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I've fallen for him, but its complicated
Hey. I've heard you're straight up & are good at giving advice, so here's the deal.
It's this simple.
Best friend.
He's a guy.
Everything I need.
We're close as it gets, etc.
I helped him to start date my other friend, she's a girl, and she's lovely.
They're great together.
But, there's that niggling feeling in the back of my mind, that bit of doubt.
What if they get serious, and forget about me.
It's jealousy, and I know that I'm just insecure.
I love my bffl.
& I don't want him to think I'm clingy.
Help, lmao?
Thanks, Carleekins.
xx
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Okay, so I take it you guys are brother & sister close? Or super close that you might like him as more than a friend? I don't know which, so I'm gonna give you something to do for either situation.
If you're brotherly close with him, I'm sure he's not gonna think you're being clingy if you explain it to him. Tell him you don't wanna be forgotten about. Or if there's a guy you like, go out with him so you guys can double & it won't be so awkward. And you won't feel like a third wheel.
If you like him as more than a friend, I would wait until they're done. Could be a long period of time, could be a short period of time, but that's life. I would've told him that you had feelings for him before you set him up with your frend. You said he's everything you need. So did you do what's right for you. Maybe it's not doubt. Maybe you're just kicking yourself in the ass because you set up the guy you like with someone else, and now you regret it because you know he should be with you. But if you like him a lot & it's eating you up, I would just come out & tell him when they aren't near you together. Wait til you have him alone. That's pretty much the best I can tell you. I hope things work out like you need them to. Let me know what happens.
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