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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

Ok, why do those type of kids, act like they HATE getting judged, & they HATE when people are mean to them because they dont even know them? & why do they put people down [like preppy kids..or just kids who like abercrombie] & then get all mad if you do something like that to them?

like, one. i don't know really any people that much that are mean to goth kids or whatever.

but those goth/emo kids, seem like they do it constantly to preppier kids.

why is thaT?
whats their problem? its bugging me.
i never did or said anything to them, for them to be mean to me.

"Why are goth/emo kids so queer?" That's not doing anything to them. You said you hate it when they do it to you, but you're doing it right back.

Not only are the "goth/emo" kids you know hypocrites, but you're one too.

Welcome to failure.

♥T!NA

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do you have to be born catholic to be one? My family beleives in a certain religion but I beleive in God and people at shcool are calling me a wanna be. Do you have to be born one or can you start being one?

Talk to a preacher about it. Usually as an infant, you're baptized into it.

♥T!NA

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I'm 13, and my mom and dad are total assholes. My mom is a drug addict who is always in jail, and my dad does pot. My mom is currently out of jail, but I still don't want to associate with her. I don't even talk to my dad. My dad visits every so often and I go to my room, because my brother still wants to see him (he's younger and still has that 'my-dad's-the-best-and-he's-superman' view) My aunt and uncle think its rude and hateful that I don't think my mom is going to to quit drugs and that I refuse to talk to her. But she has been doing drugs for 6 years (7 on the 23rd) and I used to think she was going to quit, but I don't anymore. I'm tired of opening up and letting her in, when all she does is break me again. I don't know if this is wrong or not, do you think it is?

It's not. Your mom lost all the trust you had in her, and it takes a long time to get it back. In this case, neither her & your father are getting your trust back.

♥T!NA

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What could you wear with a skirt?

Because it's too short and I don't like my legs showing that much. It's a jean skirt.

Are there certain leggings [colors] that go well with it?

Is thigh high socks a little too much?

Wear leggings.

♥T!NA

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My best friend is an atheist. I am a Christian. I've asked my youth minister how to help convert him. Every time we get on the subject, he says CAN WE TALK ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE? And won't even hear what I have to say. Most of you might say "Just accept it." But because of my religion, when I'm in Heaven for all eternity and my best friend is in Hell, Its going to really suck. I need someway to talk to him without him refusing. I know all I can do is try to convert him, but I'm really being eaten away by this. He said he was saved when he was little, and I know if you're saved, you go to Heaven, but this is like UGH. If he's saved, and has changed his mind, how does that work? Also, I think he changed his mind because of "certain influences" at school. So how do I kindly put my point of view of Christianity to him, without offending him or causing him to hate me?

You have no best friends in heaven. Leave the kid the fuck alone about his religion & go about your day. He doesn't give a fuck about "God" so stop trying to convert him.

♥T!NA

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Why do guys get wet dreams? Like this one guy i know has been dating a girl for two years and he has been having wet dreams about me?

Wet dreams cannot be controlled. It's just a sexual fantasy to where a guy splooges all over himself. It's a guy thing, and no guy can control it. Just like a guy can't control waking up with a boner.

♥T!NA

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guys do you prefer blonds or brunettes, thanks.

Every guy is different.

♥T!NA

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does anybody know where i can download their music?
dont tell me to ask them casue my friend
did and he didnt repond
please help =D

Limewire.

♥T!NA

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My mother and I can never get along. We don't agree on anything and we're always really bitchy toward each other. We fight about everything and anything. Frankly, it's to the point where I can't take it anymore. I'm not saying it's entirely her fault. Sometimes I feel that I have anger management issues, but I'm trying to better myself. I've just gotten so much hate built up towards her that everything she does angers me in some way. She acts like she's perfect and she is trying to control every aspect of my life. We have considered going to counseling, but I know my mom very well and she would never take a shrink's advice because she can never admitt she is wrong, like I can. I admitt that I have a short temper, but she won't admitt that she nags about EVERYTHING and always thinks she's right when it comes to decisions about MY OWN LIFE. How can I deal with her? I don't want to shun her from my life, but at this point, I just want to get away and never see her again because all these fights are destroying my life. Does anyone have the same problem? How can I deal with this?!

I have the same problem. Lately my mom has been getting under my skin, and I've got a ton of problems with life right now & can't really deal with her bullshit. I just don't talk to her, and I completely ignore her.

♥T!NA

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What does a hangover feel like?

You have a headache, you're tired, you're naseous & it just sucks. It's horrible.

♥T!NA

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So I want to put a DIV on my Myspace, but the problem is that it has a "View All Friends" link and I don't want that because i dont want people to see all of my friends. So, is there a way to hide that in a DIV? If not, could someone find me a cute DIV that doesnt have that link?

Thank You.

The layouts at www.createblog.com. are really good.

♥T!NA

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ohkay well i have a lot a discharge all day everyday. its gross. and its not because my peroid is coming soon. ive had this for over a year and a haf. its smells and i dont want to cover it up by wearing a pad. so what can i do to have less discharge?

You can't do anything to get less of it. Wear a pad that you won't feel. Carefree pads in the carboard boxes are super thin. You won't even be able to tell you have it on.

♥T!NA

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A couple of days ago my best friend asked my boyfriend if he smoked and he told her that he used to, but quit and still has cravings every now and then. I have smelled smoke on him several times, but just figured that he was hanging around his friends who smoke and the scent lingered on him. Several of our mutual friends tell me that he smokes though. He never told me that he didn't smoke, but he never told me straighforward that he smokes either. Everyone knows that I don't like smoking, so he must have known that I would disapprove of it. I just don't know what to do. Oh and we have only been going out for about two weeks.

You haven't been going out for too long, so I don't see this as a huge deal. You can't really get mad at him. He didn't tell you he smoked, but he didn't tell you that he didn't either. So technically, you can't really be mad. But just talk to him about it. That's the best you can do.

♥T!NA

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so i like to write poetry, but im not sure if im any good.
would someone read this and tell me if its okay? and i want an honest answer, im not asking because im insecure, but because i really dont know.

A group of three friends is always a risk
because someone becomes the third wheel
and though I know that this is happening,
it almost seems surreal.
it can be really hard to hurt me,
but he was my Achilles’ heel.
All I want is to numb myself,
but I cant help but to feel.

I didn’t know you loved him
but, well, now I do.
and I didn’t think he liked you
but I guess it’s true
you’ve been there for me, always
but I love him, and you.
so although I'm really jealous,
I’m happy for you, too.

I never said I loved him
but I guess I was confused.
And I know us three were great
But pairs always come in two’s.
Life would be fine if we both got him
but I know he had to choose
so though I wish I could have won
I’d hate to see you lose.

I didn't really like it, but it's alright. Nothing special.

♥T!NA

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whats the different types of sex, oral sex, ..??

and how is it different?

I only know of 4 types of sex. Oral, anal, dry & vaginal. Vaginal intercourse is just normal sex. Penis to vagina. Nothing else. Oral is sucking penis, or licking vag. And anal is taking it in the ass. Dry sex is sex with your clothes on.

♥T!NA

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So I am almost 15 and everyone says i act and look like i am about 17. And there is this guy, he is 18 and he is supper sweet and nice. And not like other guys. And I like him and I am pretty sure he likes me. And dont think he is some nasy guy looking for some. He is a virgin, has had like 2-3 girlfriends, and has only gone to like 2nd base. He's a good guy. Im a freshman and he is a freshman in college, is this wrong?
like think about it, it is 4 years apart. my parents are 5 years apart, and there are people who are like 10 years. and i know its all a matter of maturity and i guess i have it. just, i dont know what to do. and advise, thought or anything would help.

Thank you!

Age doesn't matter, but in your case, it's illegal. You're a freshman in high school, correct? He's a freshman in college. Not only is wrong, but it's kinda sick too.

♥T!NA

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What are those things on the TV that say monthly or weekly test, make all those weird noises and then stops?? What are they for? Whats the Purpose?

It's to make sure that things are going as they should with the station.

♥T!NA

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Do you know any Good sites w/ Really good myspace layouts?

www.myhotlayouts.com and www.createblog.com

♥T!NA

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This is sort of complicated but i really need help because it's driving me insane.

background:

I'm a senior in high school, 17 years old/girl. Anyway, there is this sophomore who was apparently 'madly in love' with me at the start of the year. A random fact was that even his mom knew and ended up telling my friend this... he told me this too but i didnt really believe him. I mean, i liked him a lot too, but insecurity has always been an issue with me.

But during the month of coronation, he ended up going to coronation with his ex-crush and they started going out afterwards. And it hurt. i mean, before he was telling me all these reasons why he liked me and how he really loved me. But he has issues with insecurity too and he bends under peer pressure really easily; his friends and older brother all told him to go out with her instead since she was in his grade too and in his band thus less social repercussions.

The way it should be, it should be really easy to get over him, but i still cant. I mean i have some crushes on my friends in my grade, but i still have feelings for him. And he acts like he still really likes me, even though he has a girlfriend and does stuff with her. He tells me everything and acts like we're close, but its not the same anymore, if that makes sense.

So my question for this is how to get over him? I mean i tried, i've been ignoring him for a few days now since i've been so frustrated especially when he admitted to me that he almost had sex with his g/f. It's like.. are you trying to see how far you can hurt me? Towards the end of our little 'romance', he was telling me to get a boyfriend so he wouldnt feel guilty about 'ditching me'. it was like ouch thanks for trying to get rid of me. but yeah, please give me advice how to get over him!! please and thank you

This is corny but, time heals everything.

♥T!NA

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I can't stand my boyfriend. We've been on a break for like a month because I don't really like him that much. I know that I shouldn't keep going out with him or whatever, but I still want to be friends with him. He always asks why about everything so if I'm like I don't feel the same way he goes off and says why don't you like me anymore, are you not attracted to me anymore, did i do something wrong, what did i do, everything was finew aht happened. ITs like i can't stand him anymore as a boyfriend and he's so boring all hedoes is hang out with his family or me during the weekend. Sure that cool and all but it seems like he has no friends. It's like he didn't do anything wrong I just don't like him anymore. How can I break up with him?

Tell him you just wanna be friends because you think you'd be better off that way.

♥T!NA

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