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i dont knwo if she is lieing?or what?
OK my friend asked who I think she is going out with?And I told her the person who I think she is!And she wont answer me and I like this boy alot and I have for a long time and she knows that!!! and I dont know if she is lieing or not and if this boy even cares about me?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Once upon a time I was dating a scum bag who dumped be for my BEST friend. In the end and to this day I lost both of them!
This isn't your situation but it is an example of how men can walkin and take everything from you if you let them. SO. You have a few options:
Opt #1: Choose the Boy over your friend. This means you fight for him. Confront him ask him out, ect. Just so you can have him and not your friend.
Opt #2: Ignore your feelings and watch painfully as your friend dates the guy of your dreams
Opt #3: My personal choice: Tell your friend somthing along the lines of " I like him too, and I know that sounds awfull but I do. However I wouldn't give up our friendship for a guy. So... Lets make a pack whoever he likes best can have him no questions. Because guys will come and go but friens are there forever!
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I agree with the columnist who told you to tell your friend you like this boy. Be honest with your friend and let her know you like him.
If she's a true friend, she'll tell you if it's him.
-Laura (17-f)
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If she's not answering you, then that's a problem. She might be nervous to tell you and wants to keep the relationship secret for as long as possible, for whatever reason that may be. Don't make assumptions yet, it may or may not be the guy that you like, just because she's not giving you an answer does not mean she's intentionally betraying you, but if she is, then that's not a friend I would suggest you stick with. She might not even be going out with anyone and it could just be a little joke. There are SO MANY possibilities for what could be going on right now, so definetly try to get her to talk to you about it.
And for the part about if the boy you liek cares about you or not ... well do you talk to him ? because if you talk to him, you could ask him about what's going on and that it's really upsetting you and maybe you could tell him that you like him. Theres no other way to tell except by TALKING to them both. Communication is key.
But in my opinion, I don't think you have anything to worry about, at the moment. If she is a good friend and knows you have had a crush on that boy for a while, then she wouldn't be sneaking behind your back and going out with him.
Hope i helped ! and don't sweat it, I'm sure it'll be fine. :] good luck and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
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It could really go either way. We don't know what's going on, so the only advice to be given is that you should tell your best friend that you really like the boy and that you want to know who she's dating. If she's not answering you, it could mean that she's hiding something. Tell her that you want to be able to trust her, but you won't be able to if she's keeping things from you.
Darby(:
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