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I was thinking, just like there's excersies to make the brain work or start in places where they don't, are there music for your brain that can help you focus when you work and opens your mind?

If so what kind of music and and you list me some songs? (link)
well i heard that calming music-maybe acid jazz- relaxes you, and helpes you focus on work. but fast up-beat music e.g. pussycat dolls, fat boy slim etc, helps you work faster.


How do I get rid of my top friends list on Myspace? (link)
copy and paste this code into your about me part then save the changes........






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how do girls get used to wearing high heels? Like some high heels are so hgih that when you wear it, have your feet is bending almost in half!

The highest heel i can wear is 1cm tall, any higher and I'll fall. But there's no great shoes for me. (link)
lol same woth me, you just have to practice like put them on while your at home and walk aroung in them all day so you will get used to them.


i would like to tell you all, that you are beautiful. everyone on here are the greastest among people. for we are all hear to help and be helped. and this is no question. and if i get suspended or deleted from advicenators for it or something, so be it. but the main point is, you are all wonderful people and every one of you are making this world a better place by signing on here everyday and helping someone half way around the world that you don't even know. that's what's gonna change the world. if everyone was like the people here, the world would be a better place. but sadly it's not. but maybe someday, it will be. so if you see a struggling man or woman, do not laugh, stick out your hand to help them. do good in the world, more than you already have. and maybe someday you can change the world. and i write this becuase someone answered the boy from pakistan in a way that really moved me. and it makes me appreciative of what we do here. and it makes me aware of how good i am. compared to some people in the world without homes, money, food. or are young parents. and their last hope in the world is here, and when everyone gives a helping hand, it's something beautiful and unreplacable. God bless all of you! (link)
wow, thats was really sweet :]

hope you had a nice holidayy ♥


how do girls get used to wearing high heels? Like some high heels are so hgih that when you wear it, have your feet is bending almost in half!

The highest heel i can wear is 1cm tall, any higher and I'll fall. But there's no great shoes for me. (link)
it sounds stupid, but practice walking in higher ones. walk around the house in them. like when youd normally not be wearing any shoes, put your heels on. the extra practice can help. you can work your way up to higher heels by practcing.

* also when i got my first pair, i wore socks with them when i was practicing to like help with support and so they didnt hurt as bad.

hope it helped


okkay so you know those thigns about the screen. Like out run the monster, and you have to click and click. & you always win. and it says in a free iphone. I know those don't work but what happens. do you actually get like an iphonee? (link)
hey

well. you have to like sign up for a bunch of things, like blockbuster & stuff that require a credit card number. they are frauds cause if you give your credit card number bad stuff happens.

so, i guess if you're willing to take the risk of having your credit card number posted on the internet & have no idea who has it, then yeah you will get an iphone i guess. but sometimes they lie.

some of them are real, some of them aren't. so i wouldn't go about posting my credit card number all over the place.

i hope that answered your question.


please dont send me to a website. i get way too much info. i dont need a lot of specifics, just some brief ideas.

i have to make a book lookin thing with only pictures from magazines/internet.. no words unless i spell them from cut out letters.

can someone summarize what life was like before, during, and after the holocaust? i know that during, they went to the concentration camps and were starved, but were they laborers or anything? and did they have phones then [at home not the camps] and were they allowed to send letters home?

any brief info you could give would be great! thanks =] (link)
hey

well we just finished our "anne frank / holocaust" unit so i can hit you up.

how much before? like before they were taken away? they were in fear. lots of them went into hiding. but most of them went into the concentration camps & worked. they only worked if they were a certain age, like i think it waas 16- 45 years old. if you were old, a baby, younger than 16 or older than 45, you were put straight into the gas chambers. if you were 16- 45 you did work like burning the dead bodies, etc.

when they were in the concentration camps, heck no. they were separated from their familes & the nazis couldn't care less about those people. they just wanted them dead. yes, they had phones at home, why not? i guess it depends on if you could afford it or not.

afterwards, everyone felt i guess better that it was over. many lives were lost, & the nazis were obviously to blame.

i hope that helped you a little bit with the during part :]


Does it really work if someone reads you something when you’re sleeping and you’ll remember it? (link)
hey

if you're sleeping, you can't exactly hear it.

it's true that if you're really tired & about to go to bed, like half hour or less, you will retain it better than if you were completely awake. this is because your mind is slowly turning off & kinda refreshing. new information sticks like glue in your mind.

i think that's what you meant - & if not, i'm really sorry for not understanding your question.

this also depends on how you learn. by reading, by writing, or listening (there are LOTS more). so if you read something before you go to bed, or write something down many times, you will also retain it.

if you keep reviewing vocab terms & such by this method, you'll have a lot of words memorized by the time day 3 or 4 comes around.


i strongly love this guy: for the past four years!!!! (on and off, 95% of the time on)

is this really love? or is this just a crush?

were not together btw, he has a gf

16/f (link)
hey

now i'm not saying it's not love, but most-likely it's probably not only because love is a very strong feeling that is beyond physical appearance, social, intellectual... etc. it's like nothing you've ever experienced.

it's probably just a really really really big crush. people fall in love once, MAYBE twice if you get really lucky. so i highly doubt you are in love.

do you find any flaws in him? if so, no way you aren't in love. when you're in love you look & talk to that person & can't seem to find any flaws. every flaw they have has turned into something good.

you COULD be, so you never know :]


My bottom lashes are really blonde and you can't see them and it's really hard to put mascara on them. I need to darken them, without completely damaging them. Any suggestions??? Thanks (link)
hey

try putting a brown eyeliner on (not black!) or make sure your eyeliner matches your haircolor.

then, open your eyes really wide & make an "O" with your mouth to stretch your face out. try putting the mascara on like that.

make sure it's brown mascara & not black, unless it matches your hair color.

look up while you put mascara on them. it will help you get every strand.


14/f Okay... so sometimes I will masturbate and I know its normal and whatnot.. thats not what im asking. I always use the same thing [electric toothbrush] and latly my orgasms have been really REALLY week.. and they come too fast. I can't look anything up on the internet [i've been to mymasturbation once and my parents nearly died when they found out.. i lied about it] Does anyone know anyway to increase the pleasure I'm getting and make it last longer?? that would be AMAZING. also, I don't think i've ever relle cum. After masturbating it taked forever for me to actually be wet. Is that cum? Have I even relle had an orgasm then?? and after i have my "orgasm" i always get relle tiard and can't masturbate anymore.. any tips for that.. \does that mean I did have an orgasm. Oh gosh.. im confusedlol.. (link)
hey

sounds like you're having an orgasm. you're tired, & it's like your vajj almost ... hurts in a way that you just can't have anyway.

don't be confused - when you have an orgasm, you're not thinking about anything. you like zone out & go into another world, pretty much. & you feel IMMENSE pleasure.

maybe the electric toothbrush is becoming slower & losing battery power. try replacing the battery, or like replugging it back in, or into another plug. that will make it go faster & stronger, & maybe your orgasms will feel better.

yes, if you feel your vajj getting wet, it's probably cum. if it's a clearish (maybe white), thick liquid coming out of your vagina, yes, it's cum all right.

tips for enjoying your orgasm to the full extent: when you feel aroused, like TWOO seconds before you're gonna do it, pull the electric toothbrush away! & just keep doing this until you get so sick of just not "having it" then let yourself have it. it feels greattt.


We have to read Shakespeare in our class soon.. is there any particular way to read his books? Like Othello (link)
hey

we're reading shakespeare but it's like the easy version. i suggest paying attention to every single word. like as we grew up, we read words in clumps. well, with shakespeare, you can't really do that. you have to look & define every single word in your head.

honestly, there is SO much hidden in his words. you have to take every line & stop to think about it. you can't just go pages & pages without stopping. cause i doubt, if anyone does read shakespeare like any old book, you're really getting anything out of it.

just read it slowly & keep thinking about what is going on. & look at every word by itself. like if it said, "I love thee" you have to think it out. like, "I" "love" "thee" & THEN put it together. "i love you"


i need a good argument as to why facebook is better than myspace
if anyone can help me thatd be great (link)
hey

well first off... facebook is much safer cause everyone has an account & no random person can browse around. myspace? um like no one knows each other & everyone lies about their age / location anyway. & myspace has like old guys getting horny off half - naked girls' pics.

myspace is sooo overrated & totally gross now. like after all these stupid rape cases, everyone's like, "ew there ar 12 year olds on myspace. how uncool" so um facebook is a lot hotter.

& stupid 9 - year olds can't LIE and get away with being on facebook. facebook is very strict & you can't just make up like 2350923840823 accounts like myspace.

if your friends don't believe youu, i don't know what else to say. it's just one of those things you sometimes just can't convince people.

i hope i helped


Hey im a 13/f and i have just gotin out of a years relation ship. and the guy that i was dateing dumped me and wont say why. So his best friend conner who i have known since i was a baby has been txting me all the time and has been flerting with me. and saying ll this cute stuff and he has asked me out i haven't answered cuz i dont know what i shuld say. Is it wrong to be dateing his best friend who is also one of my bestfriends??? Please help me cuz i need it.
Love,
Bubble2Gum (link)
hey

NO of course not! you can date whoever you want! after what your ex did to you, you have EVERY RIGHT to date his best friend & do all that you want with him.

go for it girl. if you like him, text back "yeah of course!" you won't regret it [ iff you likee himm ]. don't say yes if you don't like him, or worse... if you want to make your ex jealous. cause then, when his bff finds out, both of 'em will hate youu.

so just go with your heart. do you like him? go out with him. do you not? don't bother.

i hope all goes well for youu


My bottom lashes are really blonde and you can't see them and it's really hard to put mascara on them. I need to darken them, without completely damaging them. Any suggestions??? Thanks (link)
Um, it would not be too smart if you tried dying your eyelashes. Not smart at all. Do what that girl said about the eyeliner, and when you put one mascara, make sure you have light shining on your lashes so you can see them better. Put a few coats on and you should be good.


I want to go to that camp so badly.. I looked at the camp website and it looks so good! the bad side is that tuition is 8,600 dollars in total. um.. hold up. thats nearly 9,000 dollars!! where is a 13 year old girl supposed to get that kind of money from? i mean my parents arent really that rich.. we arent the kind of family that gets most of their money like inherited from their grandparents.. infact we have to give money to them because they're from cameroon which is in africa so my parents and relatives had to make their way through america by themselves. and we give money to our other family members in africa who werent as fortunate.. and thats good, but then we cant always go on like those vacations that like alot of my friends and etc. go on to like jamaica, hawaii, and tons of beaches. I like in New Jersey, and the camp is in Starlight, Pennyslvania(SP?). yeah like my parents would wanna drive that far either. but i really want to go to this.. really badly. i've never been to camp before and i wanna go before im like old, so i can always remember that i went to camp. unless there are other sleepaway camps out there that are close to my location, hillsborough, new jersey, that dont cost that much. um anyways how can i convince my parents to let me go to this camp and pay that amount of money to let me go? or... how can i earn money so i can go? right now i have about 300 dollars in my bank account. im entereing a talent show, and if i win, i'll get 350 more dollars. i hope i win!! (well. i also wanted to get an ipod but i guess that can wait, too.) or should i sell stuff? err.. not sure about that since im a major pack rat.

if your wondering what my question is, its

1. how can i earn money so i can go to an expensive sleepaway summer camp (if 9,600 bucks is expensive for a summer camp.. i dunno)

2. how can i convince my parents to let me go to this expensive summer camp

3. are there any other good summer camps near hillsborough, new jersey? good like camp starlight (www.campstarlight.com)

4. how long would it take me to get to starlight, pennyslavania(sorry i cant spell that place right! i think)

5. anything else that would be useful to know!

THANKS! you ROCK if you can help me alot with this!!!! (link)
most camps have scholarships and you can fill out a form, just search the website or call.

1 & 2)i had the same problemmm. haha, i went crazy with convincing charts, pamphlets, and pictures. i also was really good with like helping around the house and in school and finally they spilt camp (bc they are divorced). our camp directors were really nice and gave us a discount, because we explained our situation. i hearr starlight is a really nice camp, so you could try having your mom talk to the people in charge of the campp. ohh and 8,600 is alittle above average for camp, you can do better, but not much.

3. there are soo many good camps everywhere!

http://www.findcamps.com
http://www.campparents.org/

some cammps that me & my friends go to are:
-camp louemma. per session its like 2,000. so its not that exspensive and its in nj.
-camp wahnee
-camp timberlake
-camp kindering
-camp indian head
-camp island lake
-camp echo
-camp echo lake (completely diff. from echo)
-camp tioga
-camp chen-a-wanda

each of these have a webiste so check them out as well.

4. use mapquest. (www.mapquest.com)


inbox me with any other questionss.
good luck :]



How do i know when i am cumming? Or having an orgasim (link)
hey

when you're coming, a white or clear liquid comes out of your vaginal hole.

when you orgasm, you feel SO good, like you're going to explode down there, pretty much. like it's sudden - you'll know when you have one. you just have a state of equanimity. it's really sudden, & goes away pretty quickly.


Me and my friends used to hang out all the time. Every weekend we would do stuff.In the beggining of the school year everything was fine. Now its April and the last time i hung out with some were on new years eve. I hung out with another friend at the movies for like 10 min about a month ago. and thats it. Lately theyve been hanging out with other people and havent been asking me to hang out. I ask them to hang out but now theyre always hanging out with other people or they cant. Now they hardley talk to me in school. Every weekend im at home doing nothing. Sometimes it seems that they think theyre too good for me. but we allused to do so much together. now that summers coming soon i dont wanna be sitting at home watching tv.

what should i do?

are these people really my friends ?

any advice at all?


thanks (link)
when they say they're busy, just be all, "oh, can i come along?" or something like that. try and be a part of the group, because like you said, you dont want to be at home watching tv. hope i helped:)


what's worse - a mean, manipulative back-stabbing "friend" or a hypocritical, following, will do whatever the "mean" one does to a person "friend"? which one is worse - friend #1 or friend #2? or are they both equally bad in their own ways? (link)
i think they are both equally bad..... but if you had to chose one then i would definetly pick friend 2.


Can someone tell me the answer to this?

1. The scale of two similar quadrilaterals is 1:2. The perimeter of the smaller quadrilateral is 80 centimeters. What is the perimeter of the larger quadrilateral?

A. 40cm
B. 80cm
C. 160cm
D. 320cm


THANKS! (link)
its C
because 1:2 means that the 2nd 1 is 2 times bigger or something like that....




hope i helped :'D




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