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Age difference
So I am almost 15 and everyone says i act and look like i am about 17. And there is this guy, he is 18 and he is supper sweet and nice. And not like other guys. And I like him and I am pretty sure he likes me. And dont think he is some nasy guy looking for some. He is a virgin, has had like 2-3 girlfriends, and has only gone to like 2nd base. He's a good guy. Im a freshman and he is a freshman in college, is this wrong?
like think about it, it is 4 years apart. my parents are 5 years apart, and there are people who are like 10 years. and i know its all a matter of maturity and i guess i have it. just, i dont know what to do. and advise, thought or anything would help.
Thank you!
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Age doesn't matter, but in your case, it's illegal. You're a freshman in high school, correct? He's a freshman in college. Not only is wrong, but it's kinda sick too.
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I personally dont think age matters except in this case its illegal. if it was legal id say no big deal that hes older but its not. The only way that this would be ok is if you had your parents approval because if they found out it could be a big problem..just because you may look or act 17 doesnt matter because your still only 14 close to 15 right now. It also depends on what 17 year olds you are being compared to because there are some who are very immature. I'm not saying its wrong im just saying because your so far from being 18 you need your parents approval if they say no then your going to have to wait a few years. Because it could be a big problem down the line.
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ok well right now, i would say that its a bad idea. Although your parents are the same, i;m sure that they met miuch later in life. He has had those 4 more years of experience in highschool and life then you. It might not make such a difference when your out of highschool, but your at such an important part of your life right now i wouldn't do it. I'm sure hes sweet and kind and everything, but i would wait.
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i dont think there is any problem with it at all, age doesnt matter, love matters. as long as you both really like eachother and you are SURE hes a great guy that you would feel comftrable dateing
talk to your parents about it (approveal)
but it does matter about maturety, i personally think its fine but talk to your parents about it and talk to him about weather or not you should date (if he does like you) but one thing BE CAREFUL
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good luck
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