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How much would sex hurt with a condom?
ok well when my bf uses a condom i am only 12 so how much would sex hurt ???????
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Condemns do not effect the pain of sex. Another thing, you are way to young to be thinking about sex. Try waiting until you get older trust me you have your whole life ahead of you. Sex will forever be there, but once you loose your virginity it is forever gone! Good luck!
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First, to directly answer your question, condoms will not make sex hurt more than they might otherwise.
Second...
Twelve is way too young. There are alot of adult emotions and adult issues that arise with being sexually active that you have no way of dealing with at this point in your life.
I don't know how to even begin to give you an accurate and understandable explanation. At 12 years old you lack sufficient life experience to understand the permanence of having a child, to understand the emotions that sex brings out in people, to have the self confidence to assert yourself like an adult in this very adult situation, to have the perspective to understand everything that happens in an adult context.
Just say no. For right now, just say no to sex of any kind. Keep your clothes on. Focus on school. Make friends. Get a hobby. Just because you're capable of seeing sex around you and wanting to try it yourself doesn't mean you're in any way ready to step into adult territory. You won't be for years. Tell your boyfriend no. If he presses the issue break up with him. This isn't something you're meant to be dealing with at your age.
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D: don't do that to yourself dear :'( you cannot know if he'll stay with you forever, and if you do that and he leaves you, you're gonna feel SOO BAD, girls have committed suicide because of that :( Well yes, it's gonna hurt A LOT, but please don't even do it. If he indeed loves you, he'll respect your choice not to have sex. You are young! :(
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Hi, I'm old enough to be your grandfather; hopefully the wisdom that comes with age and life experiences will be helpful.
Three of the other four adviser have told you you are too young to be having sex. I'm going to make four out of five. What is your rush. Sex is not a game or something to pass the time with. You can't be more than in sixth or seventh grade, that's still middle school.
You should be more concerned with things like how to kiss a boy. What clothes to wear, hair styling and maybe makeup. SEX, no way. Has your school even had you in a sex education class? I don't think you have reach the grade where that is taught.
I usually recommend a particular website for girls to look at that are thinking of having sex for the first Tim. Given you age I am very hesitant to do so as I do not want to encourage you to have sex at your age. On the other hand I am hoping that you will read the areas on "first time sex" and "Am I ready", and heed the advice the give to wait until you are older. So please read and think about what you read before you start having sex. You are way to young to be doing so.
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Your only 12 and thinking about having sex?? That's sick... No wonder there's so many underage girls getting prego.. Anyway I'm not even going to answer that question except to say I wouldn't do it..
xoxo,
dottie4
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A couple of things.
First, your virginity is a once only special gift that you can give to someone. You will not marry this guy you are with now, so your husband will probably be bummed out if you didn't wait to give him your most special gift, seeing as he loves you so much to marry you. If your current boyfriend does love you that much, get him to prove it, by being with you until you are 18 and then marrying you. Then you will have proof that he loves you and deserves this once only special gift you have to give away.
Secondly, have you had your period yet? If you have (and actually even if you havent, but are just about to get it for the first time) you can still get preganant even if you use condoms, the pill, and other forms of contracteption.
The reason that I am saying this is because if you are worried about the size of his penis with a condom hurting you, you should think about how much a baby's head will hurt you! It hurts grown women who's hips have expanded and who have bigger vagina's that have had lots of sex, so it would really hurt, and could possibly damage you.
Anyway, if you wait until you get married, the sex is WAY better, and you have no regrets.
Don't be bullied or pressured into this. And even if you are interested, maybe reconsider, cos once your virginity is gone you can't get it back. It has to go to the right person, and even if he seems really good now, how will your husband feel?
Try doing something to fill up your time, so you feel good, but don't have a lot of spare time to think about this, like volunteering somewhere. A lot of places would love some help.
If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. We love to help! And most of us here have been through a heck of a lot, and have some great ideas!
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... A LOT. so don't do it. with or without a condom. you're 12 for crying out loud; at that age girls should be worrying about what to do with their tongues and hands when they kiss, not worrying about how much SEX will hurt with their boyfriends. you just have no need for that right now.
i'm sorry but for once i don't care if i'm giving the kind of answer the asker was looking for. just trust me on this.
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Well it will still hurt because you have to pop your cherry but it will make it easier for your bf to go in. On the other hand if your boyfriend is older it may hurt more....
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