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Member Since: February 19, 2011
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Last Update: February 20, 2011
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Ok you may say I'm crazy but I will just be standing in line and weird voices in my head and I think weird & odd thingswilllpop up in my head. I'm really tall I'm a girl and I always seem to take things hard on myself.I'm book smart and physicly smart

First thing is not to be so hard on yourself, and secondly you are not crazy.

The voices you hear in your head could be your thoughts, this is completely normal. Everyone experiences some sort of voice in their head and this is your thought process. As you observe and hear certain sounds of speech your brain will start to mimic these sounds without you even realising,

For example if you're standing in line and someone is singing a song its not long before you start to sing along to it or have the tune in your head, and you will be like why am i humming this song? If this sounds something similar to what you are experiencing then let me reassure you that is normal. However if you feel that none of this applies to you and you are still concerned then it may be ideal to seek professional advice, someone who can give you specific guidance to your problem, such as your local counselor or doctor. I hope this has helped you a bit and you seem like a smart person so im sure you will take the rights steps to your problem and best of luck.

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Im becoming seriously DEPRESSEEDD !
Im my own worst emeny and things are getting way out of control .
I dont have confidence in myself or anything and it seems like I have no one I could talk to about thiss cause they wil probalay all judge me and I cant have that right now .
I look in the mirror and she a ugly girl and its really sad . i have to pretend im smiling when others are around me knowing im really sad inside . My life pretty much SUCKS . Any Advice ?

I totally disagree, I believe that you are a young vibrant beautiful girl who has let other people's opinions and views get the best of you.

Do not feel pressured to be something you are not.
It is so easy to feel that you dont't fit in with others because you don't dress the same as them or look the same, well let me tell you something no one is perfect. Everyone has their own style and image, and think about it wouldn't this world be so boring if everyone looked and dressed the same?

You have to understand what you see in the media such as tv shows,celebrities, models, and in the music videos, that's all fake, it's not natural and its only for entertainment. Real people don't dress so outrageously or wear loads of make up. Do not feel that you have to live up to this as this is all fantasy, and majority of them have had surgery or had some sort of enhancement.

You need to talk to someone who you feel 100% comfortable with and trust. It's important for you to talk about these issues as you need guidance and support. Try to talk to your mum she may be the best person to talk to, or if you feel you cannot speak to your're mum about this then speak to your teacher, friends, or local school counselor.

Remember you are young and beautiful and never let people make you think you're not. And if they do then they are not worthy of being your friend and they dont deserve to know what a great person you really are!

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I have so much anger && depression in me.
For the past month or two . My life has been taking completly changing and its not the first time , its like this time its really hurting me. I cry myself to sleep everyday, and with no on to even talk i mean no one . When Im around people im fine but hahaa when iget home it just comes . Ive mistreated way to long . But you guys are giving advice like its so easy its not really i dont know to deal with this at all .

You're right it's easier said then done.
You're not alone, everyone experiences depression and lows at some point in their life.

It seems like you are going through a difficult stage in your life, and when this happens we start to deny how we turly feel and feel its best to hide these feelings away rather than dealing with them. This is why when you're at home it hits you the hardest, this is where you can be your true self and let the tears flow, as there's no one to see this.

It's really important for you to talk to someone who you can trust and feel comfortbale speaking with. Keeping these kind of emotions to yourself can be quite explosive, you need to let off steam and have the confidence to share how you feel without feeling that you are going to be judged by others. You need to ask yourself 'why are you really angry?' it could be that by letting all these emotions build, its causing you tension and stress.
If you feel that you cannot speak to your close ones about this, then it may be ideal for you to seek professional advice such as your local counselor, they will be able to direct you and help support what you're going through, that is one option.

The best way forward is to start thinking positive, i know this will be very difficult but the only way to change how you feel is to gradually start thinking positive and happy thoughts. Don't forget that only you have the ability and power to do anything and be whatever it is you want. I hope this has helped abit and I wish you the best.

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