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i need some help....anyone know of a protection spell against curses?

advicenators is a site where people give advice, we don't do witch craft.. wrong website hunny.. so to answer your question, no

Okay, iw as driving today and sitting at a stop light, and there was this old field, and in the field there were these 2 animals, at first I thought it was a squrirel, but when i looked twice, it was like the body was this kitten, but like really really tiny baby like 2 day old kitten, but it was fuzzy and it had an abnormally long tail, the tip of its tail was fuzzy and so was the tip of its ears. im in central california, does any body knwo what it was?

i bet you it was a chinchilla!!!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinchilla

http://dianepernet.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/chinchilla.jpg

♥ hope i was right! i want one sooo bad lol, they're so cute!!

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so, my ex best friend, who was my friend of like 3 years, all of a sudden moved. i mean, me and him stopped being friends, because i messed up. i mean he liked me, i didn't like him, and yeah you get it. but anywayss, so now, all of a sudden he just moved. like i mean, my friends all live right by him, and there was never a for sale sign infront of there house. and i mean, usually your house takes like a little while to sell. [espically his, because his is like a piece of junk.] so anyways, it was like june 29th or something, and i saw something on his away saying packing getting ready to move. and like he moved yesterday. and so, i just, don't know what to do. i mean, i planned on telling him i missed our friendship, one of these days. but now, i can't . and i dont know, what should i do?

well he could have gone on vacation.. since you said you saw 'packing' in his away message.. or maybe he just moved for the summer. call his cell, or house phone.. or if you have his parents number, or talk to some of his really good friends and see where he went, etc. but when you finally get a hold of him, just tell him that you didn't wanna stop being friends with him, just because you didn't like him the same way he liked you, and that you still wanna be friends and keep in touch, cause you don't wanna throw away 3 years just over one little feeling that no one could help. alright, so just try that.. good luck!! :] hope i helped ♥

ok. so im planning on giving my boyfriend a hj. and this may sound weird but im kinna grossed out by the idea of testes. like im fine with the other thing. but are they gross to feel? and am i expected to touch them too? thankss

it's really not that big of a deal, and they're not that gross lol.. i always thought they were weird too, but they're really not. you probably won't even do anything with them, hell- you may not even have to see them! just relax :] hope i helped! good luck haha ♥

how do yuo do ur hair like any of these:

1.http://msnbcmedia1.msn.com/j/msnbc/Components/Photos/040729/040729_ambrosio_vmed.widec.jpg

2.http://stylescenes.latimes.com/photos/uncategorized/selitaeban_degui_11403211_600.jpg

3.http://i87.photobucket.com/albums/k154/araelle/adriana_lima_241432g.jpg

ummmm dont do your hair and then go to sleep.. that will only make it frizzy and gross. buy some kind of good curling moose, put it in your hair when it's wet.. and twist it with your fingers.. or you could set it in rollers, the spongey kind that cheerleaders use.. but don't do them too tight. then after you take them out, run your fingers through them to loosen them up. and if you want them looser, then brush them, with a comb of brush. (brush works better) and experiment with a curling iron too :] be sure to use a good hair spray when you're done so the curls don't come out!! good luck hunnnn ♥ hope i helpedddd!!.

hi, i have just turned 14 and my period hasnt arrived yet i used to masturbate with pens and dirty objects will this affect it and my friends all have started theirs and talk about when it is and how they have to wear this many pads and stuff i don't want anyone to know my period hasnt started im really scared and upset please help me thank you so much. Will i ever start it?
xxx

you'll definitely start, calm down! and once you do, you'll HATE it. so enjoy your freedom while you have it =] i didn't get mine til i was 15 and a half lol, so don't worry.. mention that you're concerned next time you go to the doctor, and maybe she can check you out.. and masterbating has nothing to do with it.. it will come when it's ready too =] hope i helped hun, and good luck ♥

Alright.
So my boyfreind was suppose to spend the night at my house tonight, and well he never gets to so it was gonna be a really good night and whatever, but i just started my period.

And now its like...before we go to bed it will be fine, but what about when we do? like I dont know what to do cuz everything will be weird cuz im on my period. what should i do? i still want him to be happy and have a good night.

dont rate me bad for this, but why will everything be weird cause you have your period? why wouldn't he be happy and have a good night? if you could just edit your question, or reask me into my inbox, i'll be happy to answer =] my boyfriend sleeps over all the time, so im familiar with it =]

I'm 14 and i've never had a boyfriend. I don't really care and I don't obsess over it or anything but if I do ever get one any time in highschool I wouldn't want to do stuff like being fingered or sex or blow jobs and all that...

is that weird? I just don't think i'd feel comfortable doing any of that. I wouldn't have a problem with kissing though..

I'm scared i'll never get a boyfriend just because I don't want to do any of that stuff.

Don't worry, you're not weird at all =] You're just young and inexperienced, and trust me- it's okay. Once you get to high school, you'll grow up really fast, and things like that will seem alot more normal to you =] I always used to be soooo freaked out by that kind of stuff, but now that I'm older, I'm alot more comfortable- everyone is like that =] You probably feel like ewwww penis haha or eww that's soo weird, but it's not weird at all- it's normal and GOOOD at your age =] hope I helped hun, anymore questions, just ask!! ♥

i'm 25 have a problem with letting go as i'm scared of pissing the bed when having intercourse with partner. i've never had the experience of a orgasam as my ex used to blow all the time. my new partner is getting upset with me cause i wont let go and he think's he is the problem and i tell him that it's me not him which is true. i go to the bathroom before intercourse and even when i first used a vb, and i get the smell of urine [after i think is a orgasam],using the vb when i'm home by myself. if anyone can help me with my fear that will make my realationship better, or if i'm doing it properly.

if you're embarrassed of anything during sex, than you shouldn't be having sex. also, if you're nervous to tell your partner anything, or aren't completely open with them, then you definitely shouldn't be having sex

ok so i like this guy and we've been a thing for about 7months. im not sure why but we never went out. we were always content just being what we were. ok so i've given him a hj but i can't kiss him. i want to, i really really want to but everytime we get close to it i find some excuse and back away. i've kissed other guys before but i don't know why i can't kiss him. we've been together, unofficially for longer than any other relationsip i've ever had in my life so i don't understand why this is a problem. help me, what is wrong? we like each other and i dont think that it's because we're unofficial because i've kissed other guys that i wasn't going out with which i hope that doesn't make me sound like a whore but it's just the facts. please help me get over this problem, i really want to do this.

if you really want to kiss him then just do it.. if you've given him a hand job, but you can't kiss him, then you're probably just nervous. just go in for the kill the next chance you get =) good luck hunnn &herts;

My ex-friend, Dylana, is so annoying! Somebody on this site said I wasn't a real friend just because I got mad at her for simple things! Do you call copying my every move, stealing, can't take a tiny joke simple things? I don't. Now, all she wants is a freaking pity party that I'm being invited to! I don't like Dylana at all. Everybody takes her side! If you were her friend you'd be blowing a gaskit too! I mean come on! Dylana says she never does anything bad. She does! I mean what the F is up with that?! I get a lot of attention that I don't want. She gets attention she wants, but doesn't deserve. I'm mad because she thinks that a real friend always says yes to her, kisses her freaking feet, does her every biding and what?! She likes to be pitied! I really don't like her, but I don't hate her. Hate is too strong of a word. Anyway, can somebody help me with this girl? I don't want to be her friend because I've already forgiven her... 88 million times! Anything will help! Thanx!

it's not that hard, just ignore her and don't associate with her anymore. if she asks what's up, then just straight up tell her- that she's annoying, and steals, and copies you and whatever else. tell her you just don't wanna be her friend anymore, and that's that =) simple! hope i helped ♥

I am a virgin but I have given and recieved oral sex but when guys go to finger me i freak out, why do i do this and is it gonna hurt that bad?

it's not gonna hurt at all.. and you probably just get like that cause you're nervous, really though, it won't hurt, i promise.. and if it does (which there's like a 2% chance it will) then just tell himm to stop, and it's over with =) no worries ♥

When somebody is growing up they always say their parents tell them the story of the birds and the bees. My parents dont even know this story, and I hit puberty early. I wuz a little girl and I had just had my first family life class and all the girls came out talking about "the talk of the birds and the bees" so asked my parents to tell it to me *funny i know* and they had no clue.
Could somebody please tell me the story?

there isn't really a story.. it's just talking about puberty and sex and all that junkkk. like, whens someone says 'the story of the birds and the bees' its just basically, growing up, and having sex and making babies and stuffff, there's no actual story =)

for a wayyyy more detailed version of what i just said, go here =)

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070622121409AAuSZNW

hope i helpeddd ♥!

how do you get your hair to look like this

http://delivery.viewimages.com/xv/73311321.jpg?v=1&c=ViewImages&k=2&d=17A4AD9FDB9CF19396908EAF14430D355559EA4A8903732A2735D7FC60F7A6AE

and the first girl in this one..

http://stylescenes.latimes.com/photos/uncategorized/selitaeban_degui_11403211_600.jpg

curling iron =) you can put some sort heat protector in your hair if you want to prevent burning your hair, but it's not necessaryyyy. also, it helps to have mousse in your hair, so that it has some texture to it.. and whenever you use a curling iron on your hair, you shouldn't wash it right before.. like lets say you want your hair like that for school. wash your hair at night and curl it in the morning. anyway, it's really easy.. you just curl your hair in different directions! like take a section, and curl it inwards, but don't hold it there for long.. then comb through your hair with your fingers, and it should be going in its own direction. then, do another section in a different way.. just really play around with it! or, you could do it with your blow drier.. when you blow dry your hair, use a round brush and curl your hair one way with the brush and hold it there while you dry it.. and do it to another section in a different way, etc! it's really easy and fun to do =) just play around with it one night and figure out which ways work best for you! and when you're done, lightly spray it and viola! beautiful tousseled hair! hope i helped =) ♥

okay, so i'm 14 and i'm going to 9th grade. i've beeen going out with this guy that i think i love since june 19th. i have liked him since the end of 7th grade. and he's liked me for much longer than that. but anyways. my bestfriend has already had sex with her boyfriend. and she thinks that me and my boyfriend she have sex. i mean me and him have talked about it and everything & he said he wants to & i think i really want to, but i'm not really sure if i should or not. because i don't like the fact that i could get pregnant. cause my dad would like kill me if i did. but i want to spend the rest of my life with him. and we make out all of the time. & i want to do more with him. but i just don't know if i should. what do you think i should do?

alright well there's like 3857 things between making out and having sex.. and june 19th? that's like a week. you're only 14 years old.. and you probably haven't been in the relationship long enough to know what love is. i mean, you might- but i really really doubt it. you DEFINITELY shouldn't do it just because your friend said you should- that's dumb. do it cause you both love each other, and nothing else. having sex is a big huge emotional ordeal, when done under the right circumstances. your first time should be special, and not because your best friend did it. your virginity is something that you can NEVER get back, so you don't want to lose it until you're sure you're ready to. if you have to ask advicenators if you're ready to have sex, then you are definitely NOT. when you're ready, you'll just know. your first time should just sort of happen, and not be planned out.. it should come from a natural chemistry between you two, and be very very special. if you do have sex, and you don't feel like it was the most emotional thing of your life, then when you get older, you are going to regret it big time. having sex is a very grown up thing, and if you're not prepared to raise a child if that would occur, then you're not prepared to have sex. if could always happen- you could be on birth control, use a condom, and pull out, and you could still get pregnant. condoms ARE afterall man made, so they aren't perfect. neither if birth control or 'pulling out'.. cause there's always precum. so to answer your question, i don't think you should have sex with him- you don't sound ready at all.. just wait it out, and one day, you'll know when it's right.. especially since you 'think that you love him' you should KNOW that you love him, and also know that you're ready to give up your virginity to him. you should trust him with your heart and soul, and he should feel the same way towards you. ♥ good luck hun, and i hope i helped :)

ok i just got my first boyfriend the 21st and im 13 years old and everytime we see eachother he brings a condom. but i dont know if i should. and plus im prudeee. help me outt

ummmm, obviously don't! you dont even love him dear, you're 13 and you haven't been going out with him for a week.. he's your first boyfriend, and sex is a biggggg deallll. it's not prude to not want to have sex at the age of 13! it's not even prude if you're 35 and don't wanna have sex.. it's a huge emotional ordeal, that is a very loving thing when done under the right circumstances. don't do it.. not until you love him, until HE LOVES YOU, and if he doesn't push you. your first time should be special, not after 5 days of dating and being a young young teenager.. don't do it yet ♥ hope i helpedddddd

I have just started shaving my legs, and i was wondering, do you have to shave the whole leg, or what? Its kind of embarrasing so...yeah. Thanx!

i do, and i think most people do... i think its kinda weird not to lol and it's not embarrassing haha everyone does it. its really not a big deal

i dont really pay attention to ratings because i just started but i gave someone a detailed answer and he gave me a 3. its not so much his rating its his comment:
Thank you for your answer. I would give you a 4 but you didn't capitalize. Otherwise it was a good answer.
what does capitalizing have to do with anything?

if you don't think it's right, file an abuse report :) http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php MAKE SURE you send the URL of the page that the question is on... and only send it once. if the administrators think that your rating was unfair, then they'll change it :) hope i helped! ♥

here is a picture of my dresser.
http://i13.tinypic.com/66dze2v.jpg

I'm looking for a new bedspread to match.
Can someone please help me find one and send a link. I DON'T want any designs like polka dots or hearts or something like that. I want kind of plain but not to plain that it's boring. And purple is my main choice of color but I guess another color is okay as long as it's not red.
Thanks so much!

i would get like a yellow sheet for the one that covers the bed, and a putple one for the one that goes over you and just a white down comforter. that way, when your bed is all made up and you fold everything back, you can see some of the colors peeking out :) and maybe blue, red, or white pillow cases :)

i know you only asked for a bed spread, but thats what i would do.. if you want just a bed spread, maybe light purple, white, or even black would look nice! if you have colored sheets underneath it, it won't look emo, it will be chic and stylish :)

hope i helped ♥

hi,does pyramid power ab toner work on a fat gut?...and make ur arms muscle?...thanks

well i'm sure it works on anyone... but i doubt it would make your arms more muscular, seeing as it IS an ab toner.. hope i helped ♥

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