14/f Okay... so sometimes I will masturbate and I know its normal and whatnot.. thats not what im asking. I always use the same thing [electric toothbrush] and latly my orgasms have been really REALLY week.. and they come too fast. I can't look anything up on the internet [i've been to mymasturbation once and my parents nearly died when they found out.. i lied about it] Does anyone know anyway to increase the pleasure I'm getting and make it last longer?? that would be AMAZING. also, I don't think i've ever relle cum. After masturbating it taked forever for me to actually be wet. Is that cum? Have I even relle had an orgasm then?? and after i have my "orgasm" i always get relle tiard and can't masturbate anymore.. any tips for that.. \does that mean I did have an orgasm. Oh gosh.. im confusedlol..
While people cannot tell you ways to make things better, intense like you asked I can tell you that by using the same methods over and over that your body builds up a tolerance and that's why it's no longer working for you.
Try another way without the brush. Use your imagination there and figure things out. That's part of the reason for doing it. The wetness is normal and is sign of arousal and doesn't always have to do with orgasm.
Being real tired after is normal because you were either very vigorous or had done it too many times at once.
Anyways, that's about all anyone here can say to you about the topic besides the fact that parents know their teens are doing this as it's pretty much universal at this age.
The fact they know you read about it online and were surprised means you really ought to discuss it with your mom. She was a girl once too and if you're confused about anything sexual who else will have solid answers and can find info or books for you.
Also, try talking to an older sibling about this topic or a girl or woman you can trust if confused. Trust me, that's the best road to take if you have these questions. You'll get the correct info from them as the Internet and friends cannot be trusted. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
orphans answered Monday April 9 2007, 5:27 pm: hey
sounds like you're having an orgasm. you're tired, & it's like your vajj almost ... hurts in a way that you just can't have anyway.
don't be confused - when you have an orgasm, you're not thinking about anything. you like zone out & go into another world, pretty much. & you feel IMMENSE pleasure.
maybe the electric toothbrush is becoming slower & losing battery power. try replacing the battery, or like replugging it back in, or into another plug. that will make it go faster & stronger, & maybe your orgasms will feel better.
yes, if you feel your vajj getting wet, it's probably cum. if it's a clearish (maybe white), thick liquid coming out of your vagina, yes, it's cum all right.
tips for enjoying your orgasm to the full extent: when you feel aroused, like TWOO seconds before you're gonna do it, pull the electric toothbrush away! & just keep doing this until you get so sick of just not "having it" then let yourself have it. it feels greattt. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
advice_expert101 answered Monday April 9 2007, 5:07 pm: kayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. so this might seem pretty like idk. but i just like lay on my stomach and like use my hands and it last really long. like. i have clothes on but yeahh, hahaa. hopeeeeee i helped you.
and umm.. i guess you could try a dildo or like go into like spencers (that store) and they might have something. also... umm you could try some other stores like thatt and im SURE that they would have somethingggg.
maybe try ordering something online?
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