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I'm 13 And I Want To Have Sex With My Best Friend
Hi, My name is Brittany well i wanna have sex with my bf he is so omg cute when ever i see him i feel nervous and i feel like ima have an orgasm just from looking at him and we spend a lot of time togehter alone cause no ones home or is sick and we kissed once but it was on accident and i wish it wasn't and whenever he just pokes me i wanna jump on him and rade though his parade and omg like i belive in marriage before sex.what should i do before i reveal myself in so many new ways to him.
Please i need advice fast!
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Don't do it.
You're way too young, he'll use you & it'll completely change your relationship with him. Chances are you could get pregnant, or develop an STD or acquire the AIDS virus. I definitely suggest you don't do it.
Sex is an act that only adults should be doing. You are a child & you are not as ready for sex as you think you are. You are mostly hormones right now, and that is no good.
Wait until you're married. That's what you believe in, so stick it. Guys like girls with morals.
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What you've got to understand is that you're a teenager, and as a result you are composed of 90% hormones. That's what's telling you to jump his bones all the time!
Hold out for a while. I'm not saying that you have to wait until you're married, but wait until you know that you want to have sex with the guy because of the right reasons. The right reasons: because you love them (real love, not OMG LUV <<33). Because you trust them. Wrong reasons? Because they're hot. Because you want them to like you more.
Why shouldn't you have sex with someone (or try to) prematurely? Because teenaged boys are IDIOTS. He would not keep it to himself. That's how girls get a reputation. You want to wait until you're with someone you love and trust enough to not go blabbing to anyone who will listen. You also want to be with someone who can handle the consequences of sex with you. What if you got pregnant? How would he handle it? What if one of you has an STD?
If you have a shadow of a doubt that you should be having sex, then it's better to play safe.
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Don't do it. You're young, you'll regret it, and it's a dumb idea.
-Laura (17-f)
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Think about this
You are thirteen years old, From what you've wrote it sounds like you just like the fact that your boyfriend is "cute". There is SO much more to sex than just doing it because you think someone is attractive. Love should be with someone who you deeply care about and love someone you trust and can see yourself with long term. Sex is a special thing and once it happens it's gone and you don't get that moment back. Make sure this is what you want and think long and hard about it. You can use a condom but there is ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy and the pull out metheod does not always work either. If you believe in marriage before sex than I think you should wait because in my opinion you are too young to even be thinking about sex...Trust me, Sex is not everything.
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From what you just wrote I can already tell that all you have with your boyfriend is a physical attraction and nothing more. You never even mention that you liked the guy. You're only thirteen, you have the rest of your life to have sex. To wait until you're married sure does look good on paper but let's get real it rarely happens. I really wish for you to wait until you are sure of your feelings though. Your hormones are going crazy right now so don't make any rash decisions. Wait until you are 100 percent sure.
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