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Don't know how to flirt!
so the title basically says it all i don't know how to flirt at all i really want a bf i want to end 8th with a guy whos sweet and nice but i don't know how to flirt whats slutty and what is appropiate
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I believe that you should be yourself and you should be fun for the person you are interested in. Don't be slutty though (well, i don't really know how to define this, but dont be slutty as long as clothing and other stuff are concerned because boys tend to treat women as objects). If you are yourself, try to be a little more fun, make witty comments and other things like that, i believe that it's a great way to flirt! :D Moreover, if you sometimes make good comments about this person and ask him to help you sometimes, you will actually make him NEED you :D Always be pleasant, but don't become a victim. If he deserves you and he's worth it, then I'm sure everything will work out :)
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Confidence is key. You don't necessarily have to start off being flirty because that can come off as being desperate. Showing that you're interested in a guy in ways other than for a relationship reason can be a good thing. Just try talking to a guy about anything and develop a good friendship with them. That way you get to know who they are and you can decide whether or not you find them boyfriend-worthy for you.
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you have 4 options.
1. go up to him and start talking about interests and other stuff like that.
2.don't joke around to much: don't bring sex up often. the occasional joke will do
3. don't act desperate or you will dive at his feet, try to act like u like someone else but don't play hard to get.
4. tell him how you feel (don't go with this option)
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