No one actively controls the content of their dreams, and it's impossible to accurately interpret another person's unconscious. The only person who might have an idea about his feelings is this guy.
It's entirely possible that he's happy with his girlfriend, and you're just a handy brain fantasy.
I might question why he feels the need to tell you he is having wet dreams about you - this might indicate that he's trying to tell you he's attracted to you. If this is something you don't want to pursue, then you may want to steer him away from this topic in future.
christina answered Saturday February 3 2007, 6:06 pm: Wet dreams cannot be controlled. It's just a sexual fantasy to where a guy splooges all over himself. It's a guy thing, and no guy can control it. Just like a guy can't control waking up with a boner.
Melody answered Saturday February 3 2007, 5:23 pm: I have to ask; What does this boy dating a girl for two years have to do with your question pertaining to wet dreams?
It seems likely to me that you want the columnists to tell you he's attracted or wants to be with you, not the other girl. I doubt anyone will give you this advice, and if someone does, I wouldn't take it if I were you.
Guys have wet dreams. It's normal, and usually out of the guys control. He could be dreaming about you.. he could be dreaming about his girlfriend.. or he could be dreaming about school, friends, work, or something else. The actual dream itself doesn't have to pertain to some sort of arousal.
I don't know why this guy told you he's having wet dreams about you. He's either completely lying about the dream all together, or wants you to think he's attracted to you. I personally think if he was attracted to you, he would flat out tell you. Not say he's having a wet dream about you. I wouldn't talk to this guy anymore if I were you. You don't want to wreck a relationship that's lasted 2 years over something as stupid as an attraction. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Saturday February 3 2007, 3:00 pm: well, dreams cant really be controlled. and if hes dreaming about having sex with you, then his body could be responding to that by releasing sperm. it really isnt supposed to be common, and should only happen a couple of times in a guys life. he would have to be extremely aroused, and an utter lack of any sexual release. even then, it shouldnt happen that often. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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