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Oh, ya know, that's just me hanging out on a beach in France.

My name is Laura and I'm 20 years old. I'm a Biology major currently attending school at the University of St Francis. I have an amazing boyfriend who I adore lots. I like to run and read. Not at the same time, but it'd be pretty cool if I could. I also enjoy singing in the car. Loudly and at all times. I express my life through song lyrics. I'm addicted to Twitter. I'm one of a kind and I'm kind of weird, but that's just who I am :)

I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

chat it up yo.


ps. here's my bestestestest friend.
I love him. You will too :)

advice

i really would like to have ideas! i want it to be memorable (: thank you in advance!

My boyfriend asked me via fortune cookie. I'll never forget it and everyone I told thought it was the coolest thing. :)


-Laura (18-f)

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Is it dangerous to have a lack of iron in your body? If so how dangerous on a scale of 1-10? Can oyu die from a lack of iron in your body?

I have low iron and no, you will not die. It's not super dangerous, but it's definitely something you should treat.


You WILL bruise easier, trust me, and you will get colder easier and have a lot less energy. Start taking iron rich vitamin, that's what my doctor recommended and they really help keep my energy up and my body healthy! :)


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I'm 15 &nd I want to exercise what should I do to lose weight quick I want to lose like 30 pounds because I'm over weight what exercise will make me lose weight the quickest ?

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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

He made a Facebook group and posted private things about your relationship? Dump this scumbag. Who does that?


-Laura (18-f)

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I'm getting my teeth pulled today and I'm kinda scared about it. I'm getting numbing gel and laughing gas before I get the shot but I'm still scared. I have to get two baby teeth pulled. Can anybody tell me if it hurts?

I have gotten a few baby teeth pulled and only had the numbing gel. It didn't hurt exactly, but I definitely felt the tooth being pulled out. It was more like a pressure of some sort. It's weird to explain, but it didn't hurt bad,

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so i'm thinking about getting a tattoo. either on my ankle or on my hip. i was wondering which one hurts more. my parents are completely against tattoos but i just turned 18 and i really want one. i know i can hide it easier on my hip. but i really really want a short quote on my ankle. what should i do? and which one hurts more?

I've heard that both hurt a lot. I know people who've gotten both done. But, I heard that ankle hurts worse. However, this isn't speaking from personal experience. Just heard from people who have gotten tattoos. I'd imagine both to hurt because of the bones in the areas.


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does this work?
is it good?
is better then not haveing them at all?
can you get hurt?
how does it work?

no.
no.
yes in the sense that they are still in your life, no because they're in your life for "benefits."
YES.
it doesn't.


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Female/15
Can anyone tell me anygood books that has a love and hate romatic/comedy theme between a girl and a boy? I already read Perfect chemisrty and i wanna know if there are more books. Thanks.

This Lullaby by Sarah Dessen.


Really, all her books. This Lullaby is just my favorite. I've read it 10 times, but hey, whose counting?


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i know of this guy and i think he is soo hot lol. i have a friend that is friends with him and we're hanging out soon. should i ask about him? how should i casually bring it up. i want to meet him soo bad. any ideas without making me sound desperate/creepy lol.

and we don't go to the same school so i've never talked to him before.

Thanks for inboxing.

I'd just be honest with your friend about it. Just ask them, straight up, if you could meet their friend. It's not a really big deal, and you won't sound creepy or desperate unless you're on your knees begging. There's no harm in asking :)


-Laura (18-f)

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What are some great things o do whn you are at home with a trampoline in the summer? Also awy from home too! ( if you hve 1 or 2 friends) games? Things to do? ...ect. Thanks!!!

Draw a chalk mural.
Fly a kite.
Have a water balloon fight.
Camp out in your backyard.
Have a picnic.
Rent a ton of movies and have a movie marathon.
Bake cookies.
Go rollerblading.
Do some volunteer work.
Start a garden.
Have a photo shoot.


Have fun :)


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I need some great up-beat summer songs for a party, and just for driving around in your car.

Find Your Love- Drake.
All I Do is Win- DJ Khaled.
My First Kiss- 3oh!3.
Faster Ride- Cartel.
Naturally- Selena Gomez.
Bulletproof- La Roux.
If It's Love- Train.
You Look Better When I'm Drunk- White Tie Affair.
Animal- Neon Trees.
This Afternoon- Nickelback.
Rude Boy- Rihanna.
Sincerely Yours- Hit the Lights.
Tell Me I'm a Wreck- Every Avenue.
Younglife- Anberlin.
Undead- Hollywood Undead.
Creator- Santigold.
Good Girls Go Bad- Cobra Starship.


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There is this boy who I dated for 2 years. We loved eachother so deeply, (it was my deepest relationship I've had, and it's been 10 years since then.) He gets very defensive when he sees me with other guys, and he just stares at me with lust in his eyes.

I think he still cares about me, and I still love him.

What songs are similar to my situation?

SO far I have "Like We Never Loved At All" By Faith Hill.

Any type of music, I'm open to everything. Country to rap to pop to rock to jazz.

A Lonely September- Plain White T's.
A Day Late- Anberlin.
All We Are- Onerepublic.
Almost Lover- A Fine Frenzy.
Best of Me- The Starting Line.
Breakeven- The Script.
Can't Stop- Maroon 5.
I Will Follow You Into the Dark- Death Cab for Cutie.
Like We Used To- A Rocket to the Moon.
Little of Your Time- Maroon 5.
Miserable at Best- Mayday Parade.
The Way I Loved You- Taylor Swift.


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im leaving for cali for the summer
i need some songs about missing my bf while im gone
ones involving being in cali would be even better


i like music like death cab, kate voegele, bright eyes, john mayer, etc lol any song advice is helpful thx

Hey There Delilah- Plain White T's.
3000 Miles- Valencia.
Into Your Arms- The Maine.
If You See Kay- The Script.
If it Kills Me- Jason Mraz.
Cue the Sun- Daphne Loves Derby.
If it Means A lot to You- A Day to Remember.


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Hello friends, this is LagunaBabe and this time, I am in need of some help!

I am trying to do Post Secondary at my local college and I fit all requirements except I need an ACT score. I am taking the ACT in June, while the Post Secondary deadline is April 1, therefore, I need to take their Placement Test in order to substitue. Their Placement Test is the ACT's COMPASS Test. I am taking this test Wednesday, and have lived and breathed my ACT Study Guide for more than a week.

For any of you who have any experience with the test, can you tell me (not what is on it, but...) it's level of difficulty and any last-minute tips or suggestions in order to prepare? Thank you friends. :)

Hey LagunaBabe! I actually just took the ACT COMPASS test for the college I'll be going to, so I can help you out :)


Honestly? I thought the test was a breeze. And if you've been living and breathing your ACT Study Guide, it will only make it easier for you. I didn't study for it much (seriously, I barely studied at all) and I did really well on it.


The math was all very basic, and I hate/suck at math, so if I did well on it, I'm sure you will, too. The other sections were a reading and an English grammar section. I also thought that both of these sections were easy. The reading was a bit time consuming, but it was nothing completely mind-boggling. The sections all contained very basic content, and there was never a point where I froze up and thought "OMG I CAN'T DO THIS!" There were only a few math questions that I struggled with. But like I said, I hate math, I'm not good at it, and I didn't take a math class this year, so I'm at a huge disadvantage.


Some other tips I have:
- Make sure to bring a calculator.
- Get lots of sleep the night before, so that you're awake, sharp, and ready to ace the test.
- DON'T be nervous. You're a smart girl, and you're going to do just fine :)


Best of luck! Let me know how it goes :)


-Laura (17-f)

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Does anybody know any good songs that help them get through hard times in relationships? Or just songs that are empowering to women and talk about respecting yourself and confidence......my bf cheated on me and music really helps alleviate my stress and make me feel better...i would appreciate your suggestions thank you

A Lonely September by Plain White T's.
Paper Thin Hymn by Anberlin.
100 Times by Hit the Lights.
It's Too Late by The Audition.
This Love, This Hate by Hollywood Undead.
Heartbreak Warfare by John Mayer.
Breakeven by The Script.
Save Your Heart by Mayday Parade.
Conventional Friend by Cartel.
Stupid Kid by Alkaline Trio.
Everybody by Ingrid Michaelson.
Letdown by This Providence.


If you want more, send me an inbox :)


-Laura (17-f)

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Has anyone ever tried MAC [liquid] foundation? If so, does it work pretty good & is it worth buying? And what kind?

My mom has used MAC products for years and she LOVES them. She uses the liquid foundation, too. She raves about it and always tells me to buy it, but I currently am not working so I don't have the money to buy it. Haha.


But overall, I know she loves MAC and I'd recommend it because my mom knows a lot about make up.


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I'm 17/f. My boyfriend of 2 years and I are going to a concert this summer and I really want to lose my virginity to him soon, so I figured why not that night? After the concert, I was wondering how I could somehow initiate it or give him a sign that I want to have sex with him THEN? I dont want to kill the moment by discussing it beforehand because I know it'd make him AND me feel uncomfortable knowing. I want to let it happen on it's own without making it seem awkward. How do I initiate the moment?

You talk to him first. I know, you said you don't want to, but you need to. You need to make sure that you're BOTH ready, and that you're on the same page.


Talking to him will show not only that you value his views on the subject, but that your relationship is strong enough and you're comfortable enough with one another to talk openly about sex.


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do you always bleed when you lose your virginity? can you feel your cherry with your fingers? can you pop it that way? or does it NEED to be intercorse?

Not every girl bleeds when she loses her virginity, no. I don't think you can "feel" it with your fingers, but you can "pop" it. Your cherry if your hymen, which is just a thing membrane. Generally, though, your cherry is popped by first time intercourse. It can be broken other ways as well.


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okay so someone told me if i get my hair cut every 2 months my hair will grow more.. i took off an inch yesterday and its back to where it was 2 months agoo.. so how much hair am i suppose to take off?

You're supposed to trim off dry/dead ends every so often. It doesn't make a noticeable difference, really. It just helps keep your hair healthy and growing at a steady rate.


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1) How much is it?
2) What brand would you recommend?
3) Where can I get it?
4) Side effects?

I want birth control pill sfor two reasons:
1) I hate my period. It's completely unpredictable and annoying and I hate having to wonder WHEN I'm going to get it.
2) I want to have sex wiht my boyfriend soon. of course he's going to use a condom, but I want to be prepared. Because there is no way I can afford an abortion and no way that I am going to let a pregnancy get in my way of going to college and getting a degree. I dont' want a stupid mistake to mess up my life.

1. Mine is around 10 dollars a month. It's different for every brand, and some are a lot more expensive.


2. I'm not sure of the exact brand name of mine(I just started it a few months ago), but it's not a huge name brand that you see on commercials all the time. It's Trisprinsomething. Your doctor will help you pick the brand that best fits your needs. But if you want it for your period (which is why I started on it), you might want to ask her about my brand. If you inbox me later, I'll gladly go check the name for you :)


3. You have to go to your doctor, and more than likely, you will have to get a gynecological exam. It's really NOT a big deal, and it's over in a matter of 15 minutes or so. I was SUPER nervous when I found out I had to get an exam (because I'm a HUGE wimp and am always afraid of going to the doctor) but it was really quick and simple.


4. The only side effect I had that really bothered me was a loss of appetite. The month that I started taking the pill was a pain for me because I had pretty much no appetite. I lived on Goldfish for a few days, then my mom told me I had to start eating more, so I made myself eat more. That went away after the first month, though, and now I really don't have any side effects. That was really the only side effect I ever experienced, but it's different for everybody.


I hope this helps :)


-Laura (17-f)

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