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im stuck between 2 girls
there was a dance last week and a girl told me she liked me but there is another girl who i like and i htink she likes me but im not sure. and they are really good friends and 2 screw things up even more i think i like both of them:(
AGE-15
GENDER-MALE
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You might just like the girl who told you she liked you because ... she told you. it might just be that you like the attention from her, because you liked the other girl even before the other one told you she liked you. I mean, that's alot of pressure when a girl tells you they like you.. it gets you thinking and since you sound like a good guy, you really don't want to hurt either of them.
However, I agree with the advice given below me, you should definetly make a list or at least ask yourself questions like..
- who am i more comfortable around?
- who makes me laugh more?
- who do i trust more?
- who is the one thats on my mind more?
- why do i like these girls?
- who do i find more attractive?
- who can i picture myself in a relationship with?
you can't think about how going out with one of them might hurt the other one, yeah it's reallyREALLY nice of you to care about that and their feelings, but sometimes you need to put everyone else aside and think about yourself and what you REALLY want. not thinking about the consequences.
Hope I helped, if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! :] good luck, xxo.
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Make a list of pros and cons for each girl.
I guess, if one girl has more pros than the other, I would go out with that one.
But honestly, just because you like someone doesn't mean that you have to date them. So, you really don't have to date either, and then you wouldn't end up hurting one by dating the other.
Sometimes apathy is the best decision.
--Jack
(17/m)
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ask the other girl if she likes you.
think of the qualities.
whose a better person.
make a list!
i hope i helped(:
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