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ok i just got my first boyfriend the 21st and im 13 years old and everytime we see eachother he brings a condom. but i dont know if i should. and plus im prudeee. help me outt
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You definitely DON'T want to do something that dramatic with your first boyfriend. I mean, I can't speak for you, but chances are you'll end up regretting it one day. And like everyone else said, you're only 13..so don't rush it. :]
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First off..you arent prude! Your only 13 and you are just beginning to date! Definately WAIIT for the right guy. Sex is a major thing. Think about it, its so huge that some people wait until marriage or until they are in their late teens. If i lost it to the first few boys that were interested in me back when i was 13,14,15 etc..then MAN i would definately be reeeally hurt because boys are dumb at that age and i had no real connection or truely deep relationships. At that age you should keep it to going out on little dates,hanging out together,phone conversations,kissing,that type of stuff. Dont get pressured into having sex. You are in charge of yourself..and how you lose it,when,and to who is totally up to you. Dont waste your virginity..save it for the right guy when you are older.
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You need to let him know that there is no way you guys are having sex this early in your relationship. You're so young, and you'll definitely regret it at this age. Save it for someone who's special and you know cares about you. You have you're whole life to lose it, don't now, especially with this kid.
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Uhm. -Le Cough.-
I understand wanting to carry around protection "just in case." But it's only been a week, babe.. That isn't necessary at all. And you're 13, nonetheless. Tell your boy he is NOT going to be getting any soon. And to keep his snake IN HIS CAGE, if you know what I mean. :)
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If you're boyfriend keeps bring a condom around you whenever you see each other, he's obviously planning something. It's obviously to have sex with you, but who knows if he'll do it with your permission.
My advice? If you're not ready, then don't go through with it. Not that you should go through with it anyways since you're 13 & that's WAY too young to be having sex. Anyways, if he asks you, say no. If he keeps trying, dump him. No means no, so stick to your morals & only do what makes you comfortable.
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ummmm, obviously don't! you dont even love him dear, you're 13 and you haven't been going out with him for a week.. he's your first boyfriend, and sex is a biggggg deallll. it's not prude to not want to have sex at the age of 13! it's not even prude if you're 35 and don't wanna have sex.. it's a huge emotional ordeal, that is a very loving thing when done under the right circumstances. don't do it.. not until you love him, until HE LOVES YOU, and if he doesn't push you. your first time should be special, not after 5 days of dating and being a young young teenager.. don't do it yet ♥ hope i helpedddddd
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Dump him, you're too young to have sex.
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