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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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so theres this boy that i like.. and today i found out that he gets LOVE letters from girls! hes already gotten like four or so, from girls.. probably because the valentines dance is only a week away.. but they signed as secret admirers. Oh yeah, I found out because his locker is like right next to mine, and at the end of the day he was packing up and saw one, and talked about it to his friend, who was laughing. He seemed to not really care about them, and was like "all these crazy girls that are obsessed with me" or something.. i dont think he really liked it. im not one of them, but im still a tad jealous. I mean, he might like me, I dunno yet.. like I kinda lost a little interest in him after a while since I started liking someone else (and focused more on schoolwork haha) but there are signs he may like me.. like theres this kid in my class and he always comes up to me randomly.. especially when im wearing nice clothing that day (or put more thought into my outfit) and like says random stuff to me. i used to think that he likes me, but hes always like that, cause hes a joker. but he doesnt do it to everyone, but like right after he does stuff like that, he calls the guy's name, then goes to talk to him. and sometimes when im talking to this joker kid, my crush comes up too, and kinda joins the convo. and like other things too.. alot of them that i wont bother to write (unless needed) i dont wanna like ask him out though, because im not entirely sure......... but those girls writing him love letters make me jealous! also that means that theres competition, and if i even get with him at all, like some girls will like.. be jealous too, and i'd feel weird, lol. even one of my friends likes him too, because.. well, hes hot, nice, funny, and really sporty.

13/f

Okay, so what exactly is your question? If you like him, ask him out.

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well recently i have been in a really bad spell of depression and decided to examine my life and relized that the guy that i like has put me this way. I ahve been chasing after him for 2 years and everytime and get close i just get washed away because some other gilr gets him or he just some how gets really distant. This year really hurt me bad because we went to this camp and afterwards he began talking to me and he even called me once and finally he asked me if i like him and i said yes and then he talked to me a little after that but got a girlfreind and i haven't heard from him in two weeks. i thought i had a lmost got close enough to be freidns a little and i was so happy then it just got washed away again and i have to start from scratch but htis time i can't grap anything to start over with...there is nothing and i have cried and creid becaue i care so much about him and i have done a lot of things to prtect him.....things that could have got me in alot of trouble becasue i didn't want to see him ge hurt but i end up heartbroken again and i knowthat i should try to get over him but i have tried so many times and it is completle useless because everytime i tried he decied to tease me a little (that;s what i call it) and i fall right vack into the place i was in the first place. Any ohter time i've treid to get over him but i still cound't.....i was just wondering what should i do because he knows how i fell but nothing will happen because everytime i get close it all falls apart.

He fucks you over, so why do you keep going back. Tell this kid to fuck himself & just focus your mind on something else. Time heals everything.

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me and this guy are pretty close, and as we get closer the more i like him. all of his really good friends say that he likes me, alot. but he doesn't know that i like him... he's not very perceptive. lots of people are telling me to just tell him i kie him... which is really hard for me, i'm deathly afraid of rejection... so your all gonna say "just tell him", right? well here's the harder part, he has a girlfriend... me and her arn't really friends... but a little more then aquantences...he cheats on her... and if i made a move i know that he'd respond positivly... but then on monday it would be like nothing happend, and i'd feel guilty. so should i tell him that i like him, even though i'm pretty sure he wouldn't breack up with her... or should i just enjoy being his friend and try not to kiss him or anything?

thanks so much for any advice, sorry this question's soo long

He has a girlfriend who he cheats on, & you like him? That's fucked. Honestly, don't make any moves, don't buy him shit for valentine's day, and enjoy just being his friend. If you're not friends with her and she finds out that you & her boyfriend made moves on each other, I'm pretty sure she'd be pissed. And I'm sure you'd feel the same if you were in her position. So don't be a skank and leave this kid alone.

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ok i need your help !!
im 5'2 and weigh 90 pounds
is the to fat to skinny or average ??
cuz i was thinking about losing 5-10 pounds do u think i need to ??
HELP !!

Too skinny. Honestly, you need to gain weight not lose it.

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So i did stuff with my ex boyfriend who has a girlfriend then i told her cuz i felt bad about it but i still really like this guy but anyways she wont let him talk to me anymore now..how can i get him to talk..ive tried emailin he wont write back he doesnt see them cuz she deleted them first or he just doesnt write back he knows my voice on the fone so he hangs up wen he knows its me and hes always with her wen i see him ..i really need to get some answers from him, but i cant get him to talk..any idea?

I honestly don't blame her for wanting to keep you away from him. You knew he had a girlfriend, but you did stuff with him anyway. Pretty trashy, no? There is no way to talk to him, so give up. But honestly, on her part, she should be mad at both of you. She should be mad at you because you skanked it with her boyfriend, and she should be mad at him because he cheated on her with a skank.

Nice going.

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i'm a 16 year old paranoid female. a couple of days ago a tiny bump (the size of a zit) appeared on my right breast. i didn't think much of it, but now there are a five on my left breast as well. they definitely aren't zits. they're harder and are all on my areolas. they don't hurt to the touch, but i have no idea what they could be. i'm scared, but i don't want to blow it out of proportion if it's nothing big. somebody help, please. ): thank you.

Honestly, see a doctor.

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Im 15 year old female :) and im getting my eyebrow pierced any pointers for cleaning it and what should i expect as far as pain wise?

Pain is different for everybody. When the person pierces you, they'll tell you in the information on how to clean it, what to clean it with, how long before it heals, etc. If they don't let you know, they're dirty. Make sure you go somewhere clean because most places don't even rip the packaging open in front of you like they're supposed to. You can get all kinds of diseases & infections or whatever. So make sure you're not going anywhere dirty & disgusting. Because most likely, they'll fuck up your piercing.

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Hey. I've heard you're straight up & are good at giving advice, so here's the deal.


It's this simple.

Best friend.
He's a guy.
Everything I need.
We're close as it gets, etc.

I helped him to start date my other friend, she's a girl, and she's lovely.

They're great together.
But, there's that niggling feeling in the back of my mind, that bit of doubt.
What if they get serious, and forget about me.
It's jealousy, and I know that I'm just insecure.

I love my bffl.
& I don't want him to think I'm clingy.

Help, lmao?
Thanks, Carleekins.
xx

Okay, so I take it you guys are brother & sister close? Or super close that you might like him as more than a friend? I don't know which, so I'm gonna give you something to do for either situation.

If you're brotherly close with him, I'm sure he's not gonna think you're being clingy if you explain it to him. Tell him you don't wanna be forgotten about. Or if there's a guy you like, go out with him so you guys can double & it won't be so awkward. And you won't feel like a third wheel.

If you like him as more than a friend, I would wait until they're done. Could be a long period of time, could be a short period of time, but that's life. I would've told him that you had feelings for him before you set him up with your frend. You said he's everything you need. So did you do what's right for you. Maybe it's not doubt. Maybe you're just kicking yourself in the ass because you set up the guy you like with someone else, and now you regret it because you know he should be with you. But if you like him a lot & it's eating you up, I would just come out & tell him when they aren't near you together. Wait til you have him alone. That's pretty much the best I can tell you. I hope things work out like you need them to. Let me know what happens.

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I gained about 15-20 pounds over the past 3 or 4 months. Now, I am 140, 5'6". I feel so fat! I have tried to lose the weight but I just don't have the motivation. I exercise plenty, but I eat even more, and I still gain weight. How can I find the motivation to eat less?

Put pictures of supermodels on the fridge.

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I was wondering about how much are the louis vuttion small handbags?
here is a picture of what i`m talking about

http://images.google.com/images?q=tbn:D42sRK7a0S_fPM:http://c.im.craigslist.org/5J/L2/cWiFpIfy9EK4KAK4VVEUiNCaPCRe.jpg

thanks

Check the LV store. They should have the price there. But, they're pretty expensive.

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k well this will prob be long, sorry haha
14/f 9th grade
alright so last year i started talking to this boy, his name is pedro. pedro is a really nice guy, and very attractive, though alot of people discredit him for it because he is def(sp?). continuing on, so we began talking at the beginning of the year, and talked all year long, we both liked eachother and we both knew it but we dated other people but still "talked" so in the summer we went out. for like a month. i broke things off because i did not see him once in that month we went out and barley talked to him, also because he blew me off 3 times. so i was like, why am i wasting my time? ok so we still remained friends, we'd fight sometimes but we were still friends. then one night online(in like september after school had started), we got in a really big argument because he was like "your annoying and you bother me" and i was like..wtf is your problem. and it escalated into this big fight. and he told me that he loved me, but he didn't want to, and he said he didn't want to talk to me anymore. and then at the end of our fight/conversation he denied saying any of it. but i didn't talk to him at all anymore. that was the end of our friendship. then in around december we started talking again because we both play basketball for the school and he would ask me out it but i wouldn't talk to him unless he said something to me because i was mad as hell because like he was as close to love as i've ever been and i still had/have feelings for him and he said all that stuff. then like we kept talking and got less mad. and then one day he was like texting me and he goes "i want to make out with you" "i want you" "i miss you" "i love you" and at one point i asked what he was doing and he said "thinking about you" so like i thought he liked me again. but then like the next day he acted like he never said anything and like i was kinda bumed but whatever. so then before a game he goes "good luck at your game love you" so like he's confusing my brain. because he called me once the other day. and he will text me randomly and be like whats up. but if i text him he like barely ever answers me and if he does it takes him forever. so like i guess what my question is, does he like me again. and like should i keep talking to him and stuff like i don't know i still have feelings for me and that one night i was the happiest i've ever been so i don't know..

He's an idiot. Forget about him.

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on alot of people's name tags on Myspace it says [fxc] or [nxc]

what does this mean?

You already asked this. And I told you to ask them. So stop posting the question over&over.

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Hey I was looking for some cheap manikins. http://store.storesupply.com/webapp/commerce/servlet/CategoryDisplay?merchant_rn=631&cgrfnbr=225219
I like the female ones they have on that website but they're really expensive. Does anyone know where to find one's like that only cheaper? Please don't say Ebay. Thanks.

Ebay.

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Ok, well, my friend has a vanity where she does her make up and stuff, and i thought it looked really cute. i really want one now, and my mom and dad said it is okay if i get one, but we don't know where to find it. idc if its antiqe because i'm just going to end up paiting it. i want one of the little chairs/seats to go w/ it. does anyone know where i can get one? thanks a bunch!!!

Go to a furniture store.

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k well i'm 14/f
i've been around alcohol my whole life, well just at like family parties and stuff. but since about last summer i've been drinking, a lot. at first i started with beers, but i don't really like that. so i turn to like vodka,brandy,scotch,whiskey. idk hard liqours. so like i don't drink a lot, because half the time i'm home and i haven't been able to sleep at a friends for a while because i got in trouble. but like i crave it all the time. if i go to my grandma's i always have a sip of scotch while i'm there. maybe more if i can. but like i just want more but i don't let myself incase my parents can tell or smell it on my breath. and if i'm at a friends house i'll drink till i feel sick. and i don't know i crave it all the time and if it was attainable i'd have it all the time probably..so like am i considered an alcoholic and if i am how can i like fix it so i'm not without going into rehab and stuff


also my oldest brother is pretty much one and my less older brother is becoming one

Go to rehab because you're gonna ruin your life.

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Our first date was tonight---me and this girl...I think i'm in love...is that possible or irrational?

Irrational.

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what is spooning? i have no idea what it is.

You obviously have no idea what google is either.

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I am a little anti-social and that is because I am used to getting left out and feeling not accepted. so I was talking to two of the few people i do feel somewhat close to a male and a female that i joke with and talk to often. And, they begin to discuss something that happened in one of the dorms and They said that someone was in lets say the dorm cyrna and i said who was in cyrna and the male said nobody. like I wasn't accpeted and trusted enough to know what they were talking about. Do i take things too personally are what? Because it made me feel like we weren't close at all.

Correct. You take things too personally.

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i feel like my life is in this huge horrible rut and i don't know how to get out, i'm miserable every day.
first of all I am so stressed out because of school, i have always loved to learn but all of a sudden I have tons of assignments every night and i just can't handle this much, i mean i guess i can because i'm smart, I'm not worried about grades, it's just making me really depressed.
my best friend is moving (i'm a freshman/F) and we are super close. My school is really small and i know i won't be able to make a new best friend.
my parents just split up and it's all very confusing and frustrating and sad
my dog who i have had since i was 4 has cancer and is going to die, and i love him so much
i have no love life, i have never done anything, no kiss, never been asked out. I know i'm a lesbian but only my bff who's moving away knows and i can't tell anybody else just because i know they will be uncomfortable around me.
The only person I like is my teacher, who although she is probably gay and only 22 or 23, she would never be interested in a freshman, even if it was legal, lol
basically i'm bored all the time even though i'm actually pretty busy.
how can i be less depressed?

See a counselor.

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what is the most beautiful combination of words in the english language?

"I love you."

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