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what would you do?
15/f
so, my ex best friend, who was my friend of like 3 years, all of a sudden moved. i mean, me and him stopped being friends, because i messed up. i mean he liked me, i didn't like him, and yeah you get it. but anywayss, so now, all of a sudden he just moved. like i mean, my friends all live right by him, and there was never a for sale sign infront of there house. and i mean, usually your house takes like a little while to sell. [espically his, because his is like a piece of junk.] so anyways, it was like june 29th or something, and i saw something on his away saying packing getting ready to move. and like he moved yesterday. and so, i just, don't know what to do. i mean, i planned on telling him i missed our friendship, one of these days. but now, i can't . and i dont know, what should i do?
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well he could have gone on vacation.. since you said you saw 'packing' in his away message.. or maybe he just moved for the summer. call his cell, or house phone.. or if you have his parents number, or talk to some of his really good friends and see where he went, etc. but when you finally get a hold of him, just tell him that you didn't wanna stop being friends with him, just because you didn't like him the same way he liked you, and that you still wanna be friends and keep in touch, cause you don't wanna throw away 3 years just over one little feeling that no one could help. alright, so just try that.. good luck!! :] hope i helped ♥
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well first off i dont think he should have stopped being ure friend cuz you didnt like him? if thats even what happened but if not pretend i never said anything :)
but well i still think you should tell him you miss(not missed!) your friendship: and that your sorry that the relationship wasnt going to happen but you think you guys should still be friends: and sooner the better: just come out and talk to him tell him all the qualities you liked in your friendship or even in him: but dont mention qualities like eyes and stuff that cuz you dont want to lead him on unless you like him :)
hope i helped&best of luck! :)
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This is tough.
Call him up and talk to him. Tell him that you heard that he had moved and you wanted to see what the deal was. Engage him in conversation. Then tell him that you wanted to be on good terms with him, because you really miss hanging out with him. If he is moving somewhere close, offer to come help move. If he is moving somewhere further, at least you called and left it on a good note. I'm sure that even if he is moving far away, he would still appreciate a phone call.
Get his screenname and IM him and check up on the moving process and how he's doing in his new area. Or just call him every couple of days to check up. This will show him that you care.
Good Luck!
Sarah
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