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conflicting days


Question Posted Wednesday April 19 2006, 6:44 pm

the race for the cure in tyler tx is the same weekend as my banquet. were supposed to go b/c my mom and grandma both had it and my grandma lives in tyler. im not going b/c i have banquet and i have a date who i REALLY wanna go w/ but now i dont know how im gonna get there if my mom and sister arent gonna be here i dunno if my dad could take me and i feel guilty for not going cuz its mothers day weekend. is it ok for me not to go and go to my banquet instead?

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Additional info, added Wednesday April 19 2006, 9:00 pm:
it was really hard for me to ask this guy and when he said yes i was so happy if feel horrible if i had to tell him i couldnt go.

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military45 answered Sunday April 23 2006, 9:50 am:
I would go with your family. have him come with you to the tyler tx thing. and if he dont want to go then tell him ur going and thats final
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helpmebrenda answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 8:32 pm:
Hi there

I think you need to stick with family on this issue.

I understand how much you want to go to the banquet, but at what cost? This seems to be VERY important to your mom and your grandma.

Because they have both suffered from this disease, they probably feel so lucky (as should you:), and they want to help other people and their families. You have to understand why it's so important for you to go.

Boyfriends/girlfriends will come and go out of your life forever (some will stay awhile), but your family is there forever. I think you should race.

Take care,

Brenda

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AmmoniaImmunity answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 7:11 pm:
I know that you may find this banquet and date to be quite a big deal and all, but I don't think it'd be ok to go to the banquet instead. This seems like it would be kind of important to your mom and grandma for you to join them in the race for a cure. You're contributing to saving lives and you're making you're mom and grandma happy. Plus, you would totally feel guilty if you chose a date over family. And you could just go on another date some other time. Trust me that it'll all work out better if you race for a cure.

-Andrew(the best)

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