Member Since: February 19, 2011
Answers: 10
Last Update: April 18, 2011
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ok well when my bf uses a condom i am only 12 so how much would sex hurt ??????? (link)
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D: don't do that to yourself dear :'( you cannot know if he'll stay with you forever, and if you do that and he leaves you, you're gonna feel SOO BAD, girls have committed suicide because of that :( Well yes, it's gonna hurt A LOT, but please don't even do it. If he indeed loves you, he'll respect your choice not to have sex. You are young! :(
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Hi my boyfriend wants to have sex but i keep telling him no we are to young and he says if i dont he will break up with me and i love him what do i do? (link)
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O.O wow, really, just tell him to leave and never come back! Having being in your place unfortunately, I'm afraid he disrespects you and wants to use you :((( I'm sorry to say that :(( Don't let him do what he wants; he is free to leave. I'm 100% you'll find a better guy, there are a lot more men to meet :D good luck :) and don't have sex with him dear
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Hi i am thirteen and i play with myself! I dont know why i do it but i try to find anything that vibrates and i stick it down there it feels so good tto me but it makes me feel funny! but i love the way it tingles down my body and i am addicted to it what do i do??? (link)
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Hey! :) You needn't feel weird, cause it's perfectly normal to do that at your age!
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What is the most painless way to die (link)
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Suicide isn't painless. It leaves everyone else in pain :(
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ok so this girl . . lets call her jane got in a fight with me which lasted 4 like 1 minute and gets so pissed about it that she goes around telling my friends that she wants to punch me and threw a cookie at me and says 'eeeewwww!' whenever i walk by her (i know sooo 1st grade right?!) so then she goes and tells my friends that i was talking s*** behind their back which i never did and then everyone believes her and then i went and sat down with each of my friends personally and made them realize that they know im not a backstabber and that they have know me for years now and blah blah blah and they all told me that they were sorry but then right after went and told jane what i said 2 them and she said that i was the liar and some of my friends hated me again and talked behind my back again. . . anyway, i just want to know how to deal with backstabbers and haters inthe very nicest way possible cuz i dont wanna sound mean or anything. Thanx! ^_^ (link)
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I think you should discuss this with the "source" of the problem, this other girl. You should try to make her like you again, even if you no longer want to be her friend =/ I mean, if u ever want to dump her, you can do it in a quieter way, this is not the right time. So, I think you should try telling her that you don't want to be "enemies" with her in a nice way. Then you should discuss with the rest of your friends, so that they don't hate you anymore. Now, if u don't really want to be friends with all of them again, then I believe (because i've been in your shoes) you should better ignore them, but still talk to this other girl. I really hope I have helped you, because I've been in this situation :)
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So im finally moving forward from a girl who basically broke my heart. Im talking to anther girl . this weekend that just passed by, i went over too her house and she literally threw herself at me. i didnt do anything just for personal reasons. Shes not my girlfriend. i dont wanna use her for sex. and i promised her i would be friend b4 anything. So thing are basically going well with the new girl. but now everybody is comparing the old girl to her. now i basically comparing to ; basically setting myself up for failure again. im making myself think so wrong of the new girl and she has done nothing to me as of yet.Im tryna be a person for her also , but i have some many unresolved things with the ex -.- so many questions that i know she wot answer.my mind is soo confused and i want to move on but cant help. (link)
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First of all, I'm sorry and it's too bad that there are such girls in the world that break the hearts of people that could pretty much offer them everything. Well, i think that you should just CLEAR your mind, just do not think about the past. You may wonder "But how!???", but honestly, the only thing it takes, is a happy confident moment when you'll just think that it's not worth thinking about the past and that you have to move on to better days :) This girl did not deserve u, from what I've read... So all you gotta do is move on :D don't prepare urself for a failure, i don't think it's gonna be one. Everything is gonna work out perfectly as long as you believe that. And tell all those people that make the comparisons to SHUT UP. It's noooo use comparing them. You must be a pretty sensitive person, because most boys just dump the previous girl, talk sh*t about her and move on to the next one. It's good that you're more sensitive. But yo now have to move on, without thinking of the past :) I reeeally hope I've helped you
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this guy goes to a diffrent school now ever sicne 4 weeks ago and im just not happy without him i use to see him everyday and now i barely see him and ive been trying to get over him for some time now i even gave time im just not happy..and im going to like a dance thing soon with a boy that i dont want to i asked him but thats when he said he was leaving the school..and now i dont know how do i get over a boy that ive liked so long...p.s. im a kind of girl whose kinda awkward shy around guys so im not to open to people i like to keep things to myslef....what d o i do to get over him because i still cant stop thinking about him.btw he like a year older andi allways see girls posting on his fb wall which i think there just firends but they could possibly something more? i dont know i dont even know why i still like him i mean i do but hes kind of a bad boy (hes not the sharpest tool in the box either as in not that attractive) but i find him amazing..anyways what should i do? (link)
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O.o I'm going through the same! Daaah! Look, I believe you should tell him about all those girl posting on his wall, because even if they are just friends, you have every right to freak out! (I would REALLY freak out, believe me) Then, I'm really sorry to say that, but I'm afraid you should start thinking of how amazing he really is...We girls tend to find a guy who is good to us at first, and then like think that he's perfect in our heads. Well, 65% of the cases, they are not. Then you should think if he really deserves you (just though that after i read about him being a bad boy and a year older). Then since he's going to a new school, I'm sorry to say that too, boys tend to just "forget" their love, unlike us. Don't let him break your heart. Try to get over him with friends that love u and care about u :) I hope I have helped you
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Okay so this is the first Valentine's day that I've had a boyfriend in... a really long time. Anyways we are in a long distance relationship. So it couldn't work out that we be together. But turns up he couldn't talk to me today, family issues. I just feel so ... sad. and its valentine's day and I should be greatful right? I should be so happy that I have someone I love so much. But I just, I feel alone all the way over here. and Idk WHY CAN'T I BE HAPPY. (link)
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I'm very sorry. It's the same way with me, I have a bf, but I spent his day alone and I feel depressed all the time :( Well, I think you and your boyfriend should have a talk. You should just tell him that you feel sad (don't let this sound as if you are accusing him though) and that you don't really know the reason and that you need him :) Talking to him will make you waaaaay happier and he may be able to find a sort of solution, idk :) But i think you shouldn't just be sad and not tell anyone. If he's important in your life, tell him, and if he loves you, he'll help :) I hope I've helped you a bit. Honestly, I'm going through this right now, and I wish i could give you advice about how to generally be happy, even without him, but I haven't worked that out yet X/ The last thing I wanna tell you, after i read the part where you say that you should be grateful, yes, you should be grateful to have someone, but don't compromise. And as a matter of fact, even if it's gonna sound kind of weird, being sad about it and about him not being here shows that you are caring and that's good :)
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so the title basically says it all i don't know how to flirt at all i really want a bf i want to end 8th with a guy whos sweet and nice but i don't know how to flirt whats slutty and what is appropiate (link)
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I believe that you should be yourself and you should be fun for the person you are interested in. Don't be slutty though (well, i don't really know how to define this, but dont be slutty as long as clothing and other stuff are concerned because boys tend to treat women as objects). If you are yourself, try to be a little more fun, make witty comments and other things like that, i believe that it's a great way to flirt! :D Moreover, if you sometimes make good comments about this person and ask him to help you sometimes, you will actually make him NEED you :D Always be pleasant, but don't become a victim. If he deserves you and he's worth it, then I'm sure everything will work out :)
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hi there...
22/f
i am stuck in a really crappy situation...
i had a bad bad experience last year. first there was a guy who totally used me (i should have seen that one coming but as it "could never happen to me" given that it was my first relationship" i didn't know how to say no cause i wasn't sure of anything... anywayyy...) school pressure, prof truing to make a move on me, parents pressuring me, money...etc. i ended up seeking an escape by getting involved with a bunch of people who are not exactly innocent...
i mean every one has fun, but these guys are on things every weekend if not drunk or partying or hooking up or getting people to hook up after fucking them up... they're an average of 3 years older than me, and much much much more experienced than i am...
i thought after that first fling with a guy that else could be out there that's wilder than that? and that is what i want to do since i am no longer naive so that sorta got me initiated into their group...because i had "potential to get corrupted" i don't judge people which is why i have so many friends with different views and lifestyles... i am okay with what they do but i can't handle these new friends without my life crumbling down...
but i can't seem to say no (as usual) and i keep getting sucked into it!!! how do i get my life back!!! how do i sever them out of it if need be without repercussions... i am not comfortable doing what they do at all... and i've got to get my act together cause i am beginning to flunk school!!!! HELP
oh and one of the girls in particular is super manipulative and she is almost psychopathic and is dressing like me talking like me always trying to find commonalities between us... sometimes i feel i am turning into her puppet. or doll she is very very dominant and i can never say no without indirectly getting the sense that i am threatened and that i will regret it...
i got sucked into it deep to the point where plans are already made for me, and if one thing isn't in common i am expendable and that i will be ruined....
what do i do??? i can't let my family or friends find out since i am pretending to have my act together!! (link)
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I think you should stop being with these people. First of all, you seem to have a pretty good character, and it's not worth destroying it or regretting about something that may happen later. Being with them may have serious consequences. I understand you because I m never able to say no, and my first boyfriend completely used me. I believe you should let these people sort of "forget" you, because it seems like they may hurt you if you say to them "Nahh, i don't want you anymore" or something. After having got rid of them in this careful and quiet way, you should get your life in your own hands. It will really help you, you will have confidence and you'll be able to say no. Furthermore, you won't be afraid that you will probably end up doing sick and bad things because of those people. I hope I've helped you a bit :)
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