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is it love?
i strongly love this guy: for the past four years!!!! (on and off, 95% of the time on)
is this really love? or is this just a crush?
were not together btw, he has a gf
16/f
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If you love a guy every flaw about him you dont notice.. if he wears funny lcothes you think hes gorgeous. sometimes people get love mixed up with the fascination of being with someone and having someone there to turn to! Now if this guy is with someone else i advise you to run away! if he has been leading you on. like going out with you, breaking up with you.. etcc.... than i wold run AWAY! you do not want to get mixed up in a guy, who you are gonig to fall for and hes going to hurt you. You REALLY dont want the first guy u fall in love with to reject you or use you! because trust me it hurts!! alot. i went through a 3yr expierience with a guy that did this 2 me. and i can honestly say i loves him and still do! u never stop loving people you love unless ye kno they do sumthing evil ro crazy.! so becareful hunny! Love is VERY strong! and it can b good or bad!
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hey
now i'm not saying it's not love, but most-likely it's probably not only because love is a very strong feeling that is beyond physical appearance, social, intellectual... etc. it's like nothing you've ever experienced.
it's probably just a really really really big crush. people fall in love once, MAYBE twice if you get really lucky. so i highly doubt you are in love.
do you find any flaws in him? if so, no way you aren't in love. when you're in love you look & talk to that person & can't seem to find any flaws. every flaw they have has turned into something good.
you COULD be, so you never know :]
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Your first sentence: "I strongly love this guy."
Your second sentence: "Is this love?"
If you have to ask, you aren't in love. Love is a powerful feeling, and when you truely love someone, you just know you do. If you question it, more likely than not you aren't really in love.
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It depends on what your definition of Love is. My defintion is having a strong friendship with someone you can trust no matter what. So with my definition I'd answer you with: its not a little pupply love crush, its a BIG CRUSH. If only there was a word for inbetween CRUSH and LOVE. =/
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