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life is getting worse
i feel like my life is in this huge horrible rut and i don't know how to get out, i'm miserable every day.
first of all I am so stressed out because of school, i have always loved to learn but all of a sudden I have tons of assignments every night and i just can't handle this much, i mean i guess i can because i'm smart, I'm not worried about grades, it's just making me really depressed.
my best friend is moving (i'm a freshman/F) and we are super close. My school is really small and i know i won't be able to make a new best friend.
my parents just split up and it's all very confusing and frustrating and sad
my dog who i have had since i was 4 has cancer and is going to die, and i love him so much
i have no love life, i have never done anything, no kiss, never been asked out. I know i'm a lesbian but only my bff who's moving away knows and i can't tell anybody else just because i know they will be uncomfortable around me.
The only person I like is my teacher, who although she is probably gay and only 22 or 23, she would never be interested in a freshman, even if it was legal, lol
basically i'm bored all the time even though i'm actually pretty busy.
how can i be less depressed?
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well, your in a bit of a sticky wicket. the person above me is right about organizing everything and such, but the best thing i found for your other misfortunes is to find religion and embrace it, and not just any old religion, one that you believe in. it helped me when my life got into a rut like yours has, and although my rut differes from yours the basis is the same. oh and with the teacher thing, if you are lesbian you would be able to tell 100% if she is. but in any case if you can't find anyone else to talk to, she's there to help you with your problems so if anything just start venting to her about some of these problems, because alot of the problems expecially built up like this over a short period of time, most people would be able to handle it. and i personally am glad your seeking help from outside sorces, i didn't and i almost killed myself... so if you don't talk to that teacher of yours talk to your counsler(sp?) and they could refer you to someone you could talk to on a confidential basis. well just know that help is out there and it's at your fingertips, all you have to do is grab it
i hope this helped
Marccwind
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Well, I`m very sorry to hear about all that you're going through. To start off, organize your nights, so homework isn't as stressful. What I mean is, don't rush it all in, spread it out. For example, do your algebra before dinner, and then work on English and then take a shower and work on whatever else. As far as the best friend moving, I know how you feel. Try meeting new people by joining groups or sports teams. I`m sorry about your parents and your dog. About you being a lesbian, try and find people LIKE you, so it's not as awkward. About the teacher thing, uhm, I don't really know, ha I`m sorry. Try keeping a blog or a journal, it may sound stupid, but once you write down your thoughts, you`ll feel better, or you can try talking to a trusted adult or friend. Or you could take your stress out and jog everyday just to get out of the house and think about things.
I`m sorry, and if you need anyone to talk to. I`m here. Good luck. <3
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See a counselor.
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