good cry, and then I told myself I'm going to start moving on. Which brings me to...
Step 2: Friends = lifesavers.
- Go to the mall and buy yourself something nice (don't over spend, though. Just something small, but nice. Like a new outfit or purse!) Or go see a movie, or out to dinner or something! Don't mope around your house all day doing nothing.
Step 3: Talk about it.
- It feels SO good to let it all out. Sit down with somebody you trust (for me, it was my mom) and just spill your heart out. Again, don't let it ruin your life or impact you too much.
Step 4: Move ON!
- Stop talking to him for a while (you need to give yourself time to get OVER him). Don't stalk his Facebook, spend time with other people, and don't even waste time TALKING about him.
-Laura (18-f)
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Oh that really sucks. The best way to get over someone is to destroy everything they gave you. Don't read his texts, don't look at your last conversations. Don't look at his pictures. Nothing!
If you really want him back though I suggest giving him a phone call when you know he won't be home and leave him a voicemail so he can call you when he has time for you. On his home phone Just say "Hi this is ______ I I just wanted to see how you are doing. Ok well give me a call back bye."
If he doesn't call you back you need to move on. He could be seeing someone else. If he does call you don't talk on the phone longer than 10 mins. Ok? He could ask you out, or he could plan a day to see you.
This should help. Tell me how it goes... :)
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