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How do I not Love him?
So there is this guy right and well we have been go out for 7 months now and well I fell in love with him and I don't know if he loves me back...and I like him and all I just don't know if I want to love him because I really don't want to get hurt...so what do I do?
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If you don't know if he loves you by now, after 7 months, you better ask him haha, because the worst part of falling in love is falling in love with a person who has NO intentions of falling in love with you too. So you should definetly talk to him about that one, and it might ease your worried mind about wondering if "you really love him" or not. Sometimes we try to convince ourselves that we're not in love because we don't want to be vulnerable and end up getting hurt. but loving someone is a risk you have to be willing to take, and if your doubting your love for him, than you need to re-evaluate your relationship and talk to him about it. It's okay to second guess yourself and question yourself about loving someone, it DOES NOT mean you don't love them, so im going to have disagree with the previous advice given. you're most likely just scared that you're in love with a person who might not love you back. so talk to him, it will ease your mind. :] when you're in love you just know :]
good luck, hope i helped ! oh, and dont worry so much, if it's meant to be, it will be :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
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I agree with Laura below me. If you were REALLY in love with him, you'd have no doubt in your mind.
So, as for not knowing if you should love him, well, you don't have to worry about loving him right now, because you don't at this moment.
If you're afraid of commitment, and you don't want to get hurt, well, you're kind of over-reacting about nothing right now.
I guess if you feel like not loving him is hurting him, talk to him about it, and see what he feels about it. And, if you're feeling things won't work out, then end the relationship.
--Jack
(17/m)
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I don't think you're in love. When you're really in love, you have no say in it. You fall in love, and that's it. Sorry if I sound rude, but you're not in love with him if you think you can chose to be.
-Laura (17-f)
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Alright, you're inlove with a guy who you're not sure is in love with you, and you want to not love him, so you don't get hurt. Well emotions have alot to do with this, you have to control them, and if you're scared of getting hurt, stop spending alot of time with him, brake it down. Keep more time to yourself and friends, find other things to do other then to think about him, talk to him, or hang out with him.
It's hard to not love the people we fall inlove with, and trust me I know how hard it is. You just have to try and get over him before he does something that could penetrate your heart.
If he loves you back though, perhaps the time apart and away from him.. He'll realiz he loves you and he'll maybe come out and tell you, and you can just return to that emotional state called "Like/Love/Lust"
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