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Help me with moving on! :)


Question Posted Tuesday February 15 2011, 11:37 pm

So im finally moving forward from a girl who basically broke my heart. Im talking to anther girl . this weekend that just passed by, i went over too her house and she literally threw herself at me. i didnt do anything just for personal reasons. Shes not my girlfriend. i dont wanna use her for sex. and i promised her i would be friend b4 anything. So thing are basically going well with the new girl. but now everybody is comparing the old girl to her. now i basically comparing to ; basically setting myself up for failure again. im making myself think so wrong of the new girl and she has done nothing to me as of yet.Im tryna be a person for her also , but i have some many unresolved things with the ex -.- so many questions that i know she wot answer.my mind is soo confused and i want to move on but cant help.

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Fouska013 answered Saturday February 19 2011, 6:51 am:
First of all, I'm sorry and it's too bad that there are such girls in the world that break the hearts of people that could pretty much offer them everything. Well, i think that you should just CLEAR your mind, just do not think about the past. You may wonder "But how!???", but honestly, the only thing it takes, is a happy confident moment when you'll just think that it's not worth thinking about the past and that you have to move on to better days :) This girl did not deserve u, from what I've read... So all you gotta do is move on :D don't prepare urself for a failure, i don't think it's gonna be one. Everything is gonna work out perfectly as long as you believe that. And tell all those people that make the comparisons to SHUT UP. It's noooo use comparing them. You must be a pretty sensitive person, because most boys just dump the previous girl, talk sh*t about her and move on to the next one. It's good that you're more sensitive. But yo now have to move on, without thinking of the past :) I reeeally hope I've helped you

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LOL_x0x answered Thursday February 17 2011, 1:21 pm:
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Stay strong and good luck!


-Laura (18-f)

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DrPlayer answered Wednesday February 16 2011, 11:53 pm:
Well first of all you need to realize that moving on is important. Give this new girl a chance. The only way to fully get over someone is to find a new person you like better. It seems that you have a connection with this new girl. Just see how it plays out and give it time.

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