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some what of a triangle....
me and this guy are pretty close, and as we get closer the more i like him. all of his really good friends say that he likes me, alot. but he doesn't know that i like him... he's not very perceptive. lots of people are telling me to just tell him i kie him... which is really hard for me, i'm deathly afraid of rejection... so your all gonna say "just tell him", right? well here's the harder part, he has a girlfriend... me and her arn't really friends... but a little more then aquantences...he cheats on her... and if i made a move i know that he'd respond positivly... but then on monday it would be like nothing happend, and i'd feel guilty. so should i tell him that i like him, even though i'm pretty sure he wouldn't breack up with her... or should i just enjoy being his friend and try not to kiss him or anything?
thanks so much for any advice, sorry this question's soo long
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Hey. To be honest, you shouldn't tell him you like him! Just think if you were in his girlfriends position, how would you feel if you found out that he cheated on you. Plus, once a cheater always a cheater. It seems as if you already treat this boy different then other boys. It is never a good idea to get involved with a boy that has a girlfriend. Enjoy being his friend, but thats it. Sorry. -helen
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He has a girlfriend who he cheats on, & you like him? That's fucked. Honestly, don't make any moves, don't buy him shit for valentine's day, and enjoy just being his friend. If you're not friends with her and she finds out that you & her boyfriend made moves on each other, I'm pretty sure she'd be pissed. And I'm sure you'd feel the same if you were in her position. So don't be a skank and leave this kid alone.
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