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Respected Sir,
I have experienced pigmentation problem since last 5 years. Shown many dermatologist but they suggested to use allovera.As per their instruction used for many days but no use. (Around neck, forehead, joints area, knee, back, chest, and upper thigh) area having problem. I feel very bad sir.
Affected area skin is thick & having black.
Hence, please suggest me at least it can be cured or not? Plz suggest specialist I Would be grateful to you sir.
If so help me out in this condition.
I expect your valuable reply.
I am From Karnataka
Age-27
Sex-Male
Thanking you,
Manjunath
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Hello,
I also have a pigment problem, I have tinea versicolor. I would suggest going to a doctor or a dermatologist again or another doctor that you haven't already seen. There are body shampoo that you can use that will help it from being as noticable. Also, Stay away from the heat as the humidity can cause skin pigment to be more noticable than ususal. Trying a soap that is for sensitive skin will also help. However, I do suggest going to a doctor.
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What jobs with in a bank can yo work at with just a high school diploma. (link)
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Most bank would require a college degree. You could be a bank teller with a high school diploma no degree is required there. However, To work at a bank having computer skills, and cash regrister exsperience is a plus. So, With just a high school diploma you could be a bank teller.
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My boyfriend of over 4yrz cheated on me, he was drunk and kissed another girl...Do you think I should forgive him??? He been crying and is truly sorry he said, and he said he was drunk and it didnt mean anything at all..I found out becoz the girl told me..this was over 1 month ago...Now he is not friends with her and wants nothing to do with her at all.( they used to be really good friends) thats all that had happen a kiss. (link)
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It is up too you on whether you should forgive him or not but if it were me, No I would not forgive him.
Why..?
1. Obviously he drank so much that he wasn't being responsible, He should of been more responsible by telling himself that he isn't going to get smashed. Instead he drank so much that he kissed another girl and god knows what really happened...
2. In my eyes once a cheater always a cheater, If you forgive him he will know he got away with it and IT IS POSSIBLE next time you will forgive him again.
3. I believe forgiving him will only tell him it is okay when it is not.
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Next weekend im having a guy friend come over to my house and i dont know what movie to get. We are just friends but the friends with benefits might be included. So my question is what horror movie can i get where there isnt a really awkward sex scene. This sounds dumb but its so awkward for me to watch that stuff with people who arent my best friends. I just want a good movie withtout all the sex. Any recomendations? (link)
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A horror movie..
If you haven't seen already here are some suggestions.
The Haunting in Connecticut
My Bloody Valentine
Mirrors
The Eye
One Missed Call
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Okay well I dont want this to come off as conceited or stuck up in any way because I am not like that.
But I seem to have noticed something about all my relationships that really is bothering me.
I would really like to know how a girl can make her inner beauty shine more than her outer beauty to a guy. In every relationship I have been in, most of the guys seemed to care more about how I looked. And because they liked it, they would always comment on it, and be very focused on it. But I am also a very happy, loving, but nerdy girl. Nerdy as in I enjoy learning, I like debating over issues in the world, I am very culturally aware and I would love it if, for once, a guy would notice these things about me. Which they dont. Whenever I try to have a serious conversation about something in the world, and I am being very serious about it, guys just smile and say that I'm cute, and then they change the subject. It is really aggravating when I am not taken seriously i guess because I am considered attractive...And my question is how can I get guys to see that I am more than just a pretty face, that I have ideas and maybe that i wanna discuss them???? (link)
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Just be who you are, Don't try and act like someone any different. If you dress in an revealing way you may want to try to dress more casual and covered up like the person below me said it is more easy to test a guy of whether he is into you or your body that way. Sometimes guys forget that there is much more to a girl than just the body (not all guys, but most guys) when they comment on your body you should say.."Thanks but I was just curious what do you think of me as a person?" Not are you putting it out there but you are also throwing hints on the fact you have a personality. Guys that are focused on the body and not who someone is as a person well personally I think those type of guys are just interested in sex to tell you the truth..either that or you are a trophy prize.
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My son took a nap he laid on my lay on a chair for a while. when he woke up he was fine besides still a little tired so he laid with me for a while. I then let him go lay on my bed to watch cartoons. He came out crying and I asked whats wrong he keep syaing hes knee hurt so I took him back to the rom and let him lay down and rubbed it. a little bit later he came out again and keep falling down? could it be just a muscle ache? I gave him tylenol and rubbed lotion on his legs. (link)
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I do not know as I am not a doctor...
It could be that might of pulled a muscle, Maybe his leg had fallen asleep then again it could just be nothing at all. Wait and see if he improves in the next day or so if not take him to the doctors.
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i'll try and keep this short!:
natural hair color: super dark brown, almost black looking.
current hair color: medium dark brown.
i want a blondish-copperish hair color, do i bleach my hair first, then put the color in? i don't know how i'm supposed to go about this.
thank you all for the help!
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Whatever you do, Seeing you are going dark to light, I would not do it yourself. More than likely you will need to bleach your hair first because you are looking for a blond copperish color and in order for it too come out looking like that you will need to lighten your hair if you try to dye your hair with it already being a dark color more than likely you will not get what you are looking for. However, If you have your hair bleached keep in mind that sometimes bleaching your hair tends it dry it out and it becomes frizzy or straw like. After you dye your hair I am going to recommend buying some Hair replacement shampoo which can be found at Sallys for no more than $8.00
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Hi, My name is Brittany well i wanna have sex with my bf he is so omg cute when ever i see him i feel nervous and i feel like ima have an orgasm just from looking at him and we spend a lot of time togehter alone cause no ones home or is sick and we kissed once but it was on accident and i wish it wasn't and whenever he just pokes me i wanna jump on him and rade though his parade and omg like i belive in marriage before sex.what should i do before i reveal myself in so many new ways to him.
Please i need advice fast! (link)
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Think about this
You are thirteen years old, From what you've wrote it sounds like you just like the fact that your boyfriend is "cute". There is SO much more to sex than just doing it because you think someone is attractive. Love should be with someone who you deeply care about and love someone you trust and can see yourself with long term. Sex is a special thing and once it happens it's gone and you don't get that moment back. Make sure this is what you want and think long and hard about it. You can use a condom but there is ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy and the pull out metheod does not always work either. If you believe in marriage before sex than I think you should wait because in my opinion you are too young to even be thinking about sex...Trust me, Sex is not everything.
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So, lately i've started snoring alot..and i just started college so ive been out to parties alot..im wondering if thats whats doing it..?and ive also been alittle congested..im not sure but i know that my roommate and others are probably alittle annoyed with it..any suggestions? (link)
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There could be a few reasons for it, You may just be a person that snores, it could be allergies, tiredness etc. There is a spray you could try that helps with snoring it's called snore hush it's about $30.00. If your snoring is severe then you very well could have sleep apnea here is a list of the symtoms..
http://www.webmd.com/sleep-disorders/tc/sleep-apnea-symptoms
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so i have this white stuff coming out of my vagina, is it a good thing or a bad? like it smells really bad. if im in class and i open my legs to sit or something then you smell it. i went on birth control and when you first get it, the girl goes inside your vagina and sees if you have anything wrong, but she said that i dont have anyhting wrong with me but idk how to get rid of the white stuff && the smell..
HELP!
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It could be a yeast infection or a discharge. However if the gyocologist said there is nothing wrong then it could be just a discharge. Shower often and try baby powder
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So, was Michael Jackson's death ruled as a murder or what? I'm curious because some people at work were saying how they just KNEW Michael Jackson's doctor, Dr. Conrad Murray,killed him. I didn't know if they actually had an official ruling or not...anybody know?
RIP Michael Jackson (August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009) (link)
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No, They say it was a homicide but what eles is new these days, The media is always looking for SOMEONE to blame..
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If a girl has sex with a guy who has hiv/aids, and he uses a condom and does not even ejaculate at all, can she still contract the disease? (link)
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It's not likely but there is always a chance, The condom could break it could have a hole in it etc. Remember there is no such thing as complete protection.
Yes
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how did he die? (link)
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According to the media he was found dead in his apartment in NYC cause of death is currently a drug overdose.
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Ok so in high school I was never really a social person...I had like 3 close friends and then I would hang out with people but it would be through those 3 friends somehow...
Senior year there was some drama and I'm no longer friends with them. So I feel like I have noone anymore. I always see groups of girls out on girls night or they'll show up at parties together and I feel like I need something like that.
I've been out of school for a few years now, I took off time to work some...and now I'm starting community college next week.
I need some tips to make some friends in college....
What I can see being a problem is I don't have anything to invite people along to...like most people can say "hey me and my friend *** are gonna go out for coffee after class you wanna come along?" and I can't say that to try and meet people....
I don't really know how to go about it because those 3 really close friends I had I was friends with since middle school...I haven't made friends in a long time and I'm lost...
I know this seems stupid and I feel like a total loner asking this question....but I don't want to have nothing to do on saturday night but work anymore. (link)
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I'm in the same boat and I have the same problem, However in order to meet people you need to stop thinking in a negetive way as that will hold you back and keep you from meeting new people even more. I learned that if you want to make new friends just be yourself, Start off with small talk like "Hi, How are you" and smile. The same way you introduce yourself when you meet someone for the first time and gradually you will start a conversation and that is how you build friendship. If you don't have anything to invite them too well what you said above isn't a bad idea why not invite them to go out for a coffee? Say something along the lines like "Hey..I was wondering I'm about to go off and get a coffee would you like to come along" etc. If they turn it down don't worry just keep on trying.
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I am usually the one giving advice but I am at a loss here as to what to do. Dating a wonderful man for 5 yrs. He is very successful in business and been divorced for 13 years. We waited for my daughter to go away to school to begin our "life together" under one roof. We have issues like every couple but are very much in love. He will basically do anything for me and treats me like gold. After all these years we are still like kids and text and e-mail love notes/exchanges 7-8 times a day. Basically we have a pretty perfect thing and I am madly in love with him. Before me (his ex really hurt him and left when he became ill now fully recovred) he had occasional GF's nothing overly serious. However before me he dated a girl almost 30 yrs younger for about 9 mos. Long distance so actually were only together a total of 8-9 times in all. She was a single mother, struggling etc. He was honest when we met and said he cared for her but it would never work out for many, many reasons, it wasn't love for him but apparantly for her. He broke it off and began dating me. He is used to people doting on him and has made it clear that he needs to feel loved at all times and that he will do the same. He has women friends from the past and I have never had any issues at all about his very occasional lunch dates, etc. except for with one women who has problem after problem and calls him constantly, mails gifts to his grandbabies (who she has never met), etc When I answer the phone she hangs up- you get my point? His theory is that if he were interested in her he could have dated her way before me and that he is a good person and enjoys helping others...instead of bickering about it, I just finally said, whatever. It is what it is, he loves me and he probably just enjoys the ego boost. THIS current issue however is different. I had both our cell phones last week and up popped a message from the girl from 5 years ago who he had broken up with. Basically telling him it was so nice talking with him, how she hoped she was not
interefering because she was aware he was in a relationship. She appreciated his advice helping her as her husband just filed for divorce and since he would be in San Diego next mo would love to meet him for a drink, etc. I basically felt the world fall apart when I read this. I have trusted this man with my entire being. I confronted him and he said she reached out to him etc and I should understand that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, loves only me and that he was just a helping hand to a friend. He allegedly would have mentioned the calls and possible get together - he also called her for her b-day the same week and sent a cutsie text singing it as well...he would have mentioned them but did not know how I would react because he knows how I can "get" when it come to his so called women friends. I told him if he needed to get something resolved go see her and he said that is def not the case. It would just be because he is Calif once a year and it would be nice to see an old friend, etc I must be from another planet but I told him he is flirting with disater. This woman was crazy about him and broken hearted when he ended it. What purpose would it solve? People will do what they want regardless, especially men. So, again at a loss? What do I do, Tell him I really would appreciated him not meeting her for a drink? What purpose would it serve? That it's ok to continue phone/email coorespondence? He is 63, I am 45 and the girl in San Diego is 32. Sounds like he may need an ego boost...but do I stand by and allow it? I have never had nor wanted to tell a man what to do. You do what you feel is right. In the mean time, I feel, hurt, betrayed and obsessed with this person coming into our lives and upsetting it. I told him if she only wanted friendship then why no phone call a yr or two ago when she was happily married? Sorry for the rambling....Do I move in with him hoping that this will strengthen us and this nonsense will subside or ???? I do love him and in his defense he really does get off on helping all kinds of people, including men, kids, family. (link)
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5 years is a long time to not be with someone and I must ask why the hell is she contacting him now? Frankly, I will say I think she still has feelings for him or least she is now going through a divorce and maybe is trying to see if she could possibly get him back? For starters, Your boyfriend should of not have had any contact with his ex as she is an EX girlfriend and half of the time when they come around again it puts the current relationship in jepordy. Him having contact with his ex girlfriends will only cause you two stress and over time possible trust issues between the two of you. Tell him how you feel, If he is a real man and loves you then he should understand how you feel. It shouldn't be you to tell her not to call and state that he loves you etc. (I'm not saying you did) It should be your boyfriend that tells her that way she understands that he does not have feelings for her and it is NOT okay for her to intrude in on your relationship. She could of stated in a text message that it wasn't her intention but how do you really know what she thinking...well you don't and that is why I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about it. If he continues to have contact with her she could possibly get the impression that it is OK to have a casual conversation when it is not...as he is clearly in a relationship with you and all his attention should be on you and not on his ex or exes. It is okay to have friends that are females, but on the other hand when it comes to exes not only is that a red flag but it's drama up the ass.
ADDED: sorry I forgot to add a few things, I undersand that he loves to help people but sometimes we all need to be careful of who we help I think it's time you put your foot down and let him know that you won't tolorate this. It is kind of suspisious and wrong of him to do this. Also no I don't think you should move in with him. NOT YET anyway, I would get this whole thing sorted out and make sure you two have a clear understanding.
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I really don't understand why I'm still single. I'm 16, and a Junior in High School. I've never had a boyfriend, a first kiss, and I'm waiting to have sex until im older. And I've always been told by everyone that I'm very beautiful. It's just so weird that I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe it's because I'm quite shy in classes and stuff? I know of many guy's who have liked me throughout my years in school..but, they never asked me out. Friends say it's because I intimidate them? Which I don't get at all. I'm a very nice and kind girl. But, I know I could probably learn to be more outgoing. I don't know..I just don't have much to say in class because I'd rather listen to the teacher. I mean, I'm a junior, and I'd like to graduate next year..so I try and keep my grades up. Don't get me wrong though, I'm extemely social when it comes to lunch, gym, and certain classes that are full of my friends. Even outside of school I'm very social. But, I always have this shyness..even around my friends =/. I don't know why..I just do. I just wish I knew why I don't have a boyfriend! Almost everyone has a boyfriend. I know a lot of guy's respect me because I'm not the "slutty" type of girl, and I don't plan on changing who I am just to get a guy to want to be with me. I'm very happy with who I am. I just don't know what I'm doing wrong?
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You aren't doing anything wrong, Your friend said you were intimidating which she could of meant it as a compliment in the way you are beautiful. It is okay to not have a boyfriend, It is not a competition on who gets a boyfriend first and I think it is a very smart choice to wait for sex until you are older. However, When the time is right you will get a boyfriend just like everyone eles because you do not have one now or never had one in the past does not make you unattractive or a bad person at all. Some guys like the shy girls, I would just wait give it time don't rush it trust me it will happen before you know it as they all say it happens when you don't exspect it just be yourself and live each day as you are if you like a guy in the meantime just try talking to him start off with a casual conversation "Hey what's up etc" it will happen. :)
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Long story short
The boyfriend and i are sitting in our apartment hosting a small birthday party, about 6 people, drinking a pony keg being fairly quiet and just hanging out.
My room mates boyfriend (whom also lives there) decides he is going to invite 15 people over. They are very loud and obnoxiuos, i go out and tell them to shut the hell up. All of the sudden they all run to the parking lot get in a fight. Cops are called, everyone runs into the apartment. We are all minors so we lock the door and get down to be quiet. The police say "were going to bust down the door" (they can not) but this scares some dumb ass kid into hopping out the window. ALl the police jump in the window we get on the ground. They confiscate my marijuana, pipes and all that. But inorder to do this they had to dig through my closet. They were there for people, not bongs. They broke my closet doors, my bed supports, my organ. Turned the AC down to 55 witht the window wide open for my cats to jump out and a robber to come in. My roommates and I were all arrested got procuring possession and parafonelia. My father is getting me an amazing attorney, but id like to know what exactly i am facing here. i turn 19 in two weeks. (link)
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More than likely you will face possession of marijuana and you could get possible probation depending on if anyone pressed charges this also could go on your record. It all depends on the court and the judge as you are now over the age of 18 and the consequences could be harsh. Again, All depends on the court and the judge.
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hi i'm kirstie/21
basically i just can't stop going out to clubs.. i am so addicted to it! i get drunk most of the time but sometimes i don't, i will just go out b/c i love it. i'm not addicted to alcohol what so ever, i can easily go without it. but i just can't stop going to clubs. its costing me so much money and i dont know what i can do! ive tried to stay in on a saturday night but i feel like im missing out on something!
i know theres more to life than clubs...but i really need to realise this properly! what can i do? (link)
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Well it's good that you realize it's a problem, That's the first step.
Instead of going to a club on Saturdays why not stay home and watch a movie? Invite friends over make it a movie night. Do something that will take your mind off it, For one if you are going so much too the point where that is all you think about and it is costing you a good amount of money then maybe you are going a little too much. Make a schedule for yourself something you are going to do every weekend make it a goal, an accomplishment. Yes, There IS so much more to life than clubbing there are other things out there that are fun and cheap. I had a problem awhile back I was tight on money and I had no clue what to do to occupy myself before I knew it I was spending 10 bucks at a local bowling place just shooting pool with a friend and 10 dollars lastest us a good hour and it was cheap. Try doing things like going to the beach, renting a movie, going for a walk etc. Tell yourself that you are not going to waste your money on going to the clubs all the time and tell yourself why it is not a good idea like you said it's costing you money and clearly it's becoming a bad habit. Stay focus on other things you love to do and gradually that feeling should go away within time.
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WHO IS PRETTIER? & Y
CHOICE A: http://i31.tinypic.com/2nkuut1.jpg
CHOICE B: http://i28.tinypic.com/11bn0ci.jpg (link)
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In my opinion I think the 2nd one is more attractive, I personally think she has more beauty in the face.
The first girl is more plain looking and gives off a real girly impression, While the first one seems to give off a more laid back outgoing type of look.
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Okay here's how it goes. I'm gonna be a junior (I'm 16) in high school this coming year and last school year, I dated a girl I liked for about 4 months. Right after school was over, we broke up. After about a week, we started texting again and after a party which we flirted all night, she said she thought we should maybe get back together. After hanging out a couple more times, she decided against it but kept texting me all the time. Now she says we're best friends (I went to an amusement park with her and her family the other day), but sometimes she texts me and we have good conversations like we did when we went out, and other times she barely gives me any answers. It's like she goes through phases where she likes talking to me, and then other times she doesn't care at all. I don't want to just sit here and let her decide where we go. I still kinda like her but don't know what I should do about everything? Try and go for it again or just be happy with being "best friends"? Please help (link)
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I would stick as friends, It seems like she doesn't know what she wants and doesn't know how she feels. Be friends for awhile, When you both know what you want then you could try again in the future.
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