Question Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 10:11 am
Ok, why do those type of kids, act like they HATE getting judged, & they HATE when people are mean to them because they dont even know them? & why do they put people down [like preppy kids..or just kids who like abercrombie] & then get all mad if you do something like that to them?
like, one. i don't know really any people that much that are mean to goth kids or whatever.
but those goth/emo kids, seem like they do it constantly to preppier kids.
why is thaT?
whats their problem? its bugging me.
i never did or said anything to them, for them to be mean to me.
LadyH answered Saturday February 3 2007, 4:41 pm: I'd just like to say to be yourself & don't care what other people think of you. Once you're out of high school, none of this will matter & you will laugh at how ridiculously immature people are at that age. & how it was never worth getting worked up about in the first place. The end. :) [ LadyH's advice column | Ask LadyH A Question ]
Daimeera answered Saturday February 3 2007, 3:23 pm: There are bad apples in every crowd. There are hypocritical "preps" and hypocritical "goths" and hypocritical everything elses. Ignore them and worry about yourself. You can't change them, but you can make sure you set a good example. [ Daimeera's advice column | Ask Daimeera A Question ]
illdomybest answered Saturday February 3 2007, 2:40 pm: Well just because you havent seen it doesnt mean it doesnt happen...I guess for the same reason you would hate being judged and hate when people are mean to them and dont even know them....Not every person who's goth or emo puts down preppy kids. I think it goes both way when i was still in school I didnt really consider myself anything because i dont like it when people are living up to some kind of image whether it be prep,goth,grunge skater...etc...but i did notice that it was mainly "preppy" kid who mainly picked on supposed "goth" kids or basically any one who was an individual..It's diffrent every where you go and style should define someone. In a way your being kind of stereotypical in a sense to but i guess your just going by what youve observed which is ok as long as you realize that everyones diffrent and shouldnt be catagorized. Also i guess another thing is that this kind of whats promoted by media to in the movies its always the preppier people being mean to the goth or who ever seems less to them In some real life cases its true and in some its not. It also could have nothing to do with the image thing may they just dont like them as a person..not everyone clicks and gets along. People dance to diffrent beats. Maybe they dont like your view points or something you said or how you act and vice-versa. Just like you might not like someone for the same reasons. Why dont you just say hey what did i ever do to you. I dont have a problem with you so whats your problem with me? [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
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