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This is sort of complicated but i really need help because it's driving me insane.
background:
I'm a senior in high school, 17 years old/girl. Anyway, there is this sophomore who was apparently 'madly in love' with me at the start of the year. A random fact was that even his mom knew and ended up telling my friend this... he told me this too but i didnt really believe him. I mean, i liked him a lot too, but insecurity has always been an issue with me.
But during the month of coronation, he ended up going to coronation with his ex-crush and they started going out afterwards. And it hurt. i mean, before he was telling me all these reasons why he liked me and how he really loved me. But he has issues with insecurity too and he bends under peer pressure really easily; his friends and older brother all told him to go out with her instead since she was in his grade too and in his band thus less social repercussions.
The way it should be, it should be really easy to get over him, but i still cant. I mean i have some crushes on my friends in my grade, but i still have feelings for him. And he acts like he still really likes me, even though he has a girlfriend and does stuff with her. He tells me everything and acts like we're close, but its not the same anymore, if that makes sense.
So my question for this is how to get over him? I mean i tried, i've been ignoring him for a few days now since i've been so frustrated especially when he admitted to me that he almost had sex with his g/f. It's like.. are you trying to see how far you can hurt me? Towards the end of our little 'romance', he was telling me to get a boyfriend so he wouldnt feel guilty about 'ditching me'. it was like ouch thanks for trying to get rid of me. but yeah, please give me advice how to get over him!! please and thank you
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Dear Senior,
I had the same problem too. I used to like this guy and basically in the end I didnt go out with him, one of my friends did. And all I can tell you is, you can't go cold-turkey and totally shun him. That hurts even more then talking to him. I would still talk to him, keep in contact, and eventually you'll find someone else and you'll get over him slowly. It'll hurt, I'll tell you that much, but it'll be worth the hurt when you're over him. I hope this helped. Good luck and let me know how things turn out!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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