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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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OK my friend asked who I think she is going out with?And I told her the person who I think she is!And she wont answer me and I like this boy alot and I have for a long time and she knows that!!! and I dont know if she is lieing or not and if this boy even cares about me?
If she's not answering you, then that's a problem. She might be nervous to tell you and wants to keep the relationship secret for as long as possible, for whatever reason that may be. Don't make assumptions yet, it may or may not be the guy that you like, just because she's not giving you an answer does not mean she's intentionally betraying you, but if she is, then that's not a friend I would suggest you stick with. She might not even be going out with anyone and it could just be a little joke. There are SO MANY possibilities for what could be going on right now, so definetly try to get her to talk to you about it.
And for the part about if the boy you liek cares about you or not ... well do you talk to him ? because if you talk to him, you could ask him about what's going on and that it's really upsetting you and maybe you could tell him that you like him. Theres no other way to tell except by TALKING to them both. Communication is key.
But in my opinion, I don't think you have anything to worry about, at the moment. If she is a good friend and knows you have had a crush on that boy for a while, then she wouldn't be sneaking behind your back and going out with him.
Hope i helped ! and don't sweat it, I'm sure it'll be fine. :] good luck and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating an amazing 2 years. i love him so much and am horrible at picking out gifts...so i was hoping you could help me. i dont want to give him something ive gotten him already and i want it to be something that remdinds him of us not just s shirt or something.
ive gotten him- (stuffed animals, Picture frame w/our picture, made him a blanket, clothes...and other things i cant think of.)
i havent given him a photo album or anything because we dont take any pictures we maybe have 2 and then some prom ones....but i was thinking of giving him a small one and saying we are to have this filled up by the end of the year ((to make him want to take pictures)) we need memories like that.
please help with another idea and tell me if that idea is dumb!.
thanks i really appreciate any answers...none inappropriate.
give me another cheap idea to put with it if you can think of anything. :)
thankss
You should make him a mix CD of his favorite songs and songs that remind you of him. It's cheap and easy :] and that idea is so not dumb :] it's actually really cute. also, you could get a jar of some sort, take [alot of paper] cut them into strips and write things on them, things you'll d for him like... "one back massage", "one kiss", "3 hugs", "one batch of your favorite cookies" and everytime you guys hang out, he just goes in the jar, pulls out a slip of paper, and you have to do whatever it says to do. hahaa i just thought of that and i think its pretty creative and intriguing :]
alright, hope i helped ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! good luck and have fun :] xxo.
I'm getting close to having a new boyfriend after 2 years of being single. With my past boyfriends, the relationship has been very clingy and we spent way too much time together which eventually led to the break ups. I don't know if it was my fault or theirs, but I'm looking for some advice.
I know there aren't specific answers, I just want to hear from your experiences so I can get a good idea of how to go about this.
Appx. how often should you hang out with a boyfriend or girlfriend? Is it necessary to text or call everyday? Is it acceptable for me to hang out one-on-one with my best guy friend while having a boyfriend or vice versa?
Thanks for your advice.
(17/ Female)
It really depends on the people in the relationship and their outside activities.. like my boyfriend and I hardly see eachother, because he has football practice everyday and gets home really late, and I'm out with my friends and such. So, I have the opposite of clingy haha, you just have to find a clear middle. Like you both have to make time for eachother, usually in the beginning you'll either talk more on the phone or hang out more in person. wither way in the beginning it's more intense and not clingy but just like, really wanting to be around eachother. It's how it SHOULD be in the beginning.
Okay so, to answer your questions, first, there's no estimated time that you should hang out with your boyfriend or girlfriend. you should hang out with them whenever you feel like it.. and if that happens to be everyday or every other day or once a week and etc. then so be it. It's whatever you feel is comfrtable, and if it starts to get "clingy" or "obsessive" you'll know because you'll start to get on eachothers nerves and it won't be "fun" anymore, it'll feel more like a habit then anything else, and that's when you should put some space between you two. like take a break but keep talking to him on the phone and on text :] and for hanging out with your best guy friend and vice versa alone, totally acceptable and normal. as long as no cheating is involved, you both are good to go :]
good luck, hope i helped and don't over analyze the relationship, just have fun and do what feels right :] ! have fun and if you need anything else feel free to inbox me, xxo.
What does it mean when someone calls you shady?
Shasy is when you usually keep to yourself, and have like a "low profile" so to speak.
hope i helped ! xxo :]
So obviously The Notebook is one of the greatest movies ever made (and book). I've seen it enough times to know every line and I it never fails to make me cry just a little.
Any other amazingly good romances like this one? I don't really like old movies though.
A few movies I reccomend would be ...
- 27 dresses
- Just like Heaven
- Failure to launch
- A walk to remember
- Because I said so
- Chasing Liberty
- Sweet Home Alabama [with reese witherspoon]
- Bridget Jone's Diary
- Pride and Prejudice
- Say anything
- how to deal
Hope I helped, Have fun ! :] xxo.
I had so far two dreams that i was pregnant. What can this mean? As of now i know that im 100% not pregnant. Im just worried about the dream.
Don't be worrited about the dream :] put your mind at ease, having 2 dreams about being pregnamnt is just your mind telling you that something big is going to happen soon. You know how, having a baby [in real life] would completly change your life and have a HUGE impact on you ? well, basically, having dreams about being pregnanty is telling you the same thing. Right now, some aspects in your life are changing and growing [hence being pregnant and having something grow inside you in your dream] It's also going to be happening naturally and you can't do anything to change what's happening, just like you didn't change that you were pregnant in your dream which also symbolizes that you WANT this change to happen.
No one can tell you EXACTLY what your dreams mean, but it's definetly not bad. You should write down your dreams right when you wake up and write down as much information as possible that you can remember because then you can FULLY describe your dream to us and we can comment on the key points, not just that your pregnant in it :] but dont worry, it's totally normal and fine, it happened to me too once a while ago, so dont worry about it, im fine ! :]
good luck and dont worry about it so much :] dream onnnn. ;] xxo.
i'm a little nervous to text or call my new boyfriend, but i don't want him thinking i don't care since i always wait for him to make that first move. what are some cute things i can text him though?
I had the same problem, and I usually just wait for him to call or text me, but they like it when you take charge also.. it shows that you care :] Don't be nervous, he WANTS you to text and call him. Trust me :]
some cute things you could say could be...
- Hey you :] i was wondering what you were doing ? :]
... that will show that you are thining about him.
- I miss talking to you and i miss you in general :] :/
... my boyfriend likes when i say that 'cause he knows i honestly do miss him
- I miss your facee :]
... self explanatory hahaa
- I wish you were here with mee
Just simple things you say will really put a smile on his face, you can call him cute occasionally to, they like getting complimented :] haha, they think it's "cute" take my word for itt. haha. Also, if you find a cute song that reminds you of him, you can be like, i heard this song and it totally reminds me of youu. then tell him to look it up, boys liek it when you're thinking of them or tings remind you of them.
Hope I helped, good luck and have fun ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
Does anyone know of any songs that are about regretting letting someone go.. or if things don't change they're leaving.. such as 'she wouldn't be gone' by blake shelton.. or 'forgive' by rebecca lynn howard? anything that comes to mind would be a great help! thanks a bunch!
here are a few that match what you're looking for.. :]
- Don't tell me goodbye - Suzie McNeil
- Already Gone - Kelly Clarkson
- I told you so - Carrie Underwood
- damn regret - The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
- Secondhand Serenade - Fall for you
- Don't let me stop you - Kelly Clarkson
- The day we fell apart- Kelly Clarkson
- All you wanted - Michelle Branch
- Everywhere - Michelle Branch
- All over you - The Spill Canvas
If you want anymore, I have a ton :] just inbox me, good luck ... xxo !
theres this guy, but we would only talk online. i feel uncomfortable talking on the phone. know what i mean?
and we never have anything to say.
he asked me out, i said yes.
and it's the summer.
what am i supposed to do!!
help me please!
I have been there and done thaaat. Technology has its perks, but also its downfalls. I know you feel more comfortable only talking to him online because you can think about what you say before you say it and you'll "always" have something to talk about, but if you can't talk to him on the phone, this relationship is going to go no where. The first step is getting over your fear. When you're talking online, bring up talking to him on the phone something like, "Hey, you should call me tonight because I'm not gonna be able to go on the computer, and I like talking to you :]" If you tell him that, he'll be sure to keep any conversation going because of the fact that you like talking to him. But you need to call him, and then after you call him, you guys need to hang out in person. If you don't feel comfortable just hanging out with him alone at first, invite a group of friends out somehwere, maybe your house or the movie.. bowling? mall.. ? sometimes its better to be doing something, liek bowling, because you can have playful competition haha :]
When you call him, and you're afraid you won't have anything to talk about, make a list on a piece of paper of topics you can talk about, it'll make you feel more comfortable. You could also tell him that you wanna play the game 20 questions over the phone.. if you don't know what that is, both of you ask a question to eachother, back and forth. or you can ask him a bunch of "what ifs" or "would you rathers" it always make the conversation more fun.
But you just have to go for it, and talk to him. just dial his number and get over your fear, it's the only way :] I promise it won't be bad or scary. so don't be nervous, you got this.
good luck ! have fun, hope i helped and if you need anythign else feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
there was a dance last week and a girl told me she liked me but there is another girl who i like and i htink she likes me but im not sure. and they are really good friends and 2 screw things up even more i think i like both of them:(
AGE-15
GENDER-MALE
You might just like the girl who told you she liked you because ... she told you. it might just be that you like the attention from her, because you liked the other girl even before the other one told you she liked you. I mean, that's alot of pressure when a girl tells you they like you.. it gets you thinking and since you sound like a good guy, you really don't want to hurt either of them.
However, I agree with the advice given below me, you should definetly make a list or at least ask yourself questions like..
- who am i more comfortable around?
- who makes me laugh more?
- who do i trust more?
- who is the one thats on my mind more?
- why do i like these girls?
- who do i find more attractive?
- who can i picture myself in a relationship with?
you can't think about how going out with one of them might hurt the other one, yeah it's reallyREALLY nice of you to care about that and their feelings, but sometimes you need to put everyone else aside and think about yourself and what you REALLY want. not thinking about the consequences.
Hope I helped, if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! :] good luck, xxo.
please give me some tips on getting a girl
Number one rule: always be yourself.
because if you act liek someone you're not, they may or may not end up liking the guy you really aren't. so always be true to yourself. with that said, here are some tips :] ...
- make sure you can participate in conversations and have your in put. you NEED to be able to make conversation because it is SO BORING when a guy can't hold a conversation and girls lose interest when that happens.
- making the girl laugh. laughing is the direct way to get to a girls heart haha, being funny makes everything fun and carefree, yuh know ? so crack some jokes when NECESSARY or say something that you know will get her laughing, it will make everything more comfortable :]
- make her smile. if you can get a girl to really smile, she will open up to you and know that you want her to smile, give her a few compliments that you really mean. Don't say something like, oh i like your shoes. if you don't really like her shoes haha. say something meanigful like, "your eyes are really pretty." but only if you mean it, because girls know when you're lying. its easy for us to tell :] haha.
- when talking to her in person, always make eye contact. it shows that you're really concentrated on the conversation going on and she'll love the fact that your eyes are only on her :] haha.
- DO NOT be an e-go maniac, yeah being a little cocky shows your masculinity but if you go over the board with it, she will be turned off. no one likes an incosiderate jerk who is in love with himself more than they are into the girl.
- Dress nicely. don't just look like you walked straight out of bed haha, that's never attractive. look presentable :]
- BE FLIRTY ! its always fun to flirt, us girls love it, and its playful :] fun for us. we love to flirttt. so go along with it but not over the top, just subtly.
anyways, I hope I helped ! good luck and have funn :] xxo.
ok so my friend that i've known for a couple years met a new friend when middle school started. I wasn't in her class at the begining of the year, but thgen when i got moved to herr class she introduced me to her new friend. for a couple of weeks we were all reall good friends, then they started hanging out together and leaving me out of everything. I don't know what to do, because if i try to talk to them they just get mad of don't listen to me ! help !
Oh maan, i know how that feels :[ I'm sorry, but okay, here's my advice for you... I don't think that you're friend understands that she can have more than one good friend. So I think that you should definetly talk to her about how you're feeling. But the downside to this sitution is that she might be changing and moving on to different friends, or "ditching" you. It sucks, I know. But if she can leave you, don't let it get to you, stand up for yourself. You're a great person, don't let two girls ruin it for you, this is YOUR life and it's what you make of it. I know talking to them might get them mad, but it shouldn't, they should listen and understand, as long as you're being nice about it, they shouldnt have a problem with any of it. Honestly, they don't sound like good friends, and take it from me, they're not worth it and they do NOT deserve your friendship. Go out and hang with other people because in the long run, history repeats itself, and your "friends" will probably ditch you again. You deserve waaaay better, and you'll be so much happier with people who will want to be around you and not just leave you. From past experiences, I would know.
But if you REALLY want to be their friend, just keep trying to talk to them. communication is key. you could say something like, "hey, i know you don't really want to hear this, but I'm feeling like you guys don't want to be my friend anymore and if that's the case then just tell me, because you guys leave me out of everything and it hurts." if you open up to them, they might actually feel bad ... so just talk to them. and you're not nothing :] you're better than them and would NEVER do that to any of your other friends.
good luck, hope i helped ! let me know how it goes and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
I swear it was love at first sight, because ever since the first day I met jason he's the only guy I ever thought about. The problem is we're in a non dating relationship and its his choice! One day I went to see him and ran into a few of his freinds who said he was with this really hot girl and I never said anything to him about it because we're not official. But he knows I care about him more than anything in the world but he will not cave he is not going to have a real relationship with me now and maybe ever. I feel like the girl he can fall back on but he says its not like that. He says that he cares about me and im the only girl he does anything with but he's not ready to commit. Now there is this other guy chris he is my ex and we just started talking again like a month ago. He told me the first day we started talking again that he missed me so much and when I told him about jason he said he would wait until I realized we were meant for eachother. and he is doing exactly that! chris calls me every day and we talk on the phone for hours, he drops his plans for me every time I want to see him, and he tells me every single time we talk that he loves me. This is so hard I love jason and he's the one I really want but I dont think I will ever be abled to have him. Then there is chris my first real love and best friend who does everything for me and makes me feel so special, but sometimes when were together I cant help but think he's not right cause he's not jason. What should I do?
You already know in your heart who you want to be with, I can tell just by what you've told me. You want to be with chris. You might think that Jason is the one you want, but honestly, he's not. He doesn't treat you right, and to him, you're just the "other girl" or the "back-up plan" and no guy should ever treat a girl that way. Just by the way you talk about chris and how he's always here for you, I can tell puts a smile on your face, now compare the way chris makes you feel [at this moment] to the way jason does ... I'm gonna bet that thinking of jason doesn't really give you warm fizzy feelings haha. Think about it, who would you rather be with, some jerk who is giving you the excuse of "not wanting to commit" but is really going around and finding other girls besides you or a nice guy who loves and ACTUALLY means it when he says he cares about you and proves it by sticking with you and comforting you through this hard time. I think the answer is clear as day.. but it's up to you to make that decision. Things with jason didn't work out, he's an asshole, obviously, and you shouldnt wait around for a guy who isn't waiting for you. You deserve better, someone like chris.
And it's gonna be hard to get over jason, it is. I'm not gonna lie. But you can do it. Spend more time with chris. yes, jason will always be in your heart, but there is plenty of room for other people in there too. Give chris another shot, see if he's worth it, and it's totally normal if sometimes when youre with chris you get that sad empty feeling because hes not who you want him to be, but that will pass, because in time, you'll realize that you're soooo much better off without jerks like jason and that you're one of the very lucky people who have found someone that truly cares about them [like chris]
hope i helped ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. I'd love to know what your decision will be and how everything works out [which it will work out fine, i promise.] good luck hun ! xxo. :]
okay. im a 7th grader. and all the 7th grade guys are basicly complete assholes. and i just like as friends. i met some 6th graders. and there really nice and cute and pretty cool. this one likes me and i wanna go out with him. but hes in 6th grade and all the 7th grade guys are now always like "omg hes a fag he tries to be cool" and stuff. idk what to do!
It doesn't matter what grade he is in, if you like him, then go for it :] you can't help who you fall for, it just happens, and you'll see once you get older, the peopel who are making fun of you and him will date people younger or older than them. it's totally normal. dont worry about it ;] my boyfriend is still 15... he's gonna be 16 in 4 days, and I'm gonna be 17 in october, so ... hahaa, he's younger than me, and I dont care :] almost all of my boyfriends have been younger than me, he's just the youngest, and we are happy :]
hope i helped and good luck ! dont think about it so much, just go with the flow and follow your heart, if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
I just finished the Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer and I loved it! I really want to find books that have the same kind of romance that Edward Cullen and Bella Swan do in the Twilight series. I also like Bella and Edward's romance because it is so impossible (if you know what I mean)! Please help me find a book to match these qualities.
Sarah dessen is my FAVORITE author of all time, and any book by her will get you hooked more than twilight got you hooked, trust me. so look her up on google, hahaa. books that you'll like are [that I have read, so I'd know haha]..
- blood and chocolate by Annette Curtis
- Evernight by Claudia Gray
- Dark Lover by J. R. Ward
- Two way street by lauren Barnholdt
- Looking for Alaska by John Green
- If I have a Wicked Stepmother, Where's my Prince? - Melissa Kantor
- Perfect you by Elziabeth Scott
- The book of luke by Jenny O'Connell
- Lost It by Kristen Tracy
- Take Me There by Susane Colasanti
- Evermore: The Immortals by Alyson Noel
- Perfect Chemistry by Simone Elkeles
- Forever by Judy Blume
- Meet Me At The Boardwalk by Erin Haft
- Kiss Me Kill Me by Lauren Henderson
- Blue Bloods by Melissa De La Cruz
If you want anymore, I have a bunch :] hahaa just inbox me, good luck and read on ! xxo.
i need a song to dedicate to a gurl i like but she has a boyfriend. What song should i dedicate
here are a few for your situation... :]
- fall out boy: grand theft autumn
- mayday parade: miserable at best
- Rick Springfield: jessie's girl
- Carolina Liar: show me what I'm looking for
- James Blunt: you're beautiful
- David Archuletta: Crush
- Bowling for soup: girl all the bad guys want
- Death cab for cutie: I will possess your heart
if you want some other ones, I have a bunch ! just inbox me :] good luck, hope i helped ! have fun, xxo.
What's the best brand of peanut butter?
Jiffy, hands downn :] no competitionnnn.
:] xxo.
16/f
My best friend lets call her jane and I are the type of bff's that where ever we went everyone noticed us. We use to do everything together and whenever one of us needed the other we always had each others back...that was until janes new boyfriend came into the picture. You see her boyfriend ruined our friendship. He envied the type of friendship me and jane had so he became controlling of her and started telling jane who to be friends with and who not to be. I became furious and ended the friendship between me and jane after she failed to stand up for me when he'd call me rude names or act up towards me. Jane and I ever since that day never spoke to each other and grew hate for one another..I am going to admit that I messed up big time..I was so upset with the whole situation that I started bad mouthing her and her boyfriend to all my friends..telling everyone what she did and the type of guy he was ..everyone grew hate towards her and him because of how they treated me...now jane a yr later found out her picture perfect boyfriend had cheated on her so she started to realize what she had done and who she lost ..me. She approached me and askd me for forgiveness..me being the nice person that I am forgave her and everyone as in my friends grew hate towards me for bad mouthing her and then later becoming friends with her ..I decided to ignore the people who were there for me when she wasn't and tried rebuilding what me and jane had missed for that half yr that we didn't talk..I just found out 2 days ago that jane went back to her cheating rude boyfriend and now I lost her again andd the people I went to for support..I'm left alone and I feel like I have no one in the word to talk to at school or at home jane was the person I went to with my problems but she backstabbed me again.. How do I gain the people I lost because of her..and how do I learn not to be so forgiving?? I don't want to go back to school in a month because I know I lost my friends and its no fun eating bymyself or not having anyone to talk to ='(
People are jerks :[ im sorry, this really sucks. But I know how it feels to be the one lied to and excluded and basically shunned. The people who stood by you should understand that you forgave her because she WAS your best friend, and you didn't want one fight to ruin everything, even though you bad-mouthed her to them, you were upset and vulnerable, and hurt, they most likely would have done the same exact thing in your position. They aren't innocent either, I mean, they didn't stop you when you were talking about her, and I'm sure they chimed in also, so now that they called you out for going back to her, they did the same exact thing .. and are now friends with jane. So with that said, they are being the biggest hypocrites. But anyways, it's not your fault that this all happend, you seem like a really nice person, and you were taken advantage of by jane. she came crawling back to you, begging for forgiveness, because she KNEW you'd give it to her. Honestly, it sounds like she had this whole thing planned out, because if jane wanted your friendship back, she'd tell the people who stood by you, that are now standing by her, that none of this is your fault and that she understands. but she isn't sticking up for you. none of them are. If I were you, I'd get new friends, honestly. Why be surrounded by a bunch of people who love to hate one person. It's so elementary school and you're obviously better than that :] but if you really want to be their friends again, at least let jane go. she doesn't deserve your friendship. Try talking to one of the people who stood by you when things were bad with jane one on one, and have no one else around. tell her everything and ow you feel .. everything you told us advicenators, tell that one person. then start meeting up with each person one on one ... face to face, explaining EVERYTHING. even if they dont want to hanfg out with you, try your hardest to, or, call them. and then hang out with all of them somewhere you can all talk and just let it out. communication is the only way you'll get through to them at this point. I know revenge is sweet, but right now, this isn't the time for that. and when you go back to school, you won't be all alone, I promise that you'll have at least ONE person to talk to, no matter who he/she is.
When you lose something, it has the potential to be found. Maybe go on facebook [if you have one, or some kind of editing photos thing] like picnik and edit a photo of you and all your friends who had stood by you ... make it really nice and memorabe with a best friends saying, something about sticking together through the good times and the bad. and maybe give them all a copy or tag them in it or something. I know that'd really pull on their heart strings :]
you can do this, and don't worry about school just yet, you won't be the loner. good luck, hope i helped ! tell me how it goes, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
So there is this guy right and well we have been go out for 7 months now and well I fell in love with him and I don't know if he loves me back...and I like him and all I just don't know if I want to love him because I really don't want to get hurt...so what do I do?
If you don't know if he loves you by now, after 7 months, you better ask him haha, because the worst part of falling in love is falling in love with a person who has NO intentions of falling in love with you too. So you should definetly talk to him about that one, and it might ease your worried mind about wondering if "you really love him" or not. Sometimes we try to convince ourselves that we're not in love because we don't want to be vulnerable and end up getting hurt. but loving someone is a risk you have to be willing to take, and if your doubting your love for him, than you need to re-evaluate your relationship and talk to him about it. It's okay to second guess yourself and question yourself about loving someone, it DOES NOT mean you don't love them, so im going to have disagree with the previous advice given. you're most likely just scared that you're in love with a person who might not love you back. so talk to him, it will ease your mind. :] when you're in love you just know :]
good luck, hope i helped ! oh, and dont worry so much, if it's meant to be, it will be :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
I'm a female, and 15 years old. should I forgive my boyfriend, if he thinks he got another girl pregnant? because this only happened one time, and he says he loves me, and it wasn't he's fault that this happened, because the girl forced him to do it with her.
You can do a billion times better than that guy. He obviously is just using you and he'll probably get another girl "almost pregnant" and then come running back to you, saying how much he's sorry and that she "forced him" thinking that you'll just forgive him and be the backup plan that he is making you. Don't fall for it. You're a strong person and you're only 15, so you'll find someone else, don't worry about it, he doesn't deserve your love, he is lying to you ... I really HIGHLY doubt that the girl forced him into having sex with her, theres just no way that could happen ... I mean, he could have stopped it ... and plus, that'd be called rape, which he should report if it WAS real [which, 99.9% wasnt] teach him a valuable lesson and show him that you're not stupid and you know what he's all about. no matter how much he tries to convince you, don't trust him. Boys will tell you what you want to hear if they think it will get them out of the situation theyre in, just a little heads up :]
and girl, you can do waaaaaaaay better :] good luck, hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.