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What do i do about my backstabbing friends and friends who go against me just because someone else who decides to?
ok so this girl . . lets call her jane got in a fight with me which lasted 4 like 1 minute and gets so pissed about it that she goes around telling my friends that she wants to punch me and threw a cookie at me and says 'eeeewwww!' whenever i walk by her (i know sooo 1st grade right?!) so then she goes and tells my friends that i was talking s*** behind their back which i never did and then everyone believes her and then i went and sat down with each of my friends personally and made them realize that they know im not a backstabber and that they have know me for years now and blah blah blah and they all told me that they were sorry but then right after went and told jane what i said 2 them and she said that i was the liar and some of my friends hated me again and talked behind my back again. . . anyway, i just want to know how to deal with backstabbers and haters inthe very nicest way possible cuz i dont wanna sound mean or anything. Thanx! ^_^
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I think you should confront the girl who's causing the problems and tell her she needs to stop lieing and turning your friend's aganist you she needs to stop causing problems she isn't getting anywhere by doing so expect making you and your life miserable and she's making you loose friends you don't deserve that as for your friends you should tell them since they've known you for years they should believe you over the girl Jane seeing as all the girl's doing is turning them aganist you and making them believe lies i think you should tell your friend's the truth be honest with them say you've been telling the truth the whole time and the girl's been making it seem like you aren't make a attempt to become friend's with them again and if for some reason they don't accept you or believe you and they believe the girl after you've told them the truth then move on and find other friend's they don't deserve to be in your life you don't need them in it if they choose to believe the girl over you someone who they've known for years :)
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I think you should discuss this with the "source" of the problem, this other girl. You should try to make her like you again, even if you no longer want to be her friend =/ I mean, if u ever want to dump her, you can do it in a quieter way, this is not the right time. So, I think you should try telling her that you don't want to be "enemies" with her in a nice way. Then you should discuss with the rest of your friends, so that they don't hate you anymore. Now, if u don't really want to be friends with all of them again, then I believe (because i've been in your shoes) you should better ignore them, but still talk to this other girl. I really hope I have helped you, because I've been in this situation :)
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